Is it getting old or what ?

[rosal548 0]

It's all about letting each other have their own space and their own identity... Plan a time of the day or night where it is your time(meaning both)... Make that time your special time... Right now you both are apart, but you can still have that special time for each other.. When you two are living together here, set aside a few hours a night just for the two of you..... Don't ever let it get to the point of smothering her... It will drive her away from you... Relax and let her be herself... Good Luck to you!!!

thanks I will do that exactly

[barenaked 0]

i must admit that this is the hardest struggle in a long distance relationship.

You tend to be more needy and possessive, more jealous and uneasy...

but in the long run, your trust for your partner will give you the security you've been wanting to feel.

If you trust your partner that much, you will have no space for doubts.

It's not easy, i know, especially if you've been badly hurt and broken in your past.

You may feel defensive and afraid of being hurt and fooled again.

Let her know how you feel so she can make an extra effort to make you feel more secured.

Speak up, there should always be an open communication...

stuffs like this should never be taken for granted,

it may just be a small issue for now, but it could lead into a bigger problem in the future...