waiting to hear from hubby!!!

[~~~water~~~ 0]

omg that sucks!!! how devastating... http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=3896

this post is at the top of the mena forum it talks about this type of situation.... I wish you the best stay strong

Edited October 9, 2008 by ~~~water~~~

[panterchen 1]

I really don't understand how any US officer can be so humilating to a human being who is in love and wants to see his soon-to-be-wife very soon. Can't they just call the US petitioner and talk to her??

I mean, common'. I am really sorry this is happening to you and anyone else who had the same experience.

[Nita&Assaad 0]

I feel this too Martini... I always think about this, being pre-judged because of being muslim!!

I feel bad because this happens!!!

Nita

Hi Martini I am so sorry that you are going through this... My husband was kind of interrogated at his interview too, but not about our reigion but our last name.... My Husband felt terrible too and when he got home he was heart broken like he said something wrong or something and couldn't believe that someone can be this mean! I dont know why some CO feel like they can treat other human beings like that, but you have to try to stay positive and strong for your hubby!! Get with contacting your senators and congressman and try to look for a lawyer that can help maybe there... I wish I could be more helpful, but I feel you because we just went through this ourselves and we both had our interviews the same day 9/29, maybe this day was not a lucky day

I dont know you but I want to say, that I am with you and understand you!

Hugs

Nita

we'll my husband "mr calm" is in tears and so humiliated and upset. I have never ever seen him this way. We were certain that when they told him to return with his passport and 2 pictures it meant he was getting his visa. But it turned into a terrible interrogation. He did give her my bank statements and she said she would look at them. But she asked him many questions about his religion she asked him if I knew he was muslim (duh!) she asked if I knew he prayed on fridays, she asked why he chose an american wife and why we met online. She asked him about the emails (not the ones I sent with my package but only the ones he handed her) she said she thinks he fabricated them all. No matter what he said to her to the contrairy, She told him she did not believe him and she was sending our package back to nvc and telling them she belived he is using me for a visa! I guess I will contact my congressman or senator..or both, but I don't think I have read anyone having an interview like this. She was nice at his first interview and only had questions reguarding my income. I have my own feelings clearly but was so shocked to see him this way (tears etc) that I just consoled him and stuffed my own. He wanted to go to sleep and said he was exhausted and we would talk tomorrow....He said why does she hate muslims? what is wrong with me having my religion? we are all free to have our own religion...does she think I am bin laudin or I am a bad arab? that is when he really began to cry and had to leave the room. I feel so bad for him...she made him feel like a really bad person and I think he missunderstands why they treat applicants like that.....He seems clueless about the whole "visa fraud" thing......he does not seem to know about guys using women for visa's etc.......I feel so bad...can any of you advise us?

thank you...I am worried he will think he is going to be perjudiced here...because in the beginning he would ask me if he would stand out in the USA and I told him no there are alot of arabs, muslims etc.. here even some who wear hijabs etc.....

[Martiniolive 0]

We are already married so in our case they are keeping us from being US tax payers! I will be forced to sell a good business here (16 years owning) and a home and moving to morocco.....they are driving lagitamate people out of the USA...they just don't know.

I really don't understand how any US officer can be so humilating to a human being who is in love and wants to see his soon-to-be-wife very soon. Can't they just call the US petitioner and talk to her??

I mean, common'. I am really sorry this is happening to you and anyone else who had the same experience.

We are already married so in our case they are keeping us from being US tax payers! I will be forced to sell a good business here (16 years owning) and a home and moving to morocco.....they are driving lagitamate people out of the USA...they just don't know.

I really don't understand how any US officer can be so humilating to a human being who is in love and wants to see his soon-to-be-wife very soon. Can't they just call the US petitioner and talk to her??

I mean, common'. I am really sorry this is happening to you and anyone else who had the same experience.

WOW between my long finger nails and my anxiety I can't spell without spell check to help me...good thin I will be learning darija soon LOL