k1 visa expired and married to someone else

[boyage 1]

I give you a credit with your statements,but let me clarify to you ,that not all the time you can choose what is right for you espescially if you are in a very hard situation.Some people cannot understand because they are not been to it or they are not into it ,but, let me tell you ,nobody wants to be in vain.

You know what, if I did not sign that pre marital agreement,I believe that I am just doing the right thing.It's doesn't mean that I do it because I wants his profits,it's because I need the trust and respects.If only you can read,what is states on there,probably you would understand why I did not agree with it.Or maybe, if I am the one who handed it to you,you will not like it.If you are welling to read it ,I could send it to you ,just give me your e-mail add so that you will understand why I disagree with it.

[boyage 1]

Correction your honor,it is not just only a simple prenuptial,if that is what you think.I'm glad ,I can understand English and I am just not to naive.If only you can read it,you will understand what I mean.I cannot afford to be with someone who just want me to be his slave but not to be his wife.That's the main root of why we are not married.Why,can you afford to stay with someone having sex with another woman inside the house where you live and wants you to sign that pre nuptial agreement so that you cannot complain anything.Is that a normal life of wives here in america? Have them sign with the pre nuptial agreement,making love affair with another women,making them a slaves? I am sorry for not being aware of it.But I think it is not ,because my husband is not like that.

[rheanick 42]

Hi Paradise,

If you love your husband and wants to live with him in the US, you must do these things within this week:

1. Hire a lawyer

2. Buy ticket back to Philippines

3. Listen and Act on the recommendation given by VJ members.

Your journey won't be easy. But please do act now.

RheaNick

[pcana 1]

I give you a credit with your statements,but let me clarify to you ,that not all the time you can choose what is right for you espescially if you are in a very hard situation.Some people cannot understand because they are not been to it or they are not into it ,but, let me tell you ,nobody wants to be in vain.

You know what, if I did not sign that pre marital agreement,I believe that I am just doing the right thing.It's doesn't mean that I do it because I wants his profits,it's because I need the trust and respects.If only you can read,what is states on there,probably you would understand why I did not agree with it.Or maybe, if I am the one who handed it to you,you will not like it.If you are welling to read it ,I could send it to you ,just give me your e-mail add so that you will understand why I disagree with it.

Just let it go... stop trying to justify your actions, you had enough reasons for leaving your fiance in the first place,what I'm not understanding here ( it has nothing to do with respect we all get that part) how in the world you got marry with another person in such a short period of time? You already got some really good replies regarding the inmigration issue... what else do you want? if you're looking for support I hardly believe you'll find it here. Face the fact that we all have to pay the concecuences of the bad choices we made in life, now it's your turn to take responsabilities for your own actions.

Abby

[GiGii 4]

Correction your honor,it is not just only a simple prenuptial,if that is what you think.I'm glad ,I can understand English and I am just not to naive.If only you can read it,you will understand what I mean.I cannot afford to be with someone who just want me to be his slave but not to be his wife.That's the main root of why we are not married.Why,can you afford to stay with someone having sex with another woman inside the house where you live and wants you to sign that pre nuptial agreement so that you cannot complain anything.Is that a normal life of wives here in america? Have them sign with the pre nuptial agreement,making love affair with another women,making them a slaves? I am sorry for not being aware of it.But I think it is not ,because my husband is not like that.

A pre-nup is not a forced document. You should have your own attorney to read & interpret it for you. You also have the ability to change things in it you don't like, or add clauses to protect you. It's not a one-sided document to protect the man in this case.

If you would have signed the prenup, without consulting it over with a lawyer, it would never hold up in court.

My issue, was your response to it, that a prenup was not showing you respect, and I don't agree with that. Also, the video and the other stuff you found after you came back second time around. Maybe your husband considered himself free, since you left and did what he did. I'm not condoning it in anyway, I think he's an ###. But I do think he had his suspicions to bring up the prenup suddenly.

[boyage 1]

I do accept the consequences and that's why I posted here how I appreciated it.Yes,but he said he loves me and I do love him too.And he said,that, the sooner we get married,the sooner we could file my papers,that's why..And,I am very thankful to have such a husband who is like him who really cares about me and who really loves me truly.

[boyage 1]

[Yes,I ask him to have an attorney for me and he said,I cannot have.He said it is too expensive.I said I will just go to the indigent place and he said no because he is not belong to indigent,and that's why..My brother in law advice the same too and that's why he got mad.He just want me to sign ,that's all.If I don't sign it,no marriage.And that's what happened.

not in the second time,even since before....

[Chica Yeyé 41]

[boyage 1]

No,it is not after I came back.He loves to make sex video of all the ladies he been...........He have some american gf's even if I am already with him.He still contacted them and most of them are also nurses.it's not only one woman.And,that's why I conclude that,that's why he wants a pre nup because he could make it as an alibi or else so that we will not get married because he knows if we get married I will not tolerate him having affair with other women.He asks me if he could have 2 of us in his house because he wants 2 women in his bed and I cannot afford it because I did not knew he was like that,a maniac.

[boyage 1]

It's not blah,blah,blah....I am not like others.What I am saying is the truth.

[Minya's wife 25]

Paradise,

Your outrage at people's opinion re. your situation/behavior is not doing you any good. You posted your situation, we read your story and offered advice...that's all we can do. Anything besides that is irrelevant! Harping about the reasons for the break up, or that he didn't respect you, or that he filmed himself having sex w/ the entire red cross will NOT change your current situation, nor will it help you resolve it. I'm sorry, but in my opinion you should be off concentrating on getting yourself out of your self created $hit-hole. You see more concerned that people here on a DISCUSSION BOARD have a good opinion of you, rather than asking for advice and trying to fix the mess that you are in. Who cares what we think....wake up and smell the coffee, wait much longer without doing something and you'll 'wait' away any chance you have of legalizing your stay here.

-P

[spookyturtle 9,466]

Paradise,

Your outrage at people's opinion re. your situation/behavior is not doing you any good. You posted your situation, we read your story and offered advice...that's all we can do. Anything besides that is irrelevant! Harping about the reasons for the break up, or that he didn't respect you, or that he filmed himself having sex w/ the entire red cross will NOT change your current situation, nor will it help you resolve it. I'm sorry, but in my opinion you should be off concentrating on getting yourself out of your self created $hit-hole. You see more concerned that people here on a DISCUSSION BOARD have a good opinion of you, rather than asking for advice and trying to fix the mess that you are in. Who cares what we think....wake up and smell the coffee, wait much longer without doing something and you'll 'wait' away any chance you have of legalizing your stay here.

-P

Very well said. Worry about solving your problem, not what a group of anonymous people think of you.

[YankeeGirl 1]

Anyone have a "head banging against a wall" smiley? We need one.....

Will this work Jen?

No, I know we have that one... it's more a personal, "I give up" sort of smiley..... banging my own head....

perfect

Yup.. perfect!!! Ewok should add this to our collection.

I agree...perfect!!

[JenT 0]

Paradise,

Your outrage at people's opinion re. your situation/behavior is not doing you any good. You posted your situation, we read your story and offered advice...that's all we can do. Anything besides that is irrelevant! Harping about the reasons for the break up, or that he didn't respect you, or that he filmed himself having sex w/ the entire red cross will NOT change your current situation, nor will it help you resolve it. I'm sorry, but in my opinion you should be off concentrating on getting yourself out of your self created $hit-hole. You see more concerned that people here on a DISCUSSION BOARD have a good opinion of you, rather than asking for advice and trying to fix the mess that you are in. Who cares what we think....wake up and smell the coffee, wait much longer without doing something and you'll 'wait' away any chance you have of legalizing your stay here.

-P

Yes, thank you... this is what I was trying to say a couple of pages ago, hence the need for the head banging smiley... thanks Minya's wife.

Jen

[TayRivers 4]

You say you are looking for respect! so what happened to the respect you should have shown yourself when you jumped into a marriage with someone you did not know?

Or is it only respect from others you are interested in? You have been given some good advice here but it would seem that it is not what you want to hear, so you just keep going around and around the story again and again.