are you a x-wife?

[rclouse 0]

Why is divorce so expensive?

Because it's worth every penny.

My ex-wife would email me every now & then, I hardly replied. But I got my satisfaction; in one email she said I was the nicest and smartest guy she was ever with (including her current husband) and she regrets losing me very much. It was a very nice feeling accepting her apology.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I'm an ex-wife. I get along well with my ex. We talk several times a week and try and help each other out. He's a good guy. I just can't live with him.

Same here. We only talk a couple times a year due to cost/time difference, but they send me pictures of their baby every once in a while and even talk about visit me and the hubster in the US.

I can't help but wonder about the people who hate their ex spouses like there's no tomorrow, at some point we liked them well enough to get married, right? I understand that people change, and some not for the better, but many times it's just jealousy and hurt pride, IMHO.

I don't like mine because he's an abusive fcuktard. I was young and dumb when I married him. Once I got a clue I left his stupid@ss sitting. Yeah, I liked him alright until he started beating on me. Then I had no respect or need for him. I'm definitely not jealous nor was my pride hurt. Someone else can have him for all I care.

[JanaknJanet 0]

Hmm Im a x=wife.. smart enough to have seen his abusive tendacies before he acted upon them.. ie.. threatening my daughter bla bla bla... .. once I got his ####### out to the curb.. I found I was pregnant. My daughter is the light of my life.. without him I could not have had her.. but.. that doesnt mean he is a part of my life.. no way no how... he saw her once.. .. when she was infant...

now.. move the clock forward 15 yrs... he has paid -0- child support.. .. last August.. Oregon Child support division finally cought up to him.. we had a arrest warrent out for over a year.. .. they got him.. put his ####### in jail..... .. he owes me close to 80K in support.. that is including arrearages.. ..

sad when arrearage amount ends up more than support payment.. .. but.. hey... do the crime do the time.. ... only then when the STATE tossed him in jail did I get a ohhh please.. cry me a river phone call from his current wife... begging me to get him out .. to reverse the charges.. aughh.. no I dont think so.. oh and by the way.. It wasnt my actions that put his sorry ####### in jail... .. it was his.. actions.. and the STATEof Oregon...

so.. NOOO thankfully NO CONTACT with the scum bag... .. and.. Im will happily step aside and reside a silent xwife .. once he pays his support..

[*JG* 2]

I'm an ex-wife. I get along well with my ex. We talk several times a week and try and help each other out. He's a good guy. I just can't live with him.

Same here. We only talk a couple times a year due to cost/time difference, but they send me pictures of their baby every once in a while and even talk about visit me and the hubster in the US.

I can't help but wonder about the people who hate their ex spouses like there's no tomorrow, at some point we liked them well enough to get married, right? I understand that people change, and some not for the better, but many times it's just jealousy and hurt pride, IMHO.

I am with you there.

I still love and care about my ex. I just cannot live with the man for any reason.

That being said, I think there are certain situations where I would hate my ex if he committed some horrible offense against me.