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I don't know where to begin but to say that I've been part of this site for 3 years but started a new account to be anonoymous. Please help me and I am so hurt, frustrated and angry. I met a guy in another country. Did the long distance relationship thing. He never had been to the US and probably wouldn't have gotten a visitor visa if he applied. He entered on a K-1, we married within the 90 days, applied for his AOS and he received it. We filed for divorce after he received the 2 year green card and the divorce is now complete. We were married less then a year. As far as I know he hasn't made application for the I-751 but I do believe he will. He has about a year to do it. Based on various things that happened in the marriage and what has happened since I do believe that he married me with no intention for me to remain his wife.

I was wondering do I need to let INS know that we divorced and if so do I include the divorce papers?

If I write INS that I believe it was a fraudulent marriage what will they do with that info?

If he is out of the US and tries to come back in will he be permitted if INS is told the marriage was fraudulent?

I'm trying to just be factual as if I told you the story you wouldn't believe it and I NEVER thought that I'd be writing to find out answers to questions like these. Please any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm not sure what direction to go in and I'm totally drained.

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Filed: Timeline
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1. I was wondering do I need to let INS know that we divorced and if so do I include the divorce papers?

2. If I write INS that I believe it was a fraudulent marriage what will they do with that info?

3. If he is out of the US and tries to come back in will he be permitted if INS is told the marriage was fraudulent?

1. It depends. You have no obligation to inform USCIS, and when he applies to remove conditions, he will inform USCIS by way of the type of I-751 he would file. But if you wish to bring attention to your concern that you feel his intentions upon entering the marriage were not genuine, then yes, by all means do so. I would caution you that now that you are divorced, any information concerning his immigration process or status would not be divulged to you, unless your testimony would be key to a fraud investigation.

2. The information would be placed in his A file, and depending upon how convincing the evidence you present is, he may be interviewed at the next stage in his process. You may even be asked to present a sworn statement, too.

3. Yes he will be permitted to return, even if USCIS has received notice that you suspect this was a case of unilateral fraud. Of course, based upon what you might share, were USCIS to move to rescind (very doubtful) but chances are USCIS would await his application to remove conditions prior to making any nest step. Were he to submit a wiaver, and there were sufficient evidence to show that he entered the marriage fraudulently, if he is out of the country when a subsequent I-751 waiver is adjudicated, and the decision is to deny, then he would not be able to re-enter.

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"diaddie mermaid"

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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: France
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First of all, I am so sorry to hear that. It just hurts.

You can tell USCIS about how you believe the marriage was entered for immigration purposes. But from what "just_jackie" says, they will do nothing with it. Maybe flag they will flag his file but he will most likely be able to remove the conditions on his own.

But do it, it doesn't hurt. Do you have any proofs?

You do not need to tell USCIS that you are divorced. USCIS is his problem now, not yours.

(((((((hugs)))))))

AOS Approved on 10-17-08 (details in profile)

Removal of Conditions on 07-19-10

In this tedious process, we tend to forget that this is all worth it.

I love my hubby beyond anything in this world.

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He has about a year to do it.

Actually, since he is now divorced, he can file the I-751 to remove conditions immediately.

You can tell USCIS about how you believe the marriage was entered for immigration purposes. But from what "just_jackie" says, they will do nothing with it.

Really? Just_jackie is incorrect.

"diaddie mermaid"

You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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In our divorce papers it was listed that on various nites he didn't come home that he started a romantic relationship with another woman.

He moved out of my home into another womans home. He since left that relationship and is presently marrying another woman in his own country.

Did I say enough!!

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In our divorce papers it was listed that on various nites he didn't come home that he started a romantic relationship with another woman.

He moved out of my home into another womans home. He since left that relationship and is presently marrying another woman in his own country.

Did I say enough!!

I feel for your disappointment, but marrying another woman, even if it is done inside 1 year of marrying you isn't necessarily evidence of fraudulent intent.

"diaddie mermaid"

You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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He has about a year to do it.

Actually, since he is now divorced, he can file the I-751 to remove conditions immediately.

You can tell USCIS about how you believe the marriage was entered for immigration purposes. But from what "just_jackie" says, they will do nothing with it.

Really? Just_jackie is incorrect.

Who is "just_jackie"?

Thanks Sara for the support and I appreciate the hug Lili as I sit her crying feeling like an incredible fool

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In our divorce papers it was listed that on various nites he didn't come home that he started a romantic relationship with another woman.

He moved out of my home into another womans home. He since left that relationship and is presently marrying another woman in his own country.

Did I say enough!!

I feel for your disappointment, but marrying another woman, even if it is done inside 1 year of marrying you isn't necessarily evidence of fraudulent intent.

Re read - in OUR DIVORCE papers. That first sentence above is in our signed papers

Filed: Country: Nigeria
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Trust me, I can relate too you. Something similiar happened to me. I, like you and many other American sponsors

gave our hearts to a greencard seeking opportunist. I already know u tried to make your marriage work but he didn't want it, he wanted a divorce, because that's how some roll, they tell you what you want to hear, treat you like they really love you long enough to get what they want from you, THE GREENCARD.

I'd write immigration a detailed letter explaining your marriage life thru divorce and I would cc a copy to your local congress office.

Since you and he is now divorced, immigration will deal with him only concerning his immigration business. You may want to request that they lift your application of support for him. He's now on his own and trust me 9

times out of ten that's exactly the way he planned it.

I had a legislature person tell me that they hear from aliens all the time saying how bad their US sponsor is treating them but rarely hear from the US sponsor, so I say too u if you feel that this man married you for US Benifits u should report it in great detail, send a letter to USCIS Fraud unit, and to your congressman.

Maybe one day they will change the rules, Americans are being targeted and abused by Greencard seeking aliens, we must start speaking out.

idocare

NSC, NOA1 September 26th,03

received NOA1 in mail Oct. 03,03

RFE - received in mail March 29th,04

RFE returned April 17th,04

RFE received April 21,04 at NSC online

NOA2 received April 29th,04 via online

NOA2 received May 03,04 in mail

NVC receives file May 6th,04

NVC sends file to Nigeria May 11th,04

Lagos receives our file, notified thru e-mail May 19th,04

Victor goes and picks up packet #3....May 20th,04

Sent request for earlier interview date via e-mail May 20th,04

May 27th, Lagos won't change date.

August 16th, 2004 fly to Nigeria for Victors interview

August 19th, 2004 Interview date, visa approved.

August 25th, 2004 Victor picks up passport with visa stamp.

August 26th, 2004 fly back to USA

September 18th, 2004 Victor arrives in USA, Lord willing.

October 9th, 2004, we become husband and wife

October 25th, 2004 I learn that I'm pregnant.

Feburary 25th, 2005 AOS Appointment

( went to appt. and requested a reschedule)

June 7th, 05 gave birth to a boy child.

July 5th, 05 Victor packs he suitcase and leaves for good.

July 2005 2nd AOS appointment

( went and requested a reschedule )

August 2005- I file for divorce. and withdraw immigration paperwork.

Washington State/ Nigeria

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Egypt
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just_jackie is a nice lady on mena thread that has been thru a lot in her life..........i have heard many others state also there is not much u can do cuz u would have to be able to prove with out a doubt he came here for just the visa and didnt just fall out of love with u..........it dont matter what the rest of us think cuz it is up to the state department but really i would be more worried about the support document u gave and if he can hit u up for support..........u have a lot on ur plate right now and dont need more worries and pain but that would be a big issue to me because divorce does not get rid of that contract u made to our wonderful government i will give prayers for u this is just not fare to u and i can only imagine the pain ur in over all of this what a rotten thing to do to someone........

sara

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just_jackie is a nice lady on mena thread that has been thru a lot in her life..........i have heard many others state also there is not much u can do cuz u would have to be able to prove with out a doubt he came here for just the visa and didnt just fall out of love with u..........it dont matter what the rest of us think cuz it is up to the state department but really i would be more worried about the support document u gave and if he can hit u up for support..........u have a lot on ur plate right now and dont need more worries and pain but that would be a big issue to me because divorce does not get rid of that contract u made to our wonderful government i will give prayers for u this is just not fare to u and i can only imagine the pain ur in over all of this what a rotten thing to do to someone........

sara

I know that I'm supposed to be responsible for him for 10 years/40 quarters of work. Does that still stand if he remarries?

I don't care if he should decide to file the I-751 I just don't want it approved as he had no intention of being a husband and making a marriage work.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Egypt
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just_jackie is a nice lady on mena thread that has been thru a lot in her life..........i have heard many others state also there is not much u can do cuz u would have to be able to prove with out a doubt he came here for just the visa and didnt just fall out of love with u..........it dont matter what the rest of us think cuz it is up to the state department but really i would be more worried about the support document u gave and if he can hit u up for support..........u have a lot on ur plate right now and dont need more worries and pain but that would be a big issue to me because divorce does not get rid of that contract u made to our wonderful government i will give prayers for u this is just not fare to u and i can only imagine the pain ur in over all of this what a rotten thing to do to someone........

sara

I know that I'm supposed to be responsible for him for 10 years/40 quarters of work. Does that still stand if he remarries?

I don't care if he should decide to file the I-751 I just don't want it approved as he had no intention of being a husband and making a marriage work.

im sorry i really dont know there has been a lot of talk about it and that was one of the things that i thought about before i filed perviz application but as far as i know they have to be self supporting before ur support can be with drawn i might be completely wrong on that so dont take it to heart ok one thing in ur favor is that as far as i know until he is a citizen he cant really bring a wife here can he?

sara

Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: France
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There are three ways, the I-864 will be null and void:

1- he remarries

2- he becomes a US citizen

3- he dies

The only time you can withdraw the I-864 is if the green card has not yet been approved.

AOS Approved on 10-17-08 (details in profile)

Removal of Conditions on 07-19-10

In this tedious process, we tend to forget that this is all worth it.

I love my hubby beyond anything in this world.

Filed: Timeline
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There are three ways, the I-864 will be null and void:

1- he remarries

2- he becomes a US citizen

3- he dies

The only time you can withdraw the I-864 is if the green card has not yet been approved.

He has the 2 year green card not the 10, he is marrying in his country I believe as we speak sooo... after he marries am I still resposible?

 
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