Time to say goodbye

[KC♥MP 0]

Just think of it as blessing in disguise. At least you've known what kind of person she is this early. There is somebody out there who will love you unconditionally and will not be embarrass of your physical look and who will not use you as a meal ticket. Give your self a time to heal. Wishing you will find true love and happiness soon.

[ccndyeth 0]

Cry if you must and Just move on.. Believe me you will thank that girl one day for letting you go.. coz if it wasn't for that YOU WILL NOT FIND THE BEST AND THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU!!!

[rosal548 0]

Thanks for the care and support everyone.................... Im sad but also happy at the same time, I can see that what she was better now then finding out later. You guys are great !! my online family.

thanks so much

[brokensmile 0]

i cant see any problem with you.....and i cnt find a good reason to leave someone just bcos he/shes fat.loving someone is not base on a pysichal appearnce but its in the heart.........shes a loser! yeh she is....i tell you shes really a big loser......move on. and hope to hear from you again too soon that you found the girl for you....good luck!

[brokensmile 0]

To let go is not to regret the past but to grow and live for the future Edited September 1, 2008 by brokensmile

[kingmanm2m 0]

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

Ok.. I do understand.. I agree with what you said, it is better that you have known the truth now than find it out later.. Perhaps, there is somebody out there for you. Somebody who will love you with no conditions. Who will love you for who you are not for what you are nor what you can be. I remember this quote and if it would help you then please bear it in your mind..

"Sometimes we would meet few "WRONG PEOPLE" for us to appreciate "THE RIGHT ONE" when that time comes.

Believe me, when you meet the woman who is destined to be your life time partner, you would realize her value more because of this incident.

Good Luck...

thanks !!!

I dont know where to go from here, what to do, its as if like i am going to be going nuts, going to lose my mind. What do i do ?

I am so sorry to hear that. Wow! Even me I cant bear to hear those words from the one I love, coz thats the worst thing I ever wanted to hear from my loveones..

Anyway, dont be too sad. I know what you feel. Thank God because you found it out earlier, Coz she might do something in the future, you just dont know.

God bless you. She is not for you, you will find someone who wil accept you as who you are..

Please..Cheer up..True love sees whats in the heart..And she is not your true love..

[noel_jas 0]

hi i'm sorry that such thing happened to you. i remember you created a thread before about having arguments and all so i suppose even before this thing happened you and your fiancee are having problems already. maybe she has other reasons for breaking up with you but whatever her reason is she doesn't have the right to comment on your weight or something. if she truly loves you she will accept you for who you are. it's a good thing that you find out her real motives now before it's too late. you deserve someone better. God bless you!

[rosal548 0]

is this normal for me not to fell sad right now but only to feel ANGER ?

Edited September 1, 2008 by rosal548

[ccndyeth 0]

Nope.. You will just waste your time getting angry with her.. you can just feel sorry for her cause by doing that it only shows that she cannot love anyone cause she doesn't love herself, she's using someone to help her family cause she's a loser.. besides it feels heavy when you keep that anger in your heart..

[~bLairwhich~ 0]

Sadness, loneliness, anger, hate, regrets whatever it is, you..in the end, will ACCEPT everything that happened. You can't tell your heart what to feel. If you feel pain, anger. so be it until it's over. What important is how you carry those bad feelings. You can always pray to God whenever you're in the height of bad emotions like anger. Be mad, be true until everything is over, as long as it will not lead in hurting yourself physically and anybody even her who had betrayed you. Everyone of us deserves to be happy.

Whatever happens you'll move on for sure.

Open your heart to love again and the next time, with someone who is honest and true.

is this normal for me not to fell sad right now but only to feel ANGER ?

Edited September 1, 2008 by ~bLairwhich~

[Honey&Sweety 1]

Let your emotions goes but don`t stick to it because it will just make you miserable. I am sorry to hear your story, at least she been honest with you about her feelings it hurts but it will go away ; you may be sad now and feel down but soon it will be over, someday you will just laugh at it. Everything happens for a reason, maybe God wants to convey message for you, listen to Him in the silence of your heart. Keep strong and have faith. There is hope for happiness just keep on praying and be forgiving. In the right time HE will give you; your heart desire that will make you happy! Cheer up!!!

[phil and nanz 0]

hi, i'm sorry to hear that, but thank god he's always there for you and in god's time you'll find that special person to love and be loved who will really make you happy god bless you and smile

nanz

[csmith1216 1]

dont lose hope. I am big man also and i really know how it feels to have that sprung on to you. I thank god every day that it happened me, i would not have met Jeneath had it not happened. Like the lyrics of a Patty Lovelace song "hurt me bad, in a real good way"

[rosal548 0]

im not going to deny it but im hurt but i know i should go on.............

I keep on thinking how i thought that she was the one. The fun times in Cebu and happiness was all part of a plan she had.

So sad.

[o0pink0o 3]

loving someone is accepting for what the person looks like and even accepting the down side of the person. i am sorry about what happened to you i am sure that God has a better plan for you and hopefully u'll meet the right one