do you think they will deny me ?!!!!!

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

[SusieK 3]

Not sure mate on those issues would they deny, as a good percentage of peeps meet whilst going thru a divorce or what not - met my hubbie while i was still legally married, but again, I wouldnt sweat this issue.

[pushbrk 12,878]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

[pushbrk 12,878]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

Edited September 15, 2008 by pushbrk

[LuckyDucky 0]

My friend from the US and his wife from the Philippines had a similar situation. His wife was still married to another man when they first started dating. She didn't get a divorce until after his second or third trip.

But as pushbrk said, it's all about proving a bona fide relationship. They dated for about 4 years before he filed for his I-129F and he took numerous trips to visit her as well as a lot of emails, phone calls, etc. So while facts of your situation may mean your application will be looked at more, it shouldn't matter as long as it's a real relationship.

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

she visited me 2 times one before she got divorced and we spent 2 weeks together and then she visited me another time after she got divorced and we spent another 2 weeks together.

we send emails to each other every single month . and her mom send me emails every month as well .sometimes her sister and her aunt .

and as i said we have pictures ,greeting cards,......

we didn't file for the visa yet .

we know each other for about 30 months (almost 22 months after she got divorced )

so what do you guys think???

thank you so much

[pushbrk 12,878]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

she visited me 2 times one before she got divorced and we spent 2 weeks together and then she visited me another time after she got divorced and we spent another 2 weeks together.

we send emails to each other every single month . and her mom send me emails every month as well .sometimes her sister and her aunt .

and as i said we have pictures ,greeting cards,......

we didn't file for the visa yet .

we know each other for about 30 months (almost 22 months after she got divorced )

so what do you guys think???

thank you so much

I think once a month communication is far from a sufficient indicator of a bona fide relationship but since you haven't filed yet, you have time to visit and communicate more frequently during the process. Their looking for the kind of evidence one would see from an actual engaged couple. With so much time now having passed since the divorce, I would think the timing of your first meeting is no longer an issue.

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

she visited me 2 times one before she got divorced and we spent 2 weeks together and then she visited me another time after she got divorced and we spent another 2 weeks together.

we send emails to each other every single month . and her mom send me emails every month as well .sometimes her sister and her aunt .

and as i said we have pictures ,greeting cards,......

we didn't file for the visa yet .

we know each other for about 30 months (almost 22 months after she got divorced )

so what do you guys think???

thank you so much

I think once a month communication is far from a sufficient indicator of a bona fide relationship but since you haven't filed yet, you have time to visit and communicate more frequently during the process. Their looking for the kind of evidence one would see from an actual engaged couple. With so much time now having passed since the divorce, I would think the timing of your first meeting is no longer an issue.

we send so many emails to each other every month not just one.

we talk to each other by yahoo voice cause its so much cheaper as you know. we don't talk to each other on phone cause its so expensive ......

we send money to each other sometimes do you think that is good to take to interview or i don't have to show them that we send money to each other ... and i think she will not come to visit me cause she can't afforded it so she will wait till we file for the visa and i move to her

I'm so sorry cause I'm asking so much..

thank you so much

[pushbrk 12,878]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

she visited me 2 times one before she got divorced and we spent 2 weeks together and then she visited me another time after she got divorced and we spent another 2 weeks together.

we send emails to each other every single month . and her mom send me emails every month as well .sometimes her sister and her aunt .

and as i said we have pictures ,greeting cards,......

we didn't file for the visa yet .

we know each other for about 30 months (almost 22 months after she got divorced )

so what do you guys think???

thank you so much

I think once a month communication is far from a sufficient indicator of a bona fide relationship but since you haven't filed yet, you have time to visit and communicate more frequently during the process. Their looking for the kind of evidence one would see from an actual engaged couple. With so much time now having passed since the divorce, I would think the timing of your first meeting is no longer an issue.

we send so many emails to each other every month not just one.

we talk to each other by yahoo voice cause its so much cheaper as you know. we don't talk to each other on phone cause its so expensive ......

we send money to each other sometimes do you think that is good to take to interview or i don't have to show them that we send money to each other ... and i think she will not come to visit me cause she can't afforded it so she will wait till we file for the visa and i move to her

I'm so sorry cause I'm asking so much..

thank you so much

Archive your yahoo chats and prnt scrn the logs from time to time along with some example chats.

What gets people denied quite often is supplying inaccurate information. If you make the same mistake at the interview and say you email once a month, you may well be denied. Please try to help us help you by painting an accurate picture of your case.

[MaxOnline 0]

marry her dude! don't risk wasting 8 or 9 months waiting for K1 visa interview which will end up with denial visa 'cause your situation is kinda complicated and the CO will find it suspicious! so ask her to come here and get married then apply for a spousal visa!

Edited September 16, 2008 by MaxOnline

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

marry her dude! don't risk wasting 8 or 9 months waiting for K1 visa interview which will end up with denial visa 'cause your situation is kinda complicated and the CO will find it suspicious! so ask her to come here and get married then apply for a spousal visa!

maybe my case is complicated you right but i think past is past .

i think they don't have the rights at the USA embassy to judge us like that .

i think we have enough evidence of a bonafides ongoing relationship and we will leave it in GOD hands .

[Egyptian Pharaoh 0]

i was checking visa journey today and i found out that they denied a girl from china . they told her cause she met her fiancee while he was not divorced yet ... its the same like me so

OK i met my fiancee the first time when she wasn't divorced yet .

i met her the first before she got divorced and then she got divorced and then i met her another time after she got divorced .

she was married to a guy from Egypt and I'm Egyptian to . do you think they will deny me :help:

It is a factor for consideration when evaluating bona fides but in and of itself, not a reason for denial. You cannot change the facts of your case. All you can do is show an ongoing bona fide relationship, by actually having and behaving like you have one.

i think i have more than enough of bona fides we have emails and pictures and rings greeting cards......... so do you think we will be ok

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

she visited me 2 times one before she got divorced and we spent 2 weeks together and then she visited me another time after she got divorced and we spent another 2 weeks together.

we send emails to each other every single month . and her mom send me emails every month as well .sometimes her sister and her aunt .

and as i said we have pictures ,greeting cards,......

we didn't file for the visa yet .

we know each other for about 30 months (almost 22 months after she got divorced )

so what do you guys think???

thank you so much

I think once a month communication is far from a sufficient indicator of a bona fide relationship but since you haven't filed yet, you have time to visit and communicate more frequently during the process. Their looking for the kind of evidence one would see from an actual engaged couple. With so much time now having passed since the divorce, I would think the timing of your first meeting is no longer an issue.

we send so many emails to each other every month not just one.

we talk to each other by yahoo voice cause its so much cheaper as you know. we don't talk to each other on phone cause its so expensive ......

we send money to each other sometimes do you think that is good to take to interview or i don't have to show them that we send money to each other ... and i think she will not come to visit me cause she can't afforded it so she will wait till we file for the visa and i move to her

I'm so sorry cause I'm asking so much..

thank you so much

Archive your yahoo chats and prnt scrn the logs from time to time along with some example chats.

What gets people denied quite often is supplying inaccurate information. If you make the same mistake at the interview and say you email once a month, you may well be denied. Please try to help us help you by painting an accurate picture of your case.

I heard that the USA embassy at the interview is not asking for any evidence .

from what i have been reading here on the VJ they didn't ask anyone from egy about emails.phone bills.....or anything . they didn't ask anyone for any evidence

all what they ask about is the regular question of the interview what is ur fiancee name's...where does she live in the USA and son on ........

but i will keep saving the evidence as much as i can

thank you so much for your replays

[mikeuday19 0]

The most compelling evidence of a bona fide ongoing relationship is time together. You don't mention how many visits or how much time you've spent together. What cannot be predicted (regardless of anything else) is what questions will be asked and how they will be answered.

Please fill in your profile and timeline. If she's your fiance, this should be in the K1 forum, not the K3.

you're right, the time spent together is the most compelling evidence, but what if he cant afford to visit me as frequently as he wants? my fiancee only visited me once for two weeks and that was last january of this year, and we got engaged at that time, he really wants to visit me again, but he just cant afford it, its too expensive, and right now, we are saving our money for our future, what do you think we should do?

we have a lot of evidence though, like recorded voice calls, emails, chats, photos, and some videos when we were together, im sorry if i ask too much, but do you think those are sufficient? thanks...

[MaxOnline 0]

marry her dude! don't risk wasting 8 or 9 months waiting for K1 visa interview which will end up with denial visa 'cause your situation is kinda complicated and the CO will find it suspicious! so ask her to come here and get married then apply for a spousal visa!

maybe my case is complicated you right but i think past is past .

i think they don't have the rights at the USA embassy to judge us like that .

i think we have enough evidence of a bonafides ongoing relationship and we will leave it in GOD hands .

listen friend, none buys that at the American Embassy! who cares.... ? nobody actually! they'll judge you no matter what... having to go through an interview so the CO see that the relationship is genuine is some type of prejudgment.

if you're her husband the chances for them to deny you a visa are less than if you're just her fiance!

tell me, did she apply for a visa petition @ USCIS for her Egyptian Ex husband or she didn't?

good luck

Edited September 16, 2008 by MaxOnline