k1 visa expired and married to someone else

[payxibka 10,045]

How do you legislate laws to protect reputation? What law do you want? You came on a visa that had specific requirements. If you did not follow through on those requirements by the specified date, you were to depart the USA. You did not do that.

[boyage 1]

Yes,it is...But you cannot control your heart..How can you not love someone who respects you and treated you that way you should be treated.Yes,I admit on our first day,I was still thinking of the other guy but I said to my self it is stupid to love someone who doesn't love you and who doesn't care about you.And then,time after time ,my heart is completely change.I wish you read when I said,that I go back with my ex-fiance 3 times,even after my visa expired.I don't get anything from him besides being a sexslave but I take it all because I thought he is for me and I have to deal with it.I think God helps me to enlightened my mind in order to realize the truth and He gave me someone who is nice and who is really for me.I believe in destiny.If you believe,you will understand what I say.

I also want you to know that I am not a gold digger.I don't blame you if you think I was,but I hope you will realize that you are mistake.Not everyone is the same.I have God in my heart.I don't do things that I know is wrong.I may not perfect but God knows what I am doing is just right.I hope you will understand me.Plus,if I want money,why should I go here,my boss offer me his company if I marry him.He have more profits than him.My boss is single and he has no kid while my fiance has.Please don't judge me because it hurts .All I want is a respect and love..Thank you.

Yes,I did not because I was being fooled by myself.

I am aware..what laws do you think what i want?

[payxibka 10,045]

Well then I guess you want in addition laws for reputation but some legislation against stupidity...

You should be worried about your status in the USA not whining that some people on a public forum called you a GD.....

[boyage 1]

i am not whining.I just express myself.Maybe someone has the same situation as mine.Who knows?If you are not one of it,then you are lucky and be thankful with it.

Sorry if it bothers you.But i wish someday you could relate yourself to me to see how it feels.

[boyage 1]

Because I want a respect?Why, is it okay for you if somebody doesn't respect you?

And yes,I mary my husband for just a period of 2 weeks because he respects me and he loves me for me that's all that matters.We as a woman,we are just easily fall in love when someone shows care for us ,admit or not,but that's the truth.

[JenT 0]

IMHO, every human being is entitled to respect unless they do/say something that causes that respect to be called into question.

You are a newbie here, paradise, and like it or not, you will be judged on the content/nature of your posts. Welcome to life on a public web forum. Being defensive and demanding respect is not going to earn it for you.

I'm sorry that you are in the situation you are in. There are consequences for every decision we make in life... you'll have to find a way to deal with yours.

Jen

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Because I want a respect?Why, is it okay for you if somebody doesn't respect you?

And yes,I mary my husband for just a period of 2 weeks because he respects me and he loves me for me that's all that matters.We as a woman,we are just easily fall in love when someone shows care for us ,admit or not,but that's the truth.

Excuse me, but don't speak for women in general; speak for yourself. If you married a man in 2 weeks, people will say something. Get over yourself. You failed to comply with the conditions of your visa, so don't expect people to bend over backwards to help you.

And please leave God out of this. It's disgusting to hear people mixing God with ####### like this. It is you who made the decisions, not God.

[JenT 0]

paradise, it would be a LOT easier to read your posts if you put a space after each punctuation mark (comma, period, question mark, etc)..... just a suggestion

Because I want a respect?Why, is it okay for you if somebody doesn't respect you?

And yes,I mary my husband for just a period of 2 weeks because he respects me and he loves me for me that's all that matters.We as a woman,we are just easily fall in love when someone shows care for us ,admit or not,but that's the truth.

Excuse me, but don't speak for women in general; speak for yourself. If you married a man in 2 weeks, people will say something. Get over yourself. You failed to comply with the conditions of your visa, so don't expect people to bend over backwards to help you.

And please leave God out of this. It's disgusting to hear people mixing God with ####### like this. It is you who made the decisions, not God.

I agree.... I certainly have NOT fallen in love with every man who has cared for me....

[boyage 1]

Because that's the truth.Perhaps, you don't believe in God.

[boyage 1]

I don't mean that I am cheap and I will fall in love to every man who shows care for me.I am so sorry for not clarifying my statements.What ,I just want to say is I love him because he cares for me and I know it's unbelievable to believe that I love him in just a period of time.I am not a playgirl or a prostitute if that is what you think.I used to be ''one woman,one man'' before that's why I did not leave my k1 petetioner easily.I tried to be with him and that's the reason why I overstayed my visa.And when I realized what I am doing is not good,is not healthy for me,because it is so very stressful.If you don't understand what I am dealing,I don't think you have any ideas to advice me.But anyway,thank you.And,if I married my 2nd man in just a short period of time,jus because I believe he is right for me because he respects me and he loves me.And also,if I say,that women are easily fall in love to a man who shows care for them,I am sorry if it sounds generalize,but you know what,I have my points.But it is not applicable to a woman who is in good relationship or married.Its only for a woman who lost hope and think that they cannot fall in love again.If for you,it is not hard to forget your first love,then you are exempted and I would consider you as different.

[JenT 0]

Is there a specific question you have for us paradise? I'm not sure of the point of your continuing to defend yourself, unless you're trying to convince yourself that you're doing the right thing.... in which case, we can't help you.

Jen

[boyage 1]

I am not talking about a ####...What,I am taling is a fact.But it doesn't mean,that I am talking that women are easily fall in love to every man...................Not''''EVERY'''''.......What, I mean to impose , is it doesn't mean,that we cannot fall in love again.If you are also'' one woman,one man'' good for you.I used to be like that too that's why I don't leave my fiance.But,if you are in my situation, you have to be smart and think to love yourself.Why would you love someone who doesn't love you?Why? would you tolerate to a man who doesn't love you and who will just torture you for the rest of your life.I think you will say''NO"".That's why,I pick my husband ,because he loves me and he mary me.When a guy,propose you a marriage,it means he loves you and he doesn't want to lost you.That's how I describe it.That's why,I accept his proposal even if it is just a short period of time.And I will be with him forever ,no one else.If I fall in love with him easily,my answer is I don't know,I think it's just because he shows care for me and love which I don't get from my previous relationship.i thought everybody is just the same because that's some old people told me.Because for me,I already give up to love again.I thought I cannot love again but I was wrong.If I put God on my statements,I am so sorry if you don't like it but that's the way I talk.I believe in him and he is part of my life.thank you

[boyage 1]

I don't ask to people to bend their back over me.I just stating my experienced and asking if there is something I could do about it.I don't ask for your favor.You have your own views of life.If you think,what I am doing is not right,I agree and I am aware of it.I know that I disobey the rules of my visa,but I did not do it intentionally......That's why I said,I am welling to deal with it.I didn't say,that please be in favor of me.No,I don't ....Because I know I made a mistakes.I thought you understand my situation,but now,it is clear to me that you don't.Well,I just hope that everything will goes right for you and you will never make a mistakes in your life.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Because that's the truth.Perhaps, you don't believe in God.

STFU already- my relationship with God is not something I USE to paint myself as deserving of anything. Be very careful with what you say to me about spirituality.

It doesn't matter if you did it intentionally or not - you indeed disobeyed and now have to deal with the consequences.

[boyage 1]

I have no questions because I already know the answer.What all I want is someone who has the same experience as mine and how they deal with it.If they also applied the I-130 like I am doing now.If they also waited the descession from the USCIS before they decide to leave .That's all.

PS,only for those someone who have the same experience as mine because I believe you can give me more accurate answer than anybody who doesn't know what they were talking about because you also experiencing it.