New member ; )

[Nothing1234 2]

Hi Chuck! Welcome to VJ and best of luck on your journey! I'm in AZ too!!

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

I have read many of the frustrating stories and many of the quick Visas people have received. I want to say in my opinion my views on this for everyone who has been waiting for such a long time to see their loved ones... In life there is a reason for everything and destiny is a part of life's logic. But in all of the waiting for approvals from the American government can take a long and trying time. So in this we should count our blessings and to learn patients so that we may become a better life partner for someone who is about to become new to a new country, a new way of life. It shall be as thou they are new children and they will need much nurturing and letting them know we shall be there when they fall or fail or do not understand something about America and to love them unconditionally. After all do we condemn a child for spilling a glass of milk? No! So we should learn patients and enjoy this new life together. After all we are born for a reason and this is to die one day, what we do in the middle of all of this makes a difference in everyone's life.

I look forward to talking to all of you in the forums ; )

Welcome to VJ. I am including the second part of your post only because I would like to comment on it. I felt that spirit was speaking through your words directly to me and giving me a message for what I have been going through during this long journey. I believe you are so right and this is how I have been feeling as well. I want to thank you for taking the time to post this message for me and the others like me. I look forward to seeing you post more on VJ.