Discoverying your daughter is bi-sexual/gay/?

[sowens 0]

Good luck and GOD bless MOM, I hope everything goes well for you.

[Nessa 23]

ok, first of all i won't read this entire thread, i think i can answer your question just by reading what you posted in the first page.

Well IMO being a lesbian or bisexual isn't a disease, isn't something to be ashamed of. As for you being afraid big sister and her girlfriends will influence little sister, don't worry about that. Sexual preferences are not like fashion, it's something you're born that way and it's not contagious. As for their brother thinking it's gross, please, he just says that because it's his sister, after all how many men do you know that doesn't get turned on by lesbians or bisexuals or never wanted a 3some because they think 2 women together is hot?

I know i'll probably piss off a lot of people in here with my point of view, but OH WELL!

Anyway, it can also be a phase, or if she's bi she might decide to marry a guy one day instead of being with a woman, after all being gay isn't easy, a lot of people in our society unfortunately are still prejudiced and if it's hard enough for hetero to find their SO, it's even harder for homosexuals to do such, because they are a minority. But i think that's something for her to learn by herself and to make her choice what's gonna make her happier when it comes to her sexual life.

As for you, well if i was a mom i'd support my daughter whatever decision she would make, as long as it was legal and it would make her happy.

[Fandango 1,440]

ok, first of all i won't read this entire thread, i think i can answer your question just by reading what you posted in the first page.

Well IMO being a lesbian or bisexual isn't a disease, isn't something to be ashamed of. As for you being afraid big sister and her girlfriends will influence little sister, don't worry about that. Sexual preferences are not like fashion, it's something you're born that way and it's not contagious. As for their brother thinking it's gross, please, he just says that because it's his sister, after all how many men do you know that doesn't get turned on by lesbians or bisexuals or never wanted a 3some because they think 2 women together is hot?

I know i'll probably piss off a lot of people in here with my point of view, but OH WELL!

Anyway, it can also be a phase, or if she's bi she might decide to marry a guy one day instead of being with a woman, after all being gay isn't easy, a lot of people in our society unfortunately are still prejudiced and if it's hard enough for hetero to find their SO, it's even harder for homosexuals to do such, because they are a minority. But i think that's something for her to learn by herself and to make her choice what's gonna make her happier when it comes to her sexual life.

As for you, well if i was a mom i'd support my daughter whatever decision she would make, as long as it was legal and it would make her happy.

Been there done that, Hi and welcome to 4 pages ago

you just summed up everything that a lot of people have said ....that I agree with....barring the 'men liking 3somes' comment' ....the brother has not been mentioned thusfar

[Nessa 23]

Been there done that, Hi and welcome to 4 pages ago

you just summed up everything that a lot of people have said ....that I agree with....barring the 'men liking 3somes' comment' ....the brother has not been mentioned thusfar

really wasn't in the mood to read 12 pages, knowing VJ the way i do there were probably lots of off topic comments in it.

Just wanted to give my opinion.

PS: thusfar? is that a word?

Edited May 24, 2006 by nessaandcharles

[Fandango 1,440]

Been there done that, Hi and welcome to 4 pages ago

you just summed up everything that a lot of people have said ....that I agree with....barring the 'men liking 3somes' comment' ....the brother has not been mentioned thusfar

really wasn't in the mood to read 12 pages, knowing VJ the way i do there were probably lots of off topic comments in it.

Just wanted to give my opinion.

PS: thusfar? is that a word?

Hrmmm, I dunno you tell me!

(bout halfway down the page)

I'll help ya out with a c &P

thus far

Up to this point; so far: Our success has been limited thus far.

my bad, missed the spacebar!

Learn summat new everyday, eh?

Edited May 24, 2006 by LisaD

[gimygirl 0]

...the brother has not been mentioned thusfar

PS: thusfar? is that a word?

no ... thusfar is not a proper word, nor is summat!! it's thus far!!!

*runs far, far away*

[Fandango 1,440]

Aww isn't that cute gimy!

I'm flattered hon!

[gimygirl 0]

Aww isn't that cute gimy!

I'm flattered hon!

[Nessa 23]

no ... thusfar is not a proper word, nor is summat!! it's thus far!!!

*runs far, far away*

i knew it! sorry me brazilian me not that smart me doesn't always know the difference between illiteracy and typos *runs*

[Fuzzness 2]

whew... i go to volunteer at a school and this happens!

point 1. i did not CHOOSE to be straight. why is it any different for the other team?

point 2. to the OP, if little sis has a defiant attitude problem... shes 14 years old, most 14 years olds go through that defiance stage

point 3. to the admins, thanks for flinging that troll out the door

[Fandango 1,440]

no ... thusfar is not a proper word, nor is summat!! it's thus far!!!

*runs far, far away*

i knew it! sorry me brazilian me not that smart me doesn't always know the difference between illiteracy and typos *runs*

[Ban Hammer 13,547]

no ... thusfar is not a proper word, nor is summat!! it's thus far!!!

*runs far, far away*

i knew it! sorry me brazilian me not that smart me doesn't always know the difference between illiteracy and typos *runs*

uh huh, not that smart and spanks me 99% of the time in literati by more than 100 points.....

[jelti 0]

Jelti, did you make a concious choice as to finding men attractive? Just curious

Being attracted to men or women is not a choice. I have been attracted to women. I have been attracted to men. My choice lies in what actions I allow to stem from that attraction.

So you're saying you're bisexual? Awesome!

I fail to see how my sexual preference has anything to do with you.

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

[sarah and hicham 3]

Jelti, did you make a concious choice as to finding men attractive? Just curious

Being attracted to men or women is not a choice. I have been attracted to women. I have been attracted to men. My choice lies in what actions I allow to stem from that attraction.

So you're saying you're bisexual? Awesome!

I fail to see how my sexual preference has anything to do with you.

Dead horse smilie, anyone?

Well, it's information that you shared with everyone I'm just trying to strighten things out.

[jelti 0]

Well, it's information that you shared with everyone I'm just trying to strighten things out.

No pun intended, I assume.