My interview experience

[Brian&Mel 0]

So sorry to hear about it. Sooner or later, they will know your relationship is genuine.

Best of luck and you'll be in my thoughts!

[KC♥MP 0]

I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you. At least, you were not denied outright. I hope next time they will not doubt your marriage anymore. You'll be in my prayers. Be strong and keep the faith

[loggingoof 0]

Hello Vj's

I just got home from the embassy for my interview, I am so sad things didn't go well for me. i've been interviewed two times. First at the consul then they told me to be back at 1pm for another interview. My second interview is at the Fraud unit. We were 7 applicants 4 K-3's and 3 K-1 applicants. Four of us the problem was we met our spouses/fiances through our relatives and we never thought that will be a big disadvantage for us. The consul thinks our marriage was just a fixed marriage because it was my Aunt who introduced to us with each other and the fact that we just only met once in person and then got married right away. I told them Bill and I known each other for more than two years and though we were just talking on phone, texting, chatting and sending emails and mailing cards by then we fell in love with each other and that feeling remained when we met in person and we decided to get married ASAP because we love and don't want to lose each other. But hell, they're not convinced yet. So they set me another interview at 1pm @ room 1206. When i went to room 1206 that was i realized that the room i'm going to is a FRAUD UNIT. I feels like "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? bakit ako pinapunta dito ano kala nila sa kasal namin fake?"

My fellow applicants kept asking each other why we are here,what's the problem? Afterwards we filled-up papers Q&A about all the details of the relationship like how i we met, did we go out for dates when we were together, time and place of the wedding, how many guests,have you've been courted before, did your spouse gave you an engagements ring, where did he buy,if there's an engave inside blah blah blah...huh!!!!

My co-applicants has been sheduled to come back on the 30th,the other is on the 11th, an the other one is tomorrow.Lucky for me and the two we got interviewed right away. But GUYS I"VE NEVER BEEN INTERVIEWED IN MY WHOLE LIFE LIKE THAT. My interviewer was a filipina woman but i can't speak in tagalog..haha.

She asked me every lil details about the relationships but my mind go crant when she asked me about my hubby's ex-wives like how was your husband and his 1st wife known each other, where an what is her job "HAY NAKU MALAY KO BA?!!!"i just told her i on't know maam. Another thing she looked at the wedding photo an she said my husband is not interested or serious on our weing day because his hand was in his pocket "OH, GOOD LOR, IF SHE ONLY KNEW MY HOW HAPPY AND EXCITED MY HUSBAND WAS THAT TIME...I've been interviewed for an hour but i think she just stopped asking me because i cried so much when he asked about my grandparents, she asked my why i said my lolo is dying..Then she console me and said "perhaps, this is not your time yet to get a visa because of your lolo, go and get a plane ticket and be with him first." then she gave a paper which stating i have to call the embassy to schedule of interview "AGAIN" and the mails that i mailed to my husband. But before i left the room she gave me a prayer paper.I was so touched

hello friend....im really sad to hear about what happened to ur interview....how i wish im there beside u right now to comfort u friend....i understand what u feel and i know until now ur mind still inside the EMBASSY and u don't have peace about that...dont worry friend...i will help u through prayers and i believe that GOD WILL MAKE A WAY to give ur VISA soon...i love u so much friend....u r not alone...we are all here for u friend...take care and god bless us all....

Hello murat... you knew me from head to toe. I don't have a friend in person here to cry on. The pain came back to me just like when Bill and I broke up but you were there. But this one is much painful, alam mo ba yong feeling na pinagduduhan yong buo mong pagkatao. And then the feeling that you were almost there, you will be with your love's arms again that you fight from your mom but suddenly someone send you to jail without a vaild reason at all..

[o0pink0o 3]

Pink, thank you ng marami. i never thought rin ito mangyayari. Iyak to the max na lang ako.

hi sis,

i am really sad abt this thing. bakit ba nangyari sa'yo to . *hugs*

[loggingoof 0]

To all of you,

You just don't know how much you gave me hope,touched my heart and uplift my spirit when i you said i'll be in your prayers. I really really need that. I know God didn't make a way for Billy and I to met if we not meant to be together again and live a happy life forever. They same as with you and your love of your life. I feel better now the first thing i need to do is to go home in Iloilo again to be with my grandfather. The lady consul in the Fraud unit was right maybe the visa wasn't meant for me at this time. I am hoping and praying when i get back to her for the next interview she will give me the visa. Plus, my husband might come here and be with me for the next interview. He's just waiting for the result from Veterans Affair for some thing.

And also i am thinking for Billy's Aunt and my Aunt to make a sworn affidavit on why and how it all started.

Thank you

[loggingoof 0]

Pink, thank you ng marami. i never thought rin ito mangyayari. Iyak to the max na lang ako.

hi sis,

i am really sad abt this thing. bakit ba nangyari sa'yo to . *hugs*

that's what i am asking to myself too.. dinaan ko na nga lang sa tawa ngayon.

Hirap talaga pink lalo na wala malayo ka sa tunay mong pamilya plus pa iniisip mo yong sitwasyon ng lolo mo. kaloka talaga. I'm so grateful lang sa mga co vj's natin they're giving me hope talga.

[jego ryu 0]

GOD WILL MAKE A WAY...KEEP FAITH......GODBLESS

[filirican 3]

just pray...everything will pass by...the CO didn't deny u a visa so there's always hope..God bless!

[loggingoof 0]

GOD WILL MAKE A WAY...KEEP FAITH......GODBLESS

hey sis, wow you've just made me cry with that video. Silly me, i'm like a crzy one here inside the cafe laughing, smiling and crying...

[HoneySkin 0]

Hello Vj's

I just got home from the embassy for my interview, I am so sad things didn't go well for me. i've been interviewed two times. First at the consul then they told me to be back at 1pm for another interview. My second interview is at the Fraud unit. We were 7 applicants 4 K-3's and 3 K-1 applicants. Four of us the problem was we met our spouses/fiances through our relatives and we never thought that will be a big disadvantage for us. The consul thinks our marriage was just a fixed marriage because it was my Aunt who introduced to us with each other and the fact that we just only met once in person and then got married right away. I told them Bill and I known each other for more than two years and though we were just talking on phone, texting, chatting and sending emails and mailing cards by then we fell in love with each other and that feeling remained when we met in person and we decided to get married ASAP because we love and don't want to lose each other. But hell, they're not convinced yet. So they set me another interview at 1pm @ room 1206. When i went to room 1206 that was i realized that the room i'm going to is a FRAUD UNIT. I feels like "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? bakit ako pinapunta dito ano kala nila sa kasal namin fake?"

My fellow applicants kept asking each other why we are here,what's the problem? Afterwards we filled-up papers Q&A about all the details of the relationship like how i we met, did we go out for dates when we were together, time and place of the wedding, how many guests,have you've been courted before, did your spouse gave you an engagements ring, where did he buy,if there's an engave inside blah blah blah...huh!!!!

My co-applicants has been sheduled to come back on the 30th,the other is on the 11th, an the other one is tomorrow.Lucky for me and the two we got interviewed right away. But GUYS I"VE NEVER BEEN INTERVIEWED IN MY WHOLE LIFE LIKE THAT. My interviewer was a filipina woman but i can't speak in tagalog..haha.

She asked me every lil details about the relationships but my mind go crant when she asked me about my hubby's ex-wives like how was your husband and his 1st wife known each other, where an what is her job "HAY NAKU MALAY KO BA?!!!"i just told her i on't know maam. Another thing she looked at the wedding photo an she said my husband is not interested or serious on our weing day because his hand was in his pocket "OH, GOOD LOR, IF SHE ONLY KNEW MY HOW HAPPY AND EXCITED MY HUSBAND WAS THAT TIME...I've been interviewed for an hour but i think she just stopped asking me because i cried so much when he asked about my grandparents, she asked my why i said my lolo is dying..Then she console me and said "perhaps, this is not your time yet to get a visa because of your lolo, go and get a plane ticket and be with him first." then she gave a paper which stating i have to call the embassy to schedule of interview "AGAIN" and the mails that i mailed to my husband. But before i left the room she gave me a prayer paper.I was so touched

sorry to hear that too...but you know, i am so proud of you after going through that what seem to be like tortur....anyway, dont let the consul intimidate you on your next interview...look smart and talk smart...prepare by running through your mind the possible questions that you will be asked and then practice answering them...effective communication plus complete documentation will ensure your interview success...Good luck friend...

[loggingoof 0]

Hello Vj's

I just got home from the embassy for my interview, I am so sad things didn't go well for me. i've been interviewed two times. First at the consul then they told me to be back at 1pm for another interview. My second interview is at the Fraud unit. We were 7 applicants 4 K-3's and 3 K-1 applicants. Four of us the problem was we met our spouses/fiances through our relatives and we never thought that will be a big disadvantage for us. The consul thinks our marriage was just a fixed marriage because it was my Aunt who introduced to us with each other and the fact that we just only met once in person and then got married right away. I told them Bill and I known each other for more than two years and though we were just talking on phone, texting, chatting and sending emails and mailing cards by then we fell in love with each other and that feeling remained when we met in person and we decided to get married ASAP because we love and don't want to lose each other. But hell, they're not convinced yet. So they set me another interview at 1pm @ room 1206. When i went to room 1206 that was i realized that the room i'm going to is a FRAUD UNIT. I feels like "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? bakit ako pinapunta dito ano kala nila sa kasal namin fake?"

My fellow applicants kept asking each other why we are here,what's the problem? Afterwards we filled-up papers Q&A about all the details of the relationship like how i we met, did we go out for dates when we were together, time and place of the wedding, how many guests,have you've been courted before, did your spouse gave you an engagements ring, where did he buy,if there's an engave inside blah blah blah...huh!!!!

My co-applicants has been sheduled to come back on the 30th,the other is on the 11th, an the other one is tomorrow.Lucky for me and the two we got interviewed right away. But GUYS I"VE NEVER BEEN INTERVIEWED IN MY WHOLE LIFE LIKE THAT. My interviewer was a filipina woman but i can't speak in tagalog..haha.

She asked me every lil details about the relationships but my mind go crant when she asked me about my hubby's ex-wives like how was your husband and his 1st wife known each other, where an what is her job "HAY NAKU MALAY KO BA?!!!"i just told her i on't know maam. Another thing she looked at the wedding photo an she said my husband is not interested or serious on our weing day because his hand was in his pocket "OH, GOOD LOR, IF SHE ONLY KNEW MY HOW HAPPY AND EXCITED MY HUSBAND WAS THAT TIME...I've been interviewed for an hour but i think she just stopped asking me because i cried so much when he asked about my grandparents, she asked my why i said my lolo is dying..Then she console me and said "perhaps, this is not your time yet to get a visa because of your lolo, go and get a plane ticket and be with him first." then she gave a paper which stating i have to call the embassy to schedule of interview "AGAIN" and the mails that i mailed to my husband. But before i left the room she gave me a prayer paper.I was so touched

sorry to hear that too...but you know, i am so proud of you after going through that what seem to be like tortur....anyway, dont let the consul intimidate you on your next interview...look smart and talk smart...prepare by running through your mind the possible questions that you will be asked and then practice answering them...effective communication plus complete documentation will ensure your interview success...Good luck friend...

Thanks honeyskin, I will take my time. Bill and i wanted to make we have all everything ang well prepared for the next interview. Thanks again.

[loggingoof 0]

Hello Vj's

I just got home from the embassy for my interview, I am so sad things didn't go well for me. i've been interviewed two times. First at the consul then they told me to be back at 1pm for another interview. My second interview is at the Fraud unit. We were 7 applicants 4 K-3's and 3 K-1 applicants. Four of us the problem was we met our spouses/fiances through our relatives and we never thought that will be a big disadvantage for us. The consul thinks our marriage was just a fixed marriage because it was my Aunt who introduced to us with each other and the fact that we just only met once in person and then got married right away. I told them Bill and I known each other for more than two years and though we were just talking on phone, texting, chatting and sending emails and mailing cards by then we fell in love with each other and that feeling remained when we met in person and we decided to get married ASAP because we love and don't want to lose each other. But hell, they're not convinced yet. So they set me another interview at 1pm @ room 1206. When i went to room 1206 that was i realized that the room i'm going to is a FRAUD UNIT. I feels like "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? bakit ako pinapunta dito ano kala nila sa kasal namin fake?"

My fellow applicants kept asking each other why we are here,what's the problem? Afterwards we filled-up papers Q&A about all the details of the relationship like how i we met, did we go out for dates when we were together, time and place of the wedding, how many guests,have you've been courted before, did your spouse gave you an engagements ring, where did he buy,if there's an engave inside blah blah blah...huh!!!!

My co-applicants has been sheduled to come back on the 30th,the other is on the 11th, an the other one is tomorrow.Lucky for me and the two we got interviewed right away. But GUYS I"VE NEVER BEEN INTERVIEWED IN MY WHOLE LIFE LIKE THAT. My interviewer was a filipina woman but i can't speak in tagalog..haha.

She asked me every lil details about the relationships but my mind go crant when she asked me about my hubby's ex-wives like how was your husband and his 1st wife known each other, where an what is her job "HAY NAKU MALAY KO BA?!!!"i just told her i on't know maam. Another thing she looked at the wedding photo an she said my husband is not interested or serious on our weing day because his hand was in his pocket "OH, GOOD LOR, IF SHE ONLY KNEW MY HOW HAPPY AND EXCITED MY HUSBAND WAS THAT TIME...I've been interviewed for an hour but i think she just stopped asking me because i cried so much when he asked about my grandparents, she asked my why i said my lolo is dying..Then she console me and said "perhaps, this is not your time yet to get a visa because of your lolo, go and get a plane ticket and be with him first." then she gave a paper which stating i have to call the embassy to schedule of interview "AGAIN" and the mails that i mailed to my husband. But before i left the room she gave me a prayer paper.I was so touched

sorry to hear that too...but you know, i am so proud of you after going through that what seem to be like tortur....anyway, dont let the consul intimidate you on your next interview...look smart and talk smart...prepare by running through your mind the possible questions that you will be asked and then practice answering them...effective communication plus complete documentation will ensure your interview success...Good luck friend...

Thanks honeyskin, I will take my time. Bill and i wanted to make sure we have all everything and well prepared for the next interview. Thanks again.

[jeffcloe 0]

A friend shared this to me and might as well share this to you:

Faith being sure of what we hope for and certain of what is not yet seen (Hebrews 11:1)

Hang in there... find a shoulder to cry on, and move on from there... it's not a denial I'm sure, it is just not the right time... Soon your time will come and you'll be in your husband's arms, that would be awesome to look forward to. God bless.

jeff & cloe

[tedjen 0]

A friend shared this to me and might as well share this to you:

Faith being sure of what we hope for and certain of what is not yet seen (Hebrews 11:1)

Hang in there... find a shoulder to cry on, and move on from there... it's not a denial I'm sure, it is just not the right time... Soon your time will come and you'll be in your husband's arms, that would be awesome to look forward to. God bless.

jeff & cloe

Yes, they are just delays but definitely not a NO... Take it as a test, indeed, you will get over it!

God bless

[✿Ice Rain✿ 0]

Omg! Sorry to hear about your interview story. I hope things will get well for you. Good luck.