question for mox

[akdiver 3]

i didnt say i got scammed i said i DO NOT WANT to get scammed

If you don't want to be scammed, you should shop for your wife quite carefully.

[Ilya R. 0]

Or check if they have a good return policy

[gaffer 0]

why you gotta be so mean, im just looking for help like everyone else hear. the girl im writing to is from kazzan and since mox had a girl from kazzan who scammed him i just want to get his experience so i dont make the same mistake whats wrong with that?!?!?! what if it even turns out to be the same girl dont u think that would be good to know?!?! i thought this was teh place where people are supposed to help each other. estadia i do not got my answer because its like he is refusing all personalm essages not just mine. im just hoping he will come here and answer thats all. if he dont want to talk about it he should just say so

[akdiver 3]

Or check if they have a good return policy

Or pay with Visa so you can initiate a dispute for the charge if you don't get the product you were promised.

[workin4somethin 0]

Hey everyone.... I am writing with a woman from kazan right now and I wanted to hear your experiences. How did u start talking to her and what did she say? How come it didn't work out? Are u still talking to her? Anyway i just wanted to ask u because the girl I am writing is form kazzan too and maybe i can learn something. thx!!!!

I certainly understand your not wanting to get scammed, as a lot of guys have been. A friend of mine was scammed by a woman (or a man) from Kazan.

My advice is, "If it sounds too good to be true, or simply unreal, it is probably a scam." Take your time with everything. There are a lot of web sites that list names and photos of known scammers.

I dated a girl from Russia (not my wife, and not from Kazan), and after about a year, I decided she was not my type. I dropped her. Then about a year after that, I saw her name and photo on a web site that lists scammers. She didn't scam me, but I guess she got to somebody.

Good luck!

[Brad and Vika 129]

why you gotta be so mean, im just looking for help like everyone else hear. the girl im writing to is from kazzan and since mox had a girl from kazzan who scammed him i just want to get his experience so i dont make the same mistake whats wrong with that?!?!?! what if it even turns out to be the same girl dont u think that would be good to know?!?! i thought this was teh place where people are supposed to help each other. estadia i do not got my answer because its like he is refusing all personalm essages not just mine. im just hoping he will come here and answer thats all. if he dont want to talk about it he should just say so

gaffer - look back at the history of posts to mox on the Russia forum. We are assuming you are a troll because 1) You have almost no profile information or pics, 2) You addressed mox directly and publicly first (again, look at the history), and 3) You went straight at the source of all the previous trollish posts, his ex. None of us wants to hear any more of that.

Go back and fill in the profile, and try contacting other VJers who are involved with people in Kazan - there are lots of 'em. Otherwise, prepare for the troll treatment.

[TBoneTX 45,866]

he is refusing all personalm essages not just mine.

And how would you know this, prithee, especially if you're (purportedly) new? Either follow the constructive advice given you, or buzz off.

[gaffer 0]

u guys act like mox cant speak for himself...........maybe he wants to tell his story why dont you just wait for him to say if he wants to talk about how he got scammed by nadia or not..............brad i will fill in my profile if it makes u happy..........tbonetx u dont have to be rude i just meant the error message sounds like he refuses all messages not just mine........u guys need to chill out im just looking for information so i dont get scammed like mox did and i think he would be doing all of vj a favor if he shares how he got scammed so we can avoid it so stop accusing me of things i didnt do.........im just trying to help is all

[Jeraly 4]

i didnt say i got scammed i said i DO NOT WANT to get scammed

If you don't want to be scammed, you should shop for your wife quite carefully.

Also can I just step in and say that mox did NOT get scammed - if you had ever spoken to him or knew anything about his situation, you would realise this. If he is not accepting PMs then face the fact that he prolly just doesn't want to be annoyed by people spamming him with questions about his so-say "scam" relationship.

Badgering him on a public forum is downright rude and if he has any sense he will just ignore it - why would he want to publicise more of his personal information when he doesn't even want to PM it?

[gaffer 0]

im not badgering him im just trying to ask some questions how is that badgering?!?!?! if he dont want to talk then let him say it himself instead of you putting words in his mouth????? maybe he wants to talk and he just hasnt seen this post yet......you dont even know..........im just trying to help be a part of vj and help people out so why are you all so hostile????

[sara..... 371]

i didnt say i got scammed i said i DO NOT WANT to get scammed

If you don't want to be scammed, you should shop for your wife quite carefully.

Also can I just step in and say that mox did NOT get scammed - if you had ever spoken to him or knew anything about his situation, you would realise this. If he is not accepting PMs then face the fact that he prolly just doesn't want to be annoyed by people spamming him with questions about his so-say "scam" relationship.

Badgering him on a public forum is downright rude and if he has any sense he will just ignore it - why would he want to publicise more of his personal information when he doesn't even want to PM it?

awe Jeraly why did have and go say that for lol we knew that .....and it was what was telling us it was that twisted piece of garbage that has been harassing mox.......... plus the fact he just wont let it go......most intelligent people would

Edited August 29, 2008 by estadia

[sara..... 371]

im not badgering him im just trying to ask some questions how is that badgering?!?!?! if he dont want to talk then let him say it himself instead of you putting words in his mouth????? maybe he wants to talk and he just hasnt seen this post yet......you dont even know..........im just trying to help be a part of vj and help people out so why are you all so hostile????

trust me he has heard about it

[Brad and Vika 129]

im not badgering him im just trying to ask some questions how is that badgering?!?!?! if he dont want to talk then let him say it himself instead of you putting words in his mouth????? maybe he wants to talk and he just hasnt seen this post yet......you dont even know..........im just trying to help be a part of vj and help people out so why are you all so hostile????

Look at the post history gaffer. Mox has posted his entire story before - completely. Why don't you want to reach out to others that have SOs from the same area (if you really think the area is important). Try men who write women in the FSU, there are LOTS of them. Again, why is mox so important to you? there is lots of advise here, and lots of other people willing to give it. I am sure mox has seen your posts, and will contact you if he wants to communicate.

[gaffer 0]

fine then if there is someone else from kazzan here that got scammed like mox did then please tell ur story and i have a lot of questions to ask.........mox is only one i know of right now but maybe there is lots.........and i am not harasing anynoe estadia i am just here like everyone else trying to learn about stuff and help each other out..............sorry if ur offended im sure its tough on everyone to have these long distance relationships maybe the stress is getting too you

[sara..... 371]

fine then if there is someone else from kazzan here that got scammed like mox did then please tell ur story and i have a lot of questions to ask.........mox is only one i know of right now but maybe there is lots.........and i am not harasing anynoe estadia i am just here like everyone else trying to learn about stuff and help each other out..............sorry if ur offended im sure its tough on everyone to have these long distance relationships maybe the stress is getting too you

you know if u had addressed this to anyone that has gone thru Kazzan instead of to our mox we might be more inclined to believe u