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Hi, Im new here.. I recently had my greencard (conditional) but my husband wants to divorce me, he said he just fall out of love :( I have to respect his decision, my question now is my greencard is good for 2 years only, How can i remove my condition of status if me and my husband are not together anymore, Is there any options for me what should i do? I want to continue my living and work here in US because i been here for a year and half..I really appreciate the help.

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From what I have seen here about cases similar to yours you can remove conditions on your own. It may be harder but if your marriage was in good faith then they will let you stay. Maybe someone with more experience may be able to help you. Good luck.

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Hi, I'm new here. I recently got my CGC and now my husband says he wants a divorce b/c he fell out of love with me.

Wow! You should be really grateful to your husband. What a nice guy!

He wants a divorce after you already got a CGC. Had he wanted it before, your chances of obtaining one would've been very slim.

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I am so sorry things have not worked out for you.... you can file to remove the conditions as soon as your divorce is completed, you dont have to wait the 2 years.... you will have to be able to prove that you entered into the marraige in good faith...

Hope this has helped

Kezzie

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I am so sorry things have not worked out for you.... you can file to remove the conditions as soon as your divorce is completed, you dont have to wait the 2 years.... you will have to be able to prove that you entered into the marraige in good faith...

Hope this has helped

Kezzie

Thanks for the response, that really gives me idea what to do after he divorce me! I still have so many question in my mind , like what is the example of the proof that the marriage was in a good faith that i can give to INS..I Hope that theres anyone here who know my case and give me more advice and what to do..

thanks guys! I really appreciate the help.

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Italy
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dmartmar shut up pls. You are always the first one who bothers people who r already in pain. Shut your mouth and leave pls. Your absence is really appreciated. I also ignored you, that way I wont read any of your posts.

You can remove the conditional on your own, as long as you can prove that your marriage is a bona fida marriage, which I think it is. Im really sorry and I wish you all my best! (L)

Maria

Got married in Killeen, Texas on April 27 2004

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I am so sorry things have not worked out for you.... you can file to remove the conditions as soon as your divorce is completed, you dont have to wait the 2 years.... you will have to be able to prove that you entered into the marraige in good faith...

Hope this has helped

Kezzie

Thanks for the response, that really gives me idea what to do after he divorce me! I still have so many question in my mind , like what is the example of the proof that the marriage was in a good faith that i can give to INS..I Hope that theres anyone here who know my case and give me more advice and what to do..

thanks guys! I really appreciate the help.

If you search on here using the term waiver I-751 you should find plenty of threads that speak of removing conditions from the green card after a divorce. Basically, you need to demonstrate that when you married you intended to co-mingle your financial and social lives and resided together (if applicable, since some people may not able for professional or educational reasons)

Evidence can be and is not restricted to:

Tax returns filed as married

Joint bank statements

Joint credit card bills

Joint utilities

Your name on health insurance with your husband

Alien listed as a beneficiary on life insurance

Both names on titles for autos

Both names on deed for home

Both names on a lease

Both names on any loans

Driver's license showing the marital residence

etc....

"diaddie mermaid"

You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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Dmartmar, pls. shut up. You are always the first one who bothers people who r already in pain. Pls. shut your mouth up and leave. Your absence will really be appreciated. I also ignore you, so that way I won't read any of your posts.

You can remove the conditional on your own, as long as you can prove that your marriage was bona fide, which I think it is. I'm really sorry and wish you all my best!

Maria

You're ignoring my posts, yet replying to this one. Go figure! :wacko:

What about my post makes it seem like I'm bothering the OP? Just stop and analyze the situation for a second; the husband could've been an #$$hole and seek the divorce before their AOS interview, which of course would've jeopardized her CGC approval, but he was nice enough to still help her obtain it anyway. Hard to believe for someone who "fell out of love;" don't you think?

So of course she should be grateful to her husband! Wouldn't you?

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OP - if relations between you and your husband are cordial, and civil, (and I see nothing in your post to indicate otherwise) perhaps he can assist with evidence you BOTH entered into the marriage in good faith?

People DO fall out of love, and its better you guys end it NOW than struggle on unhappily - I do wish you both the best in the future :)

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To the OP - if relations between you and your husband are cordial and civil (as I see nothing in your post indicating otherwise), he could perhaps assist you with evidence that BOTH entered into marriage in good faith.

Their relations must be cordial and civil, based on the fact that her husband waited until after she got her CGC to propose the divorce, not before.

People DO fall out of love and it's better that you guys end it NOW, than struggle on unhappily. I do wish both of you the best in the future.

While it is true that people DO fall out of love, the husband still must've had some feelings of love left towards his wife if he helped her get the GC anyway and did not propose divorcing before their AOS interview.

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Ireland
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To the OP - if relations between you and your husband are cordial and civil (as I see nothing in your post indicating otherwise), he could perhaps assist you with evidence that BOTH entered into marriage in good faith.

Their relations must be cordial and civil, based on the fact that her husband waited until after she got her CGC to propose the divorce, not before.

People DO fall out of love and it's better that you guys end it NOW, than struggle on unhappily. I do wish both of you the best in the future.

While it is true that people DO fall out of love, the husband still must've had some feelings of love left towards his wife if he helped her get the GC anyway and did not propose divorcing before their AOS interview.

if you actually read her post it does not state that the husband waited until she received the green card until he initiated divorce proceedings or even the suggestion thereof - it stated that she received her green card and that now the husband is presently seeking a divorce... nothing more...

you know the issue of a green card (it would appear to mean a lot more to you than people who actually hold or want one), is your own suggestion and a construct of your own imagination - nowhere did the OP state or suggest that the divorce was put on hold until the conditional status was obtained -

the OP does not need nor want snide comments and perhaps your energy would be best spent elsewhere - a suggestion might be a board entitled 'i'm paranoid, insecure and most of all unfulfilled - plese help me!' i doubt that they would suggest that the cure was to become a cyber/virtual bully (aka a coward) so maybe don't bother because the answers might hurt....

to OP sorry for hijacking your thread and all the best..... niall

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I wish you all the best. Unfortunately it does happen but its better to divorce than to live an unhappy life.

Kat :luv:

I-130 for both parents

March 28th 2013 - Priority date/ NOA 1
November 14th 2013 - Transferred to Nebraska Service Center

January 7th 2014 - Case changed online to approved for both

January 8th 2014 - case changed to shipped to NVC

January 9th 2014 - case changed to NOA 2 mailed

January 10th 2014 - Received the hardcopy of the NOA 2 stating that NVC would issue a case number in 30 days approx.

January 21st 2014 - Case Received at NVC

February 26th 2014 - Case numbers and IIN number received - Wrong embassy code assigned...now waiting for new case numbers.

March 3rd 2014 - Filled in DS-261 for both parents

March 5th 2014- AOS available, paid and submitted AOS packet.

March 6th 2014 - USPS shows packet was delivered at NVC

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March 11th 2014 - New case number assigned for my Dad.

March 20th 2014 - Paid IV fee for my Mum.

March 25th 2014 - AOS accepted by NVC with no checklist.

March 26th 2014 - Filled in and submitted DS-260 for my Mum

March 31st 2014 - AOS found in my Mum's file for my Dad - accepted and placed into his file/IV fee available for my Dad and Paid.

April 1st - Mailed all civil documents to NVC for both parents.

April 3rd: IV fee shows as paid in portal/submitted DS-260 for my Dad.

April 22nd: checklist issued for civil documents - NVC error ...

April 23rd: sent another certified copy of my marriage certificate

April 24th: Case complete! :)

April 30th 2014 - Medical scheduled for parents at Knightsbridge in London

June 11th: Interview at London Embassy - Approved :)

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if you actually read her post it does not state that the husband waited until she received the green card until he initiated divorce proceedings or even the suggestion thereof - it stated that she received her green card and that now the husband is presently seeking a divorce... nothing more...

you know the issue of a green card (it would appear to mean a lot more to you than people who actually hold or want one), is your own suggestion and a construct of your own imagination - nowhere did the OP state or suggest that the divorce was put on hold until the conditional status was obtained -

And you're right! Nowhere in her post does she state that!

But think about this. The OP says she just recently got her GC. Soon thereafter, the husband proposes divorcing her b/c he's fallen out of love with her. Instead of the OP being sad about it, she says she has no problem with his decision, then inquires about how to be able to remove the conditions on her GC by herself.

Now, we know that falling out of love happens gradually, over a period of time. Why would the husband wait until after the OP got her GC to mention wanting to divorce her? He had to love her, if he helped her get her GC anyway. Why would he mention this just now, after she just got her GC?

A person who falls out of love would not go along with his/her immigrant spouse, helping them get a GC.

 
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