Moving on

[baby_a 0]

Hi everyone! I have posted here before about leaving my abusive husband and am back again to seek advice. It's been almost a month since I left and I started my new job two weeks ago. I started making a little money and will save up to buy a cheap vehicle. I am staying temporarily with a friend right now. It's hard but I'm just trying to be strong. I've been crying almost every night and asked God why do these things happened to me. I tried my hardest part to be a good wife to him. I am hating myself sometimes why I still think of him despite of what he has done to me. Is it normal? I still love him but I know time will come that it will go away. The sad thing is he never tried to find me ever. He doesn't even tried to write me a single word although he knows my email address. Maybe if only he would ask me to forgive him and start all over again, I would consider coming back but he never did find me up to this point. I'm thankful that I've got a job right now that keeps me busy or else I'll go crazy. And me being financially crippled, don't know how to drive yet doesn't help the situation.

Can you guys advice me what to do so I can completely move on? I want to forget the past and get on with my life but why is it so hard? I can't wait for the time that I will just think of the past and laugh about it. I'm still married to him and maybe I will wait a little while before divorcing him.

Thank you and will appreciate any response.

baby_a

[sara..... 371]

Hi everyone! I have posted here before about leaving my abusive husband and am back again to seek advice. It's been almost a month since I left and I started my new job two weeks ago. I started making a little money and will save up to buy a cheap vehicle. I am staying temporarily with a friend right now. It's hard but I'm just trying to be strong. I've been crying almost every night and asked God why do these things happened to me. I tried my hardest part to be a good wife to him. I am hating myself sometimes why I still think of him despite of what he has done to me. Is it normal? I still love him but I know time will come that it will go away. The sad thing is he never tried to find me ever. He doesn't even tried to write me a single word although he knows my email address. Maybe if only he would ask me to forgive him and start all over again, I would consider coming back but he never did find me up to this point. I'm thankful that I've got a job right now that keeps me busy or else I'll go crazy. And me being financially crippled, don't know how to drive yet doesn't help the situation.

Can you guys advice me what to do so I can completely move on? I want to forget the past and get on with my life but why is it so hard? I can't wait for the time that I will just think of the past and laugh about it. I'm still married to him and maybe I will wait a little while before divorcing him.

Thank you and will appreciate any response.

baby_a

baby_a i remember u and im so sorry all of this has happened to u......u have been in my prayers.......but i am happy to hear that ur moving on with ur life.......i dont really have much advise because i have never been in a situation like urs so all i have to offer u is my prayers

sara

[LoriLawless 0]

It's perfectly normal to still love him and to have a hard time moving on.

The only thing that you can do is give yourself some time to heal.

As the days go by, you'll feel stronger and stronger.

I wish there were a magic pill to take, but there isn't.

Don't question why it happened to you, that question will never be answered.

All you can do is chalk it up to a learning experience.

I'm glad to hear that you're getting your life back together.

Take this time to reflect on what you want in life, and get to know yourself again.

Lean on your friends and family for support all that you can.

You WILL get through this and be a stronger person from it.

I wish you all the luck in the world.