August I-130 approvals, lets do NVC together.

[nimche 8]

You need to be a rock now.

Yeh,

As long as you don't throw yourself at us!

MsZ, are U a psychologist? You words up there are really valid and logic understandable. Thank you for your helps.

[MsZ 6]

No, I just play one on the net.

[nimche 8]

RFE is here... Generated on 9-24-2009(not bad, mailed on the same day and form east to west coast in two days)

Missing documents:

Turkey Police Ceritificate

I think this is not fair. Person who was in charge of my case didn't even look at those copies for the God sake. I had included two copies.

So, this was a mistake from their end.

Nothing to say.

Cheers guys...

Anyone esle got an update?

Edited September 26, 2008 by nimche

[nunyab 0]

Ilya, with the time getting closer to move, she's probably extremely nervous. Do everything in your power not to put a negative spin on what you perceive from her. She's about to make a massive life change. Be both positive and realistic. Positive without realism will not provide security to her. But being positive and realistic will assure her that you will take good care of her during this transition.

Bottom line is that if she's not asking it is more likely because she's doing last minute reevaluations which are completely normal and completely understandable. You need to be a rock now.

try your best she is leaving alot to something not well known. She loves you is all that she knows and it is a scary time i am sure.

good luck... mine??? he just wants to find a job and a soccer team to play with hehe

[nimche 8]

I need to mention this for future issues on RFE:

Address you send your RFE:

National Visa Center

ATTN: DR

32 Rochester Ave.

Postsmouth, NH 03801-2909

Now, I know where the "DR" is used for. FOR YOUR RFE. I hope they transfer my file to DR section as I out CMR.

I will call them this afternoon.

[Ilya R. 0]

Ilya, with the time getting closer to move, she's probably extremely nervous. Do everything in your power not to put a negative spin on what you perceive from her. She's about to make a massive life change. Be both positive and realistic. Positive without realism will not provide security to her. But being positive and realistic will assure her that you will take good care of her during this transition.

Bottom line is that if she's not asking it is more likely because she's doing last minute reevaluations which are completely normal and completely understandable. You need to be a rock now.

We've been arguing alot, she blames me for alot of things. I dont know ####### is going on lately. I have lots of work and NVC, and my wife's pissy days. grrrrrrrrrr i want beer

[nimche 8]

Ilya, with the time getting closer to move, she's probably extremely nervous. Do everything in your power not to put a negative spin on what you perceive from her. She's about to make a massive life change. Be both positive and realistic. Positive without realism will not provide security to her. But being positive and realistic will assure her that you will take good care of her during this transition.

Bottom line is that if she's not asking it is more likely because she's doing last minute reevaluations which are completely normal and completely understandable. You need to be a rock now.

We've been arguing alot, she blames me for alot of things. I dont know ####### is going on lately. I have lots of work and NVC, and my wife's pissy days. grrrrrrrrrr i want beer

Get use to this (1)

Try to keep her happy (2)

I will write a shortcut about how to deal with your spouse (general) (I am just kidding) (3)

Keep it real.

i want beer

You should have said here "I want her"

[MsZ 6]

Actually, blame is very bad. She has to take responsibility for herself and her decisions if this is going to work. If not, she might be too young to handle it. And it is unfair to you.

http://www.coping.org/growth/accept.htm

Ilya, ask her to please share what is bothering her. A lot of little arguments are usually about something else and getting her to talk about it might help. Just ask her if she's scared about moving. She might be afraid to tell you.

[CHD 0]

I need to mention this for future issues on RFE:

Address you send your RFE:

National Visa Center

ATTN: DR

32 Rochester Ave.

Postsmouth, NH 03801-2909

Now, I know where the "DR" is used for. FOR YOUR RFE. I hope they transfer my file to DR section as I out CMR.

I will call them this afternoon.

It will get there, I promise you. I did the same thing. I recall reading that RFE's go to ATTN: DR, but naturally when I was filling out the form with the courier it completely slipped my mind and I used CMR again. Took a little longer to get into the system (it was delivered at 10:30am on 09/23 but not entered until 09/25 when everything else was entered same or next day), but it WILL get there.

[Lars-N-Yenia 8]

I need to mention this for future issues on RFE:

Address you send your RFE:

National Visa Center

ATTN: DR

32 Rochester Ave.

Postsmouth, NH 03801-2909

Now, I know where the "DR" is used for. FOR YOUR RFE. I hope they transfer my file to DR section as I out CMR.

I will call them this afternoon.

It will get there, I promise you. I did the same thing. I recall reading that RFE's go to ATTN: DR, but naturally when I was filling out the form with the courier it completely slipped my mind and I used CMR again. Took a little longer to get into the system (it was delivered at 10:30am on 09/23 but not entered until 09/25 when everything else was entered same or next day), but it WILL get there.

I made the same mistake...I called and expressed my concern to an NVC operator and she told me they recieved it and not to worry about it...2-4 weeks to review it....of coarse

[nimche 8]

I don't know if anyone got complete thing, but I called this afternooon and that guy (Matt or Max) told me seems that eveything is done and it will go out to embassy. He said something about expedite request was approved or whatever. I guess he was drunk or somthing.

Something I have noticed recently that they don't pickup the phone after 3-5 min wait, like phone rings for about 12 times and then someone picks it up.

What is going on, is it only me or anyone else had the same experience?

[nimche 8]

UPDATE:

Called NVC again, she said embassy has approved the expedite request!

Case is not complete yet,

I found these people very confuse about finding your information on their computer.

PCC has been entered into the system and under review (probably wait till Monday) another weekend hits our poor case.

I may celebrate pretty soon. I miss you guys

[Ling Ling 22]

UPDATE:

Called NVC again, she said embassy has approved the expedite request!

Case is not complete yet,

I found these people very confuse about finding your information on their computer.

PCC has been entered into the system and under review (probably wait till Monday) another weekend hits our poor case.

I may celebrate pretty soon. I miss you guys

Nimche...how dare you jump ahead of me...thought we were in the same boat...now I've gotta paddle by myself?

No...congratulations brother. Hope you and Mimche are together soon. Don't forget...Ling Ling is a great name for your first born.

[trinket 30]

Hi all, I am not an august approval, but have just sent our package to NVC. It was received on 25th of Sept.

I have been looking at timelines and saw most of the cases where under review within 2 days, so how do you guys know it, I mean, will it automatically update on AVR or you have to talk one of the Representatives after 2 days? I am hoping for my husband to call later on Monday night and see about it.

Also, does NVC work on Saturdays?

Thanks for help

[nimche 8]

NVC doesn't work on Saturdays.

We know they got the package base on the post service tracking number and then by calling them and have a chat with the operator. They can pull out any informations and see where is your case.

Good Luck