276 QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE YOU MARRY

[akdiver 3]

Whoa, we match perfectly. :oHow about a gay wedding?

I forgot to add:

Are you a man?? Not interested, period.

[Ling Ling 22]

Whoa, we match perfectly. :oHow about a gay wedding?

I forgot to add:

Are you a man?? Not interested, period.

So it's ok with you if they were previously a male?

I guess a little nip and tuck doesn't bother some folks

[akdiver 3]

So it's ok with you if they were previously a male?

I guess a little nip and tuck doesn't bother some folks

What do you mean, previously a male? Unless you've had a DNA replacement, you're still a male, regardless of whether or not you have something hanging between your legs.

[Staashi 371]

We had to answer some type of questionaire like that to get married in the Catholic Church. It is called a FOCCUS test and both partners have to answer it. It is actually interesting when the priest gives you the results of your test and starts asking you both - did you know this or that about your fiance? Can you live with this? How will this affect your marriage? It can be quite interesting to go through that process. I think there were a few that we got kind of flustered with and had a little bit of a discussion about. All in all though, it can be a good thing.

[ladybee 0]

My man would get bored

[akdiver 3]

We had to answer some type of questionaire like that to get married in the Catholic Church. It is called a FOCCUS test and both partners have to answer it. It is actually interesting when the priest gives you the results of your test and starts asking you both - did you know this or that about your fiance? Can you live with this? How will this affect your marriage? It can be quite interesting to go through that process. I think there were a few that we got kind of flustered with and had a little bit of a discussion about. All in all though, it can be a good thing.

It would be fun to screw around with him.....

"Yeah, I know Bob likes to get a little piece of ### on the side. That's OK. So do I. Sometimes, we go after the same woman, and that can make things interesting, esp. if we have had a lot to drink."

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

We had to answer some type of questionaire like that to get married in the Catholic Church. It is called a FOCCUS test and both partners have to answer it. It is actually interesting when the priest gives you the results of your test and starts asking you both - did you know this or that about your fiance? Can you live with this? How will this affect your marriage? It can be quite interesting to go through that process. I think there were a few that we got kind of flustered with and had a little bit of a discussion about. All in all though, it can be a good thing.

It would be fun to screw around with him.....

"Yeah, I know Bob likes to get a little piece of ### on the side. That's OK. So do I. Sometimes, we go after the same woman, and that can make things interesting, esp. if we have had a lot to drink."

[msu17 0]

1. you shouldn't need to ask 1/2 those questions (ie do you have kids) if you are considering marrying someone.

2. It would be more interesting to fill it out for you parter and visa versa and then see how many they got right.

[akdiver 3]

1. you shouldn't need to ask 1/2 those questions (ie do you have kids) if you are considering marrying someone.

Why not? Seems like something most people would want to know. I imagine that at some point during the relationship, this question is going to either get asked, or become unnecessary because the data will be forthcoming without having been asked. However, if not, it does seem prudent to just come out and ask.

Now - if you want to argue that "you shouldn't consider marrying someone if you don't know if they have kids or not" - then how are you supposed to know if the topic has not come up and you don't ask?