Do you get paranoid about your fiance/wife/husband/whatever, cheating on you?

[JenT 0]

i dont even consider that... samir would never do such a thing to me

I'm sure the 5 who reported having experienced such behavior said the same thing at one point.

[zauberblume 0]

Since I believe in monogamy now, then I trust that my spouse would never cheat on me.

However, I don't expect to have such rigid views on monogamy for the rest of my natural life.

I think it is all a matter of trust and open communication. There's no room for deceit and lies in a marriage. Honesty can help preserve even the most strained marriages as long as both parties reach a solution that fits their needs.

[MrMrsKnight 1]

Not at all... I trust him 100%!! I'm sure he trusts me that much too.

We built our relationship based on love and trust and there's nothing that will make me doubt how good and honest of a man he is.

[jo&john 1]

Not at all... I trust him 100%!! I'm sure he trusts me that much too.

We built our relationship based on love and trust and there's nothing that will make me doubt how good and honest of a man he is.

very well said... i trust my honey 100% as well and vice versa....love, trust, mutual understanding, honesty, treating each other with dignity and respect and giving your best...these, in my opinion, are the pillars of a good and sustainable/lasting relationship

Jo

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jo&john's journey:

03/10/04: Met John at Yahoo! Messenger; start of a good relationship

03/30/04: I became his girlfriend

05/26/04: John excited for his trip to the Philippines to see me and set the direction

05/27/04: John on board Delta Airlines from DFW (Texas) to San Francisco

05/28/04: John on board China Airlines from San Francisco to Taipei

05/29/04: John on board China Airlines from Taipei to Manila; I met him at the NAIA (Ninoy AquinoInternational Airport);

the rest IS magic! We became more in love!

05/30/04: We got engaged! The remaining 3 days were full of good memories and still crystal clear for me

06/03/04: John left for Taipei on board China Airlines; reached LA then DFW same day; I miss my honey;

we both wait for the approval of my annulment petition (series of court hearings and procedures; constant follow-up to

expedite the process; delays because of holidays, official leaves of court personnel, etc; judge is meticulous,

no short cuts):John had been very supportive and is still.

03/23/06: Regional Court Decision out: Declaring absolute nullity of my marriage. We were very happy! The long wait was over!

Actually, the decision/resolution made was dated February 23, 2006. It took a month for editing, finalization, etc by the

court stenographers, clerk of court, etc.

Upon receipt of the Decision, I flew to Manila (I’m from Iloilo City) and personally hand-carried the Decision to the

Solicitor-General (was praying Sol-Gen won’t object to the decision; RTCs give 15 days for Sol-Gen to appeal)

04/07/06: No appeal from Solicitor-General. RTC recorded the decision in the Book of Entries of Judgment (as final and executory).

ENTRY OF JUDGMENT signed by the CLERK OF COURT. This was then forwarded to Local Civil Registrar.

Annotation was done to my Marriage Certificate. Submitted the Annotated (with Annulment Remarks). Marriage Certificate

to NSO (National Statistics Office) for authentication and on SECPA (Security Paper). I got my SECPA annotated marriage

certificate after 3 weeks.

04/10-16: Holy Week; no office

04/17/06: Submitted requirements to RTC for issuance of Annulment Decree

04/18/06: Got my DECREE OF DECLARATION OF NULLITY OF MARRIAGE (annulment process took 1 year and 10 months from

filing of petition to getting the decree) SIGNED BY THE JUDGE! Sent remaining pertinent documents to John needed

for the K1 petition. Both of us were elated!

04/22/06: John sent I-129F to Texas Service Center

04/25/06: I-129F received at California Service Center (Fr. TSC); NOA1 (Received Date)

05/01/06: NOA1 (Notice Date)

06/23/06: email notification re: IMBRA RFE sent from CSC

06/30/06: John received IMBRA RFE (snail mail)

07/05/06: John sent IMBRA RFE reply to CSC

07/17/06: email notification from USCIS re: receipt of IMBRA RFE reply

00/00/06: ???????? NOA2 where are you???? Waiting…waiting…waiting…come ASAP!

[samir_shannon 0]

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[Mrs. Forgetful 2]

Yes/Ocassionally/once, but we weren't really together

[Mew 0]

No/never/no. We respect each other and we wouldn't do anything deceitful. We don't like the idea of lying or not being open about anything. I understand that it won't always be true, since we all keep some thoughts and feelings to ourselves at times. But we try to share everything that really matters and that helps in building more and more a very deep sense of trust.

[MacUK 983]

I just know that she is a much better person than I am. Therefore I know that as long as I am 100% faithful to her then there isn't a chance she will cheat on me.

We have been apart for more than a year now and I haven't even considered cheating on her. I know then that she has not cheated on me.

I trust her with everything about me. She has my heart, I have hers. Neither of us are going to break the others.