what do u do when u get bored??

[ginger1981 0]

now i fully understand why most american guys would rather marry a Filipina or asian women....just by a simple boredom, european or american women would rather use a vibrator to satisfy their needs. no wonder divorce is legal in America...

Ok now you are getting rude.

Listen, it was a suggestion to do when your husband was away...not when he was there. And if you had a creative bent there are plenty of things you could incorporate into your sex life w/ your husband if you so chose. If you don't want to that is fine. But your remark about Euro/American women ignoring men for vibrators is just plain ignorant. I think there are a variety of reasons men go for Asian women, and it is quite sad if the only reason is because they perceive of you as little more than their own personal sex toys. I take offense to that because my Asian friends are much, much more than that.

[*julez* 124]

Your husband must be insecure about his ####### and his ability to use it if he's offended by the suggestion that you use a vibrator to pass some time while he's at work. People in healthy relationships know that sex toys can enhance their sexual relationship. I'm sure glad I'm not repressed.

Maybe you should try basket weaving or needle point to pass the time, rather than posting comments that stereotype people.

[filirican 3]

now i fully understand why most american guys would rather marry a Filipina or asian women....just by a simple boredom, european or american women would rather use a vibrator to satisfy their needs. no wonder divorce is legal in America...

Ok now you are getting rude.

Listen, it was a suggestion to do when your husband was away...not when he was there. And if you had a creative bent there are plenty of things you could incorporate into your sex life w/ your husband if you so chose. If you don't want to that is fine. But your remark about Euro/American women ignoring men for vibrators is just plain ignorant. I think there are a variety of reasons men go for Asian women, and it is quite sad if the only reason is because they perceive of you as little more than their own personal sex toys. I take offense to that because my Asian friends are much, much more than that.

as u can see..this is in the moving here and ur new life in america---meaning ur already here in america and u are with ur husband..i don't know which part u didn't understnad about that..but u may be referring to the time when u are not with ur husband and u get horny..well i guess that's the time ur suggestion is more appropriate.'

if u think iam being rude then go back and read which part have made me become rude...im only rude when people are being unrespectful..

and isn't it true that divorce is legal in America? check out asian countries if they are legal there.. and as far as i know...the percentage of divorce cases of asian women married to Euro/American men are very small compared to their women...thats what statistics show...

[filirican 3]

Your husband must be insecure about his ####### and his ability to use it if he's offended by the suggestion that you use a vibrator to pass some time while he's at work. People in healthy relationships know that sex toys can enhance their sexual relationship. I'm sure glad I'm not repressed.

Maybe you should try basket weaving or needle point to pass the time, rather than posting comments that stereotype people.

my sex life has never been wonderful but i don't think it would be appropriate to be posting it here..and getting a vibrator to replace his d*ck.

maybe u should't replied in my thread if u would only show how u were breed..

[*julez* 124]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

[filirican 3]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

suggesting is one thing...but even my American husband find it nasty to be suggesting a vibrator on a topic that wasn't supposed to be about sex or being horny...

[tom&tata 2]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

suggesting is one thing...but even my American husband find it nasty to be suggesting a vibrator on a topic that wasn't supposed to be about sex or being horny...

If you do not want to get suggestion that you do not want to hear....why post in the first place on public message board? It's a public space - you can post anything you want & there are other people with the same right - unless it is against TOS.

[pcana 1]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

suggesting is one thing...but even my American husband find it nasty to be suggesting a vibrator on a topic that wasn't supposed to be about sex or being horny...

If you do not want to get suggestion that you do not want to hear....why post in the first place on public message board? It's a public space - you can post anything you want & there are other people with the same right - unless it is against TOS.

It's a cultural thing and nobody is right or wrong here. We just need to be tolerant about other's people customes and this should be on both sides.

Abby

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

suggesting is one thing...but even my American husband find it nasty to be suggesting a vibrator on a topic that wasn't supposed to be about sex or being horny...

If you do not want to get suggestion that you do not want to hear....why post in the first place on public message board? It's a public space - you can post anything you want & there are other people with the same right - unless it is against TOS.

It's a cultural thing and nobody is right or wrong here. We just need to be tolerant about other's people customes and this should be on both sides.

Abby

I do agree.. In our culture, using vibrators or any sex toys are not that accepted by the society or shall I say not widespread in our country.. The OP is a Filipina, perhaps the sole reason for her reaction.

[no name 1]

Suggesting a vibrator to pass the time is NOT disrespectful. It's merely a suggestion that you can either try or not try. Nothing more. Nothing less. Get a grip.

suggesting is one thing...but even my American husband find it nasty to be suggesting a vibrator on a topic that wasn't supposed to be about sex or being horny...

If you do not want to get suggestion that you do not want to hear....why post in the first place on public message board? It's a public space - you can post anything you want & there are other people with the same right - unless it is against TOS.

It's a cultural thing and nobody is right or wrong here. We just need to be tolerant about other's people customes and this should be on both sides.

Abby

I do agree.. In our culture, using vibrators or any sex toys are not that accepted by the society or shall I say not widespread in our country.. The OP is a Filipina, perhaps the sole reason for her reaction.

Well, you live in America now, and are married to an American man. You might want to try to assimilate.

[Marilyn. 340]

I really hope you are kidding

because it would be kind of silly to tell people to forgot everything they were brought up believing just because they live in the US now...

[SMB x2 0]

I was going to suggest an Xbox 360, but perhaps I'll just duck out of this one ><

Stu

Edited August 27, 2008 by SMB x2

[no name 1]

I really hope you are kidding

because it would be kind of silly to tell people to forgot everything they were brought up believing just because they live in the US now...

Do you know what assimilate means? It does not mean what you suggested.

[Marilyn. 340]

I really hope you are kidding

because it would be kind of silly to tell people to forgot everything they were brought up believing just because they live in the US now...

Do you know what assimilate means? It does not mean what you suggested.

ok maybe not exactly..

it does mean to become similar or like something else.... to adapt to your surroundings... which would mean having to give up certain things you are used too which in this context is the belief that sex toys are a no-no...

[melusine 5]

I am in general quite nice and patient but...

Fine the vibrator idea was not the most sensible but most probably true... (take it or leave it)

But

I do think that hannyperez was way more disrespectful with the "now i fully understand why most american guys would rather marry a Filipina or asian women....just by a simple boredom, european or american women would rather use a vibrator to satisfy their needs. no wonder divorce is legal in America... "

If one thing was uncalled for...her it was !

I also think that Filiricans got on a power trip on that one