Time to say goodbye

[rosal548 0]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[o0pink0o 3]

[Alexandra_v 0]

Good morning!

Oh Jason, Im so sorry !!!

Edited August 31, 2008 by Alexandra_v

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry to hear that but that's not LOVE because LOVE is unconditional..Hope you will find your true happiness someday

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

Edited August 31, 2008 by CaNdiD wiTcH

[rosal548 0]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry to hear that but that's not LOVE because LOVE is unconditional..Hope you will find your true happiness someday

thanks

but its better i find out now then later so i look at it as a blessing in disguise

[rosal548 0]

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

Ok.. I do understand.. I agree with what you said, it is better that you have known the truth now than find it out later.. Perhaps, there is somebody out there for you. Somebody who will love you with no conditions. Who will love you for who you are not for what you are nor what you can be. I remember this quote and if it would help you then please bear it in your mind..

"Sometimes we would meet few "WRONG PEOPLE" for us to appreciate "THE RIGHT ONE" when that time comes.

Believe me, when you meet the woman who is destined to be your life time partner, you would realize her value more because of this incident.

Good Luck...

Edited August 31, 2008 by CaNdiD wiTcH

[rosal548 0]

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

Ok.. I do understand.. I agree with what you said, it is better that you have known the truth now than find it out later.. Perhaps, there is somebody out there for you. Somebody who will love you with no conditions. Who will love you for who you are not for what you are nor what you can be. I remember this quote and if it would help you then please bear it in your mind..

"Sometimes we would meet few "WRONG PEOPLE" for us to appreciate "THE RIGHT ONE" when that time comes.

Believe me, when you meet the woman who is destined to be your life time partner, you would realize her value more because of this incident.

Good Luck...

thanks !!!

I dont know where to go from here, what to do, its as if like i am going to be going nuts, going to lose my mind. What do i do ?

[Completely 3]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi..

I am glad that you finally found that shes not really into you..

Sometimes I feel bad for the americans who find a filipino like that who are trying to use them for financial purposes.. But this is what I will tell you.. Any countries has bad apples and oranges.. Let me tell you why, some Filipinas are really honest with their feeling as they really fall in love with the person easily, but on the other hand, the american guy is opposite to her.. Some are married and some are just want something else and lying about their feelings..

Just count this as a blessing.. that you found it early.. this will give you enough time to realize and decide.. and hope you will find a good woman next time, whatever country she came from.

God bless.

Edited August 31, 2008 by Completely

[mRs StOcKwElL 1]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh my!!! Sorry to hear that!!!

Oh my...oh my...I have a fiance as big as you too and it doesn't matter for/to me...instead I love him so much with all my life!!!

MOVE ON!!! and HAVE FAITH you will find the RIGHT GIRL for you GOD have prepared...Don't be scared don't quit

Edited August 31, 2008 by Rodge & Ninfa

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

thanks !!!

I dont know where to go from here, what to do, its as if like i am going to be going nuts, going to lose my mind. What do i do ?

Give yourself time to mourn or cry first. It helps. Do not resist the pain. Do not be in self denial that you are hurt (we have the tendency to be that way). It wouldn't help you overcome the situation if you wouldn't accept that fact. But do not be drowned to loneliness. They said we have the capacity to turn negative things into positive one. Concentrate on some other things like work, hobbies or friends. To make yourself feel better just say to yourself "it is her lost not mine". Talk to a person who is so close to you. Just to unload everything..

[yogib37 3]

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi

I am sorry that this happen to you. She said some very hurtful things about you. I know that would crush me.

I dont think you are overweight at all, you look like you have a strong body with a lot of meat on you. so dont worry what she says..

good luck

[~bLairwhich~ 0]

It's indeed a blessing in disguise!

Keep your heads up!

"Love is forgiving". If you still have love left for her just forgive her and then eventually get over her.

You'll find your way. That's for sure.

[DARUMA07 25]

Jason, I PM'd you.... Keep your head up Bro!