Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)

[JaHoney 3]

what is really going on, VJ is boring again????

HELLLLOOOOO?????

[JaHoney 3]

hey sol, hey sonshyne

i cant stand when vj is boring like this, whats going on?

[solsoeur 0]

hey honey nothing going on still trying to get my head to stop itching! I'm tired of all these issues. I know you are ready for JA honey I think I am lol so you decided to go with braids huh?

Edited October 7, 2008 by solsoeur

[JaHoney 3]

you know what , sol, when i went to ja last time and my braids were itching me crazy, well i went swimming in the ocean and then i came back and washed my hair to free it of the salt and i swear my scalp didnt itch anymore its like it removed all the ####### in the braids and my hair and it didnt get all tangly and afro.y...lol..you ready for JA and to see garth

[solsoeur 0]

I'm trying to keep my mind clear so I won't get all panicky and start trippin on Garth. I am a little upset with him right now. How bout I have been sending him letters since July and he has not read ONE letter! Talking about he has not had time to go to the post office! Since JULY?! Then he gone say which letter did you put the itenirary in? Like I d@mn know that was i don't know how many letters ago. Then he had his sister go get the letters from the post office and look for the info. Ok what is she read them?! What if I would have put some ole freaky stuff in those letters?! I'm glad I didn't I don't want his family thinking i'm some ole ferrin freak! ROFL Man I could just slap him right now.

Edited October 7, 2008 by solsoeur

[JaHoney 3]

i would be a little upset about that too and would probably light into his azz, dont worry bout no dyam itinerary if you cant even take the time to read a letter. i had been writing d quite a bit too and he was writing too but not as freq until i had one of my PMS fits on him about his lack of letter writing in conjunction with mine and now he is muuuuccchhh better about it.

[solsoeur 0]

i would be a little upset about that too and would probably light into his azz, dont worry bout no dyam itinerary if you cant even take the time to read a letter. i had been writing d quite a bit too and he was writing too but not as freq until i had one of my PMS fits on him about his lack of letter writing in conjunction with mine and now he is muuuuccchhh better about it.

Oh I fixed his butt when I found out he still had not picked up the letters from July. I quit writing him at the end of August. I wasl like until I get a letter I'm not writing no more letters! LOL needless to say no corresponding has taken place ok nobody told him to have me mail the dang letters to Negril and he wroking in Ochi. That was his smart doing! MEN are something else!!!!

[JaHoney 3]

yep there pretty special

[solsoeur 0]

honey what time are you supposed to get to JA on Monday?

[jawi876 2]

SEX!!!

[JaHoney 3]

okay, dilemma at my other job working foster care, after continuing to go thru charts, i discovered one of my kids( foster care) has ODD, oppositional defiant disorder, which is extremely difficult to treat or even work with, mind you this kid is 7, he cusses, bites, pinches, fights, poops on himself on the regular, he also runs and goes awol quite frequently at least 4 to 5 times in a day. The boy has the common sense of a housefly and does not have the correlation in his brain about cause and effect. Now mind you this is the kid, that was found hogtied in the garage, i can only imagine what other things he has experienced, BUT i posed today that our agency is not the one too treat him ( bold on my part i know as im still new) BUT when this child runs, he runs into the street, into peoples homes, in vacant structures, etc. He has almost been hit by a car,numerous times. As a social worker, health and safety and advocating is drilled into your brain constantly to absolve yourself of liability. Since im not in the social worker role, but the manager role at this job i can only point out what i see as a huge liability to this agency. The child arrived in January, it has been documented he has ran probably 300 times since arriving and all we can do is follow the child and try to coerce, plead, beg him to return. I told them today in mgrs meeting, obviously this placement is not meeting his needs, they have made no progress with this child since he arrived and i feel that in a sense they are just as guilty of neglect, for not being able to keep him safe. I have told them when, not if he gets hit by a car, or assaulted out on the street, i will be damned if my name is splashed across the front page of the newspaper for not providing adequate care. My dilemma is should i continue to hang in there and believe that they will make changes,( its all tied to budget and funding) or get out while i can with my license and name in tact. the job i enjoy( to a degree) and the kids i want to help, but i see many potential red flags??? what would you guys do? all opinions appreciated. for the sake of chatting and having something to chat about.

[solsoeur 0]

SEX!!!

jawi was that a supposed to be a suddle message?

[JaHoney 3]

sol, 1155 am

[Jonesie 1]

SEX!!!

:rofl:

(in my Charlie Blacks voice)

Buddy buddy buddy buddy in the pum pum...

[solsoeur 0]

sunny isn't that agency monitored by a government agency? Why don't you report them to the overseeing agency and let them do their own audit then they will see the issues and take the proper steps hopefully.