Sub-Saharan cyber cafe # 2

[Simply_Uno 1]

You know, some people are so miserable they just want to bring everyone down with them.

umm, yeah.

I wholeheartedly agree???

Its true UNO. There are just some people that just can't be happy. What do you call an e-mail I got from a friend today saying that love does not exist, there is no happiness in love, people in love are in for disappointement, when someone says they love you {they are only looking for self fulfillment and have ulterior motives.}

she is correct in her assessment, its human nature to want to be fulfilled and there are motives behind every action.

you (action)= breath because its (motives) = intrinsic and autonomic and it feels good.

even when you (action) = consciously hold your breath, (motive) = self preservation kicks in and forces you to breath .

human nature dictates the survival of the species from a holistic perspective.

I mean seriously

Maybe its because she is still single

Yeah, not positive

sounds like they are speaking from a place of torment brought about by being personally disappointed by her choice of a mate who has emotionally hurt her.

also sounds like they are giving up and giving in to the negative actions they have experienced. you do know that our words and our actions are based upon how we interpret our experiences. the other thing is this, each of us are personally accountable for how WE choose to react to our environment based upon our interpretation of our up bringing.

someone needs to assist your friend in changing her expectations and outlook on other people.

show her how to be victorious instead of being a victim.

either way, she has a choice .

so don't hate her for the email, understand the reason behind the email

(if she is TRULY your friend)

okay, I'm done...nexxt....

UNO

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

You know, some people are so miserable they just want to bring everyone down with them.

umm, yeah.

I wholeheartedly agree???

Its true UNO. There are just some people that just can't be happy. What do you call an e-mail I got from a friend today saying that love does not exist, there is no happiness in love, people in love are in for disappointement, when someone says they love you {they are only looking for self fulfillment and have ulterior motives.}

she is correct in her assessment, its human nature to want to be fulfilled and there are motives behind every action.

you (action)= breath because its (motives) = intrinsic and autonomic and it feels good.

even when you (action) = consciously hold your breath, (motive) = self preservation kicks in and forces you to breath .

human nature dictates the survival of the species from a holistic perspective.

I mean seriously

Maybe its because she is still single

Yeah, not positive

sounds like they are speaking from a place of torment brought about by being personally disappointed by her choice of a mate who has emotionally hurt her.

also sounds like they are giving up and giving in to the negative actions they have experienced. you do know that our words and our actions are based upon how we interpret our experiences. the other thing is this, each of us are personally accountable for how WE choose to react to our environment based upon our interpretation of our up bringing.

someone needs to assist your friend in changing her expectations and outlook on other people.

show her how to be victorious instead of being a victim.

either way, she has a choice .

so don't hate her for the email, understand the reason behind the email

(if she is TRULY your friend)

okay, I'm done...nexxt....

UNO

Counselor Uno!

[Ban Hammer 13,550]

yup i is back! good morning everyone!

[stevi1123 0]

Welcome home, Charles. How does it feel to have so much love throughout this entire Visa Journey website? Everywhere I turn, there you are. That simply amazes me.

[Ban Hammer 13,550]

Welcome home, Charles. How does it feel to have so much love throughout this entire Visa Journey website? Everywhere I turn, there you are. That simply amazes me.

it amazes me how much off topic i have to catch up on too!

must be about 30 pages for me to read

[Zee Bee 61]

You know, some people are so miserable they just want to bring everyone down with them.

umm, yeah.

I wholeheartedly agree???

Its true UNO. There are just some people that just can't be happy. What do you call an e-mail I got from a friend today saying that love does not exist, there is no happiness in love, people in love are in for disappointement, when someone says they love you {they are only looking for self fulfillment and have ulterior motives.}

she is correct in her assessment, its human nature to want to be fulfilled and there are motives behind every action.

you (action)= breath because its (motives) = intrinsic and autonomic and it feels good.

even when you (action) = consciously hold your breath, (motive) = self preservation kicks in and forces you to breath .

human nature dictates the survival of the species from a holistic perspective.

I mean seriously

Maybe its because she is still single

Yeah, not positive

sounds like they are speaking from a place of torment brought about by being personally disappointed by her choice of a mate who has emotionally hurt her.

also sounds like they are giving up and giving in to the negative actions they have experienced. you do know that our words and our actions are based upon how we interpret our experiences. the other thing is this, each of us are personally accountable for how WE choose to react to our environment based upon our interpretation of our up bringing.

someone needs to assist your friend in changing her expectations and outlook on other people.

show her how to be victorious instead of being a victim.

either way, she has a choice .

so don't hate her for the email, understand the reason behind the email

(if she is TRULY your friend)

okay, I'm done...nexxt....

UNO

The funny thing is that she is a PhD in counseling psychology.

I don't hate her for feeling this way. I just don't get where all this is coming from. She has never had anything close to a relationship except for some crush she had over 10 years ago in high school/college.

Whatever, its not my headache. She obviously has issues she needs to work on. She has convinced herself that if someone loves her then they are going to eventually lie to her

[ForeverAmen 0]

Best of luck Omoba! I did Nutrasystem after baby number 2, did very well with it, then got pg with number 3 LOL!

If you have great will power Dr Sadkhen's plan works wonders!!!! www.sadkhin.com. I lost 19 pounds my first 10 days (just over 9% of my body weight). Of course that was the limit of my will power - LOL!

WhidbeyGirl - I just scanned through the website of sadkhin.com. How effective is this diet if the 'whole' milk is replaced by a Lactose free brand?

Omoba - wish you well with the Nutrasystem.

[Ta Ta 1]

You know, some people are so miserable they just want to bring everyone down with them.

umm, yeah.

I wholeheartedly agree???

Its true UNO. There are just some people that just can't be happy. What do you call an e-mail I got from a friend today saying that love does not exist, there is no happiness in love, people in love are in for disappointement, when someone says they love you {they are only looking for self fulfillment and have ulterior motives.}

she is correct in her assessment, its human nature to want to be fulfilled and there are motives behind every action.

you (action)= breath because its (motives) = intrinsic and autonomic and it feels good.

even when you (action) = consciously hold your breath, (motive) = self preservation kicks in and forces you to breath .

human nature dictates the survival of the species from a holistic perspective.

I mean seriously

Maybe its because she is still single

Yeah, not positive

sounds like they are speaking from a place of torment brought about by being personally disappointed by her choice of a mate who has emotionally hurt her.

also sounds like they are giving up and giving in to the negative actions they have experienced. you do know that our words and our actions are based upon how we interpret our experiences. the other thing is this, each of us are personally accountable for how WE choose to react to our environment based upon our interpretation of our up bringing.

someone needs to assist your friend in changing her expectations and outlook on other people.

show her how to be victorious instead of being a victim.

either way, she has a choice .

so don't hate her for the email, understand the reason behind the email

(if she is TRULY your friend)

okay, I'm done...nexxt....

UNO

The funny thing is that she is a PhD in counseling psychology.

I don't hate her for feeling this way. I just don't get where all this is coming from. She has never had anything close to a relationship except for some crush she had over 10 years ago in high school/college.

Whatever, its not my headache. She obviously has issues she needs to work on. She has convinced herself that if someone loves her then they are going to eventually lie to her

Chiming in here.....It seems to me that your friend has very low confidence in herself and self esteem issues.

She does not believe that IF she will get used or lied to that she can actually find the tools in her tool box to come out

shining again, even if temporarily disappointed and hurt.

She does not believe enough in herself or her creator to come through it with new strength.

Her perspective is that she will remain a down trodden victim of circumstances and therefore avoids the romance and is evasive

to love.

It takes courage to love.......it takes courage to take a risk and it it takes courage to love someone unconditionally, even if that somebody may hurt you.

If someone is too centered on themselves all they see is what others have done to incite the hurt.

Look outward and love. Learn from it.

Hurt is the flip side of life itself. The sun will rise again and again and again.

[Zee Bee 61]

Wise words Omoba

I am trying to be there for her as long as she needs me. I need her to realize where these emotions are coming from so that she can deal with them.

[Simply_Uno 1]

good morning all

depending on where you are, might be time

[Ta Ta 1]

Best of luck Omoba! I did Nutrasystem after baby number 2, did very well with it, then got pg with number 3 LOL!

If you have great will power Dr Sadkhen's plan works wonders!!!! www.sadkhin.com. I lost 19 pounds my first 10 days (just over 9% of my body weight). Of course that was the limit of my will power - LOL!

WhidbeyGirl - I just scanned through the website of sadkhin.com. How effective is this diet if the 'whole' milk is replaced by a Lactose free brand?

Omoba - wish you well with the Nutrasystem.

Thanks Boaz, hope I will lose something beside my marbles.

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

WhidbeyGirl - I just scanned through the website of sadkhin.com. How effective is this diet if the 'whole' milk is replaced by a Lactose free brand?

I am not real sure, but I know he really stresses the whole milk nothing less, I believe the milk fat is the important part! I use whole raw goat milk and it was fine, it has more milk fat than cows milk.

[Ban Hammer 13,550]

good morning all

depending on where you are, might be time

btw, the new avatar

[Simply_Uno 1]

good morning all

depending on where you are, might be time

btw, the new avatar

[ForeverAmen 0]

Best of luck Omoba! I did Nutrasystem after baby number 2, did very well with it, then got pg with number 3 LOL!

If you have great will power Dr Sadkhen's plan works wonders!!!! www.sadkhin.com. I lost 19 pounds my first 10 days (just over 9% of my body weight). Of course that was the limit of my will power - LOL!

WhidbeyGirl - I just scanned through the website of sadkhin.com. How effective is this diet if the 'whole' milk is replaced by a Lactose free brand?

Omoba - wish you well with the Nutrasystem.

Thanks Boaz, hope I will lose something beside my marbles.

LOL! Don't worry, you are strong so your 'marbles' will stay in place.