Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)

[1luv 1]

morning all! TGIF

I am at my desk drinking some plaintain parridge

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

morning all! TGIF

I am at my desk drinking some plaintain parridge

Me 2....girl, aint it sooooooo GOOD....that's all I can stomach right now.

[sus 70]

Lawny are you feeling any better?

[1luv 1]

morning all! TGIF

I am at my desk drinking some plaintain parridge

Me 2....girl, aint it sooooooo GOOD....that's all I can stomach right now.

Mi nuh want it fi dun

Are u feeling any better?

[sus 70]

Morning 1luv!

Hi Drea, I see you down there!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

1luv I feel horrible

Sus, my remidies are not working.

[wakeywakeup 1]

I was just reading the conversation ya'll put up about family and how they took the news of your up coming nuptials.

I know it sounds terrible but she honestly doesn't appear to be happy that I'm married. I think my mom liked the thought of Dwayne when he wasn't here. Their initial meeting was an ok one. We went to her house and Dwayne trimmed hedges, bushes, cut grass, fixed a step, changed light bulbs, and fried fish at her house. The second trip was during wedding shopping and I noticed a change - no clue why other than we were happy and kissing and holding hands. A few weeks ago she called and he answered and said, "hey mom everything good?" When I got on the phone she said, "I wish you would just answer the phone when I call cause I can't understand a d&mn thing he is saying!" Just rude and facety

I hate that but it's her choice to miss out on this exciting time in my life. She is loner and only allows her kids to get close to her so now she is seeing it as some sort betryal. A part of her is happy for me and the other part misses having me all to herself

She said to me a few weeks ago that the bible says cleve to your husband but you have to be careful that you don't forget your REAL family.

It hurts him and that makes it hurt me. Not all all families come around fast but I'm praying that this situation will get better. AND if it don't ohh well I just have to keep it moving as you all have said.

Wakey, I am sorry to hear about the situation with your Mom. My family knows nothing about my relationship yet - I have never been one to bring the men that I date around my family in the past - I don't know why, just never did - my brother is the same way.

My parents never have dealt well with the IR situation - my mother handles it a little better than my father ever did (could write a book on that one ) - When I was engaged to my ex, they weren't happy - my father wouldn't talk about it - My mother started to warm up to it, and would talk to him on the phone and email him, etc.... but with everything that happened between me and my ex and those few years of my life, it didn't improve her view of IR relationships or LDRs at all - So I just kept quiet about this one. I still haven't figured out exactly how I am going to bring it up, lol - I think that eventually she will be okay with it, but it's going to take time. It's funny - I have friends of all races and my mother welcomes them all with open arms (so did my Dad) - But dating, it's a different issue.

I came to the realization a long time ago that my happiness had to come first - I love my family, but if they love me unconditionally as they should, they should be happy for me if I am happy, regardless of who I am with - if they expect me to put their needs before my own, it's not unconditional love.

Me 2 Sus. It took me a long time to grasp that. My parents and family don't say much...other than...."lawddddd a wah u a do wid dat deh pickney"...now, some of his family members who have since chillled out since I put them in their place (except for the Aunt in New York)...

Sunny, why the heck your brother asked if Ray bring back goats, you should have told him yes. I brought fish to eat for breakfast once and (the head is on it)....on of my co-workers had the nerve to ask me if it was safe to eat that...I just picked up the fish and bit into the head.

:rofl:Lawny if I worked with you I think I would go home wet everyday from peeing on myself with all the laughter!!!

[*SunRay* 1]

Lawny, because my brother is STUPID! LOL His girlfriend is spanish. I said does she have any illegal immigrants in her family. We mess with each other all the time.

Mawnin Yardies!

[shrewdgal 0]

PART B, ON 129F, WHY DO I HAVE TO LIST HIS KIDS IF IM NOT FILING FOR THEM RIGHT NOW AND IF THERE ISNT ENOUGH ROOM THEN WHAT, ADD A PIECE OF PAPER TO PUT THE ADDITIONAL NAMES?

how many kids does he have?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Wakey;

You know I'm crazy. Sunny knows I'm crazy. The plantin porridge is looking at me and everything is in slow motion and everyone is talking like the people on Charlie Brown

[shrewdgal 0]

I PICKED HONEYCHILD, CAUSE I COULDNT THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE...FOR MY SCREEN NAME...LOL

i picked shrewdgal

because shrewd means discerning and well...im a gal!

hahahah

[JaHoney 3]

morning ladies

feel better lawny

sunny, how goes it?

mi belly still isnt right, cant quite describe the feeling, just not right

[shrewdgal 0]

Lita;

I'm thankful for Marcel everyday. He cooks about 3 times a week, mostly for my son. Whatever my son wants to eat he cooks it. I hate cooking, but I love to CLEAN.

good thing..because if your jamaican man is like mine he makes a NASTY mess when he cooks

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Screen name...........

Trelawny, where I was born...Trelawny, Jamaica parish know for good yams and good sensi.

[shrewdgal 0]

I love to clean the house and I love doing laundry. I also love a clean bathroom...maybe something is wrong with me. A few weeks ago my mom's friend got ill and well, her husband is what they call "old school stubborn jamaican man".... he does absolutely NOTHING. She works as an RN and he's an electrician. Anyway, I went over their to clean their house took me 6 hours...house wasn't bad, but the man just sat there and looked at me the entire time. If I was out of his sight, he would stand where he could see me...you know this fool had the NERVE to ask mi "WAH FI DINNAH"....I told him, tide, bleach, ammonia and one sponge. I'm no longer welcome over there. He tell the church people dem seh mi FACTEY

We are peas in a pod, girlie. I look forward to days off so I can scrub down the kitchen and bathroom. I just love when they sparkle.

, i do too. I am looking forward to the cleaning session I am having this weekend for my house to get ready for my new "roommate".

I just screamed inside!

WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!