Very New

[Carlawarla 1]

I welcome this site and very new ... You have no idea how glad i am to of found you.

I am pretty nervous, have been stressed for months looking for hope and a shed of light somewhere in this whole process of high tech babble so I can try and reunite with the most wonderful man in the world to me...

This is our story ( the brief version): )

Jason and I had met almost 10 years ago online and has been my best friend and soul-mate ever since. I used to live in Alberta Canada and would see him in PA,USA as often as i could (a four day bus trip) till that was not good enough we decided the border was the best place to continue our friendship. I up and moved to Niagara Falls ON. Upon a visit last year (a big mistake but made me the happiest woman alive) Jason had come for a visit to spend my birthday with me and well one good thing lead to another and before we new it he was here for 9 months although not legally...

I just thought who is it hurting he was staying with me i was supporting him and wreaking all the benefits of well just being in love. till Jason had to go back home and upon trying to re enter Canada was turned away at the border and I haven't stopped crying and my life hasn't been good ever since ...

We have decided to marry and i am to move to PA Yay but have no idea where to go from there , a side note he is still living at his parents place and not working so cant support me in this amazing adventure I have worked always to support myself but would still need to work upon arriving . I feel so lost and i'm all alone here, i miss him terribly and cant live without him in my life....can anyone help Please?

Hello Tangygirl, and welcome to VJ!

Have you checked out the Canada forums here? A great bunch of Canadian/American couples trying to help each other out with all the ins and outs of immigrating!

Here's the link:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showforum=93

You need to read up on the K visas, to see what might be the best one for you guys. As well, read up on co-sponsorships. He could have his parents co-sponsor you, if he doesn't make enough money.

It's hard being apart, we've all been there. While he can't come back to Canada right now, you can visit there as long as you bring strong ties to Canada if asked at the border.

Check us out and read...read...read!

All the best in being reunited soon!