Discoverying your daughter is bi-sexual/gay/?

[*Robert* 2]

Sorry... I'm late getting in on this one.

Three things jumped out at me.

Grades - If they don't come up, she will loose her financial assistance, so out of your whole story, that's the thing that needs to be "fixed", other than your own homophobic feelings.

Sexual Orientation - It is not just a "phase" one grows out of (or into for that matter). It is not something you change with counseling or medicine. It's defined from within and by genetic makeup.

Younger sister - do you honestly think that by keeping her away from older sister it will prevent her from *gasp* becoming a bi/lesbian as well?

Someone needs to read up on the psychology of humane sexuall behaviour, and then you need to go in for your own reality check.

[almaty 19]

Jelti, did you make a concious choice as to finding men attractive? Just curious

Being attracted to men or women is not a choice. I have been attracted to women. I have been attracted to men. My choice lies in what actions I allow to stem from that attraction.

So you're saying you're bisexual? Awesome!

I fail to see how my sexual preference has anything to do with you.

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

i am with you on this,,the op has immense info...and time too put this thread to bed

[jelti 0]

Jelti, did you make a concious choice as to finding men attractive? Just curious

Being attracted to men or women is not a choice. I have been attracted to women. I have been attracted to men. My choice lies in what actions I allow to stem from that attraction.

So you're saying you're bisexual? Awesome!

I fail to see how my sexual preference has anything to do with you.

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

i am with you on this,,the op has immense info...and time too put this thread to bed

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

enough!!!!

people are people. like depeche mode said.

[Sister Fracas 5]

...the brother has not been mentioned thusfar

PS: thusfar? is that a word?

no ... thusfar is not a proper word, nor is summat!! it's thus far!!!

*runs far, far away*

thusfar, summat tell me y'all take spelling and typos too seriously

[gimygirl 0]

thusfar, summat tell me y'all take spelling and typos too seriously

i never leave home without it!!!!!

[Sister Fracas 5]

heh

[almaty 19]

thusfar, summat tell me y'all take spelling and typos too seriously

i never leave home without it!!!!!

a..a......a... where did you buy that sister monique? i need a case of it///

[nayalamb 0]

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

hey guys,

how's this?

*good luck to the OP - just be understanding, patient, loving and communicate with your girls. just knowing they can turn to you no matter what, will get you through rough times. and ITA w/pax, check out pflag or other support groups to find people in your area who know what you are going through and can offer support and advice. i wish you the best.

[Ladylethal 12]

I think that the issue of bisexuality must be accepted by you. It´s not a disease and it doesn´t have a cure so you might as well accept it or else you might loose your daughter´s trust and friendship. The younger one might be confused and maybe she´s not bisexual but just experimenting and will grow out of it.

[Nearly Done 8]

I am also very late to this thread. I too don't think this is something your daughter can help and I would'nt give a ###### what other people think!! I would hold my head up high and be proud of my daughter and don't give her the hard time that other pig headed people do,your her MUM and she needs you.

Life is too short and we should not care what others think.

I went to a funeral last week, hubby's cousin, she was only 48. I was informed by a whisperer that her daughter was the gay one!!!! I was furious!! I actually said"So F****** what!!!"

The poor girl's mum had just died and I was being told her daughter was gay!!! Her mum was VERY proud of her and they had a brillaint relationship,her mum supported her. She does'nt have brother's or sister's and really no close relative's,that poor child is going to miss her so much and have to put up with narrow minded people without being able to confide in her.

Be proud,be supportive,don't give a second thought to the whisper's.

Your younger child will go her own way,whatever that may be, she can not be forced or influenced into being gay.

Best wishes to you and your lovely daughters

[almaty 19]

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

hey guys,

how's this?

*good luck to the OP - just be understanding, patient, loving and communicate with your girls. just knowing they can turn to you no matter what, will get you through rough times. and ITA w/pax, check out pflag or other support groups to find people in your area who know what you are going through and can offer support and advice. i wish you the best.

i agree...time to let this one drift away until some lame chopf##k 6 months from now reopens it,.

[Dixie_Peach 1]

Could ya'll please not turn this into a flame war?

Either MomNeedsAdvice is for real, or she's a troll. If she's fer real, we'd do her a disservice by turning this into a flame war. If she's a troll, we'd do ourselves a disservice by giving her the satisfaction.

My money is on her being real.

just getting to this thread... AS!

[Cygnet 0]

I am also very late to this thread. I too don't think this is something your daughter can help and I would'nt give a ###### what other people think!! I would hold my head up high and be proud of my daughter and don't give her the hard time that other pig headed people do,your her MUM and she needs you.

Life is too short and we should not care what others think.

Be proud,be supportive,don't give a second thought to the whisper's.

Your younger child will go her own way,whatever that may be, she can not be forced or influenced into being gay.

Best wishes to you and your lovely daughters

[Dixie_Peach 1]

if my boy / daughter would be gay I WOULD SHOW THEM THE DAMN DOOR !!!

man created the man to be with a woman, not with another man ! no wonder kids today are just a bunch of drugged rebels who insult their parents and know nothing better but to be gay, in gangs, not do good in school and so on....BECAUSE PARENTS DIDNT RAISE THEM RIGHT and because they let them hang out with other idiots and let them be freeeeee...and do whatever and try whatever they want...thats just wrong and im glad my kid is not one of those.....

what a joke... lol

could be a regular here TROLLING under a new name...

thinks someone wants to start a flame...