Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)

[Islandwoman 0]

SJB, im thinking in april when my kids go on spring break....LOL... dont know where yet??

Lita, i gotta sit down with my mom again, and talk to her and have dwayne call her again so she can continue to see we are serious, she is getting up in age and talks to her great aunt who is in her 80's everyday she tells me aunt ann said such and such about them jamaicans and how they love american women and blah blah blah... i know she doesnt know any better and my mom is getting better with me semi educating her on the process but it still gets old and sometimes i just keep how things are progressing to my self, i share primarily with you all on VJ.

Lita next week is D day so i will give myself a five day window after the proposed date and if no happs then i will take that test. I tend to be sick early on in both of my pregnancies so im kinda sorta worried,,,,LOL...

but having a pickney wouldnt be the worst thing in the world... i guess

Oooo...and if next week is D day that means you were there smack dab in the middle of your cycle...

[Shemmy 4]

All this pregnancy talk is making my skin itch! Maybe we should talk about something else. Like everyone's plans for the holidays or something safe...

I know

Manya, any luck on the job search in atl?

Nope, decided to wait until 2010. My daughter has 2 years left in high school. We're going down to visit after Christmas.

[JaHoney 3]

you know what wakey im kinda anticipating the same, as im an only child my mom is used to being all up and in my business with me and the kids, having a man in my life may change the dynamic of her just popping thru, etc i hope that she can be happy for me though

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

I was just reading the conversation ya'll put up about family and how they took the news of your up coming nuptials.

I know it sounds terrible but she honestly doesn't appear to be happy that I'm married. I think my mom liked the thought of Dwayne when he wasn't here. Their initial meeting was an ok one. We went to her house and Dwayne trimmed hedges, bushes, cut grass, fixed a step, changed light bulbs, and fried fish at her house. The second trip was during wedding shopping and I noticed a change - no clue why other than we were happy and kissing and holding hands. A few weeks ago she called and he answered and said, "hey mom everything good?" When I got on the phone she said, "I wish you would just answer the phone when I call cause I can't understand a d&mn thing he is saying!" Just rude and facety

I hate that but it's her choice to miss out on this exciting time in my life. She is loner and only allows her kids to get close to her so now she is seeing it as some sort betryal. A part of her is happy for me and the other part misses having me all to herself

She said to me a few weeks ago that the bible says cleve to your husband but you have to be careful that you don't forget your REAL family.

It hurts him and that makes it hurt me. Not all all families come around fast but I'm praying that this situation will get better. AND if it don't ohh well I just have to keep it moving as you all have said.

Wakey, could there be some other stressor in your mom's life that is creating add'l problems? Have you tried being honest with her about noticing a change in her demeanor? I know what it feels like to hurt because your husband hurts. I hope things work out.

[JaHoney 3]

thanks island for pointing that out, you make me feel much better...LOL NOT....!!!!!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

hey all

Jalove..is still in the hospital..she's on pitocin right now..miserable! to say the least..just send some prayers her way..she is still only 3cm..this is day 2..reminds of when i was having kimora..but they were astoppin contractions but LOVE is not progressing enough.

[JaHoney 3]

baby soon come, they need to quit BSing and just do a c section, that baby is well done now and ready to come out, no point in making her suffer

[Shemmy 4]

hey all

Jalove..is still in the hospital..she's on pitocin right now..miserable! to say the least..just send some prayers her way..she is still only 3cm..this is day 2..reminds of when i was having kimora..but they were astoppin contractions but LOVE is not progressing enough.

Hey Kimmy.

Thanks for the update. Hopefully the baby will soon come.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Honey Asante is good..she's just busy

[Islandwoman 0]

Suuny, Honey, Island, Sol, and whoever else went down to JA last week, I think we should have a pregnancy test party next weekend on VJ! We can have a DJ, several brands of pee sticks, snacks, whatever! What you think?

I would come just to party!!! But we don't need to waste any tests on me.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Hey Shem.how's baby girl?

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

hey all

Jalove..is still in the hospital..she's on pitocin right now..miserable! to say the least..just send some prayers her way..she is still only 3cm..this is day 2..reminds of when i was having kimora..but they were astoppin contractions but LOVE is not progressing enough.

I feel so bad. I will definitely pray for a speedy and SAFE delivery for mama and baby. Why di pickney nah waan come? Wha she wait for?

[wakeywakeup 1]

anyone here shop in thrift stores????

me me, I love thrift stores!! I like to find cool retro clothes and vintage items there. Been shopping in there all my life.

Us too Dwayne is hooked on the name brand stuff he finds

[*SunRay* 1]

hey all

Jalove..is still in the hospital..she's on pitocin right now..miserable! to say the least..just send some prayers her way..she is still only 3cm..this is day 2..reminds of when i was having kimora..but they were astoppin contractions but LOVE is not progressing enough.

OMG, tell her that I'm praying for the baby girl to come soon.. Lawd..... It will be all worth when she pops out.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

baby soon come, they need to quit BSing and just do a c section, that baby is well done now and ready to come out, no point in making her suffer

true..but i think she wants to try as far as she can go b4 a c-section..she is not in any pain..just being touched every 5 sec...annoying know the feelin