How open is OPEN?

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I know that being open is one of the key factors in a relationship..

Just curious about how open it is when you say OPEN?

Does that mean that you two have access in each other's e-mail?

Checking phones? Credit card bills? Credit card numbers and security codes? Expenses? Finances like salaries and bank accounts? Whereabouts? Who's with you?

Work timing? Etc?

[mRx 16]

I think that trust is the biggest factor in a relationship. But that's just me. Snooping through inboxes, and checking credit card logs is petty and ghey. If you don't trust someone, then don't get married to them, it's simple.

As for me, we both have the same bank account, and we are both always logged into our e-mail. But I don't check hers, and I doubt she checks mine.

As for whereabouts, I don't think it's wrong to wonder where your wife/husband is. But if you are expected to check in every hour and give your location, well, I think that's a bit controlling.

[Carol and Bruno 0]

I think that trust is the biggest factor in a relationship. But that's just me. Snooping through inboxes, and checking credit card logs is petty and ghey. If you don't trust someone, then don't get married to them, it's simple.

As for me, we both have the same bank account, and we are both always logged into our e-mail. But I don't check hers, and I doubt she checks mine.

As for whereabouts, I don't think it's wrong to wonder where your wife/husband is. But if you are expected to check in every hour and give your location, well, I think that's a bit controlling.

I agree!!

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I think that trust is the biggest factor in a relationship. But that's just me. Snooping through inboxes, and checking credit card logs is petty and ghey. If you don't trust someone, then don't get married to them, it's simple.

As for me, we both have the same bank account, and we are both always logged into our e-mail. But I don't check hers, and I doubt she checks mine.

As for whereabouts, I don't think it's wrong to wonder where your wife/husband is. But if you are expected to check in every hour and give your location, well, I think that's a bit controlling.

I agree.. Trust is one of the biggest factor. Our relationship (me and my husband) is really an open one. I could have access in all his e-mails and vice versa. I am just wondering if some people here in VJ have the same kind of openness.. I would also be surprised if my husband would not wonder where am I..

[Otto 83]

Before bank accounts, emails, etc - one should be open about his/her feelings... learning to communicate is far more important.

[msu17 0]

My husband and I both know all our passwords etc. We share all our accounts, so we always know what the other's spending. Since we don't have much right now and no kids, we agreed to talk about anything over 50$, so there's no huge surprises.

We dont check in every hour, but if we are going somewhere that we normally dont, we call and check in. Ie, I stay after class to study or go out with a friend for a while (more than an hour) I give him a text. But that's only if I know he'll be home and worried that I'm not back yet.

I just try and think what would tick me off if he did and he does the same.

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

Before bank accounts, emails, etc - one should be open about his/her feelings... learning to communicate is far more important.

that's the first thing we both learned.. I want to add, sensitivity in each other's needs..

[Ban Hammer 13,016]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

Charles, just want to have an idea how open the relationship should be.

[william_wallace 8]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

Charles, just want to have an idea how open the relationship should be.

He probably thought it was opened legs.

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

Charles, just want to have an idea how open the relationship should be.

He probably thought it was opened legs.

[Ban Hammer 13,016]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

Charles, just want to have an idea how open the relationship should be.

you might wanna do a search on the term "open relationship"

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

not quite what i thought i'd find when i saw a thread about an open relationship.

Charles, just want to have an idea how open the relationship should be.

you might wanna do a search on the term "open relationship"

I could do that.. But I want to post and ask here.. My choice..

[marjorie 0]

I know that being open is one of the key factors in a relationship..

Just curious about how open it is when you say OPEN?

Does that mean that you two have access in each other's e-mail?

Checking phones? Credit card bills? Credit card numbers and security codes? Expenses? Finances like salaries and bank accounts? Whereabouts? Who's with you?

Work timing? Etc?

I agree that being open to each other is a big factor to a relationship. i think for this very moment i know i have nothing that i hide from him. he knows everything about me. email password,ATM PIN and credit cards. I can check his email he can check mine. i will tell him who write to him but sometimes if i know that email from somebody new for me. then i won't open the mail. i let him know he has a new mail. actually we have nothing to hide about emails. only him who write me often or sometimes my bro and sis. and we also have same frndster account. Being open to your partner is a good sign of a healthy relationship. it shows that you have nothing to hide from him/her. like for us. sometimes even without saying it yet to him. he already knows whats on my mind. sometimes i ask him how did you know that? he answered me this YOU KNOW HONEY, THAT I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. for me its really wow! its amazing!!!!

If i am upset or feel bad about something then i tell him. but also sometimes i cannot tell him because i feel him because of my pride( i know its not good)i already chage it.hehehehe. but he knows already whats on my mind. so now i tell him na. We talk about our finances,family and frnds and also we talk about S...X . i kow some couple are not open about that. but him his very sensitive and he has a big respect to me.and we talk about it. we make it sure we both enjoy and like it. not because we are feel obligated or being force to do so...

Being open to your partner is doesn't mean you did not trust him/her. For me it just shows that we have the complete trust to each other. For me i think that one of the biggest factor of our healthy relationship.

Being open you both learn to each other alot. I am so blessed to have him in my life my one great love,my husband.

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I know that being open is one of the key factors in a relationship..

Just curious about how open it is when you say OPEN?

Does that mean that you two have access in each other's e-mail?

Checking phones? Credit card bills? Credit card numbers and security codes? Expenses? Finances like salaries and bank accounts? Whereabouts? Who's with you?

Work timing? Etc?

I agree that being open to each other is a big factor to a relationship. i think for this very moment i know i have nothing that i hide from him. he knows everything about me. email password,ATM PIN and credit cards. I can check his email he can check mine. i will tell him who write to him but sometimes if i know that email from somebody new for me. then i won't open the mail. i let him know he has a new mail. actually we have nothing to hide about emails. only him who write me often or sometimes my bro and sis. and we also have same frndster account. Being open to your partner is a good sign of a healthy relationship. it shows that you have nothing to hide from him/her. like for us. sometimes even without saying it yet to him. he already knows whats on my mind. sometimes i ask him how did you know that? he answered me this YOU KNOW HONEY, THAT I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. for me its really wow! its amazing!!!!

If i am upset or feel bad about something then i tell him. but also sometimes i cannot tell him because i feel him because of my pride( i know its not good)i already chage it.hehehehe. but he knows already whats on my mind. so now i tell him na. We talk about our finances,family and frnds and also we talk about S...X . i kow some couple are not open about that. but him his very sensitive and he has a big respect to me.and we talk about it. we make it sure we both enjoy and like it. not because we are feel obligated or being force to do so...

Being open to your partner is doesn't mean you did not trust him/her. For me it just shows that we have the complete trust to each other. For me i think that one of the biggest factor of our healthy relationship.

Being open you both learn to each other alot. I am so blessed to have him in my life my one great love,my husband.

I really do agree..