OK here goes pre interview and post interview

[SusieK 3]

Cheers all,

Its been somewhat of a long road, traveling thru the USCIS nightmare. At times couldnt even see the tunnel to get through it and then found a flashlight and saw some objects (bump it was just USCIS backlog file) and then figurered out that maybe to burn a fire would help us see the light at the end of this tunnel. I luv matches and what a fire i burnt taking this plight further than this forum, but thats for another day and another thread.

Without VJ I think I would have been so lost. The people that I have met here are the best, the support, the advice, beyond any website I can think of.

Its come down to less than 48 hours to a yes or no. Simple math - over a year of worrying and sadness and yes of course at times tears of happiness with an approval here and there, it will take basically two to ten minutes of an interview to get Kris here finally. Positive thoughts only right now!

I wanted to say a huge thanks to alot of you, that have been here with me for this past year, and also to a special heartfelt thank you to Rebeccajo for being a great mentor and leading me in the right direction with strong advice and very practical - smiles!!

GOGO - you made my week, heck you made everyones week with your approval. What can I say mate but Im still beaming.

JohnJean hang in there mates, xxxxxxxx Luv you guys.

Nita side by side habibi all the way.

So Friday it is mates and then I can finish this topic with the post interview for anyone that cares to read it.

All I want to say to the rest of you is that there will be times when you think omg I cant do it....those are the times you draw strength from the other senior members here with their wisdom and also from mates you have met. We are here for a purpose - to learn these steps in order to do it the LEGAL WAY and no other way.

There are so many of you that I did not mention but you know who you are, and I carry your stories, your heartaches your joys in my heart forever.

God Bles all of you and try to stay strong - this is not a journey for the weak at heart - but then Love is not weak is it?

Cheers

[Donna-marie 0]

helllllooooo

Good luck to both of you, David and I will be thinking of you and of course trying to keep you busy while kris is gone.

Almost there and you can crack the whip and make him do ALL the yard work on new house lol

We will be thinking of you

Love

Donna and David xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Kris and Susiek 0]

To all here I would like to add my thanks to this as VJ has been a great help and sound advice keep it up and hoping all goes well for everyone.

Yes less than 48 hours to go and as Susie says for a yes or a no simple maths

I have seen the posts on the interviews and how they seem to be an anticlimax but I still have butterflys the size of eagles in my stomach

God bless and Good Luck to everyone

[KAT&Allie 0]

Be positive and be strong... I'm so glad for you guys but shall be even happier for you in 2 days time . You know there's only one possible answer you'll get? Correct?

Good luck to you both on your onward journey. All the best.

[Phillip2 3]

All of us at VJ I am sure will keep you in our prayers that everything goes fine. You have been a great help and it is a long journey for all of us. We wish you the best during the interview. I am sure it will go just fine for you.

Now you can have a life once again. Just remember to cherish it with all your heart and soul. Let us know how it goes on the post side

hey now you can start being an advisor to those that need help here

God Bless and God Speed

[ROCA 0]

I am so glad that it is not long to go. Suzie for the past week or so you have brought a smile upon my face everyday. i know we both will be fine. I'm sure Kris and i will be racing home on Friday to celebrate the good news.

I cant wait. Here we go!!!

ROCA

[trinket 30]

Best of luck SusieK. And for sure I can say you have been my mentor when I first started out venturing Visajourney, contemplating which path to choose and everything in between.

Best of luck again

[Laura+Tom 2]

Good luck to you Susie and Kris!

[gogo 6]

good luck on your interview!! haha, I also sent you a message too!! :dance: :thumbs: hit them where it hurts.. haha..

[HOHOHO 0]

Feel 1000% better now that the NVC process has begun (well technically still waiting for mail from them..)..

The pain wasn't really the separation distance wise or the length of the wait...last year I expected a 1 year wait, but the uncertainty is what made it unbearable at times. So it's ending up that it'll likely be 1 and 1/2 or 2 years... if that was known on the other end it would have made things easier to deal with.

But, as my spouse says, if you agree to a foreign marriage, this goes with the territory. When you agree to marriage, you agree to all this BS ontop of the normal wedding vows when you engage in a foreign marriage.

It's really hard to be patient...and being told to be patient never helped me, except when my spouse said it, and said it often. It enabled things to be more tolerable since I knew she'd be there waiting for our days together no matter what happened, how difficult or how long we had to wait.

The site though was (as is) incredible informative. It helped being able to tell my spouse that the delays weren't only us (though I don't think I saw anyone with a longer wait unless they had some complex issue in their past). It's also helping me now to estimate a general time frame from NOA2 to the end.

no doubt this is a valuable site.

[happyinlove012408 0]

Best of luck to you Kris and Susie. You will be fine and remember to eat something before the interview. They will make you wait a long time and on an empty stomach that is not good. Can't wait to hear good news after the interview.

[Nita&Assaad 0]

yeahhhhhhhhhhhh GOOD LUCK MATE Side by side!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW 15 mintues away from 1 DAY

Good Luck Kris & Susie!!! I am so excited for you!!!!

Nita

Edited September 24, 2008 by Nita&Assaad

[john & jean 37]

TO, TWO VERY SPECIAL MATES;

WILL CALL YOU FRIDAY.................

GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED

j&J

[*Snowdrop* 604]

Good luck guys x

[Nita&Assaad 0]

OMG OMG Tomorrow is the day Susie

I am Anxious I can Imagine how you are feeling dear friend.......

Hugs

Nita