CALLING ALL GOING THOUGH ISLAMABAD PAKISTAN- OFF TOPIC

[PSoft 0]

PSoft, any news about the interview? Where do you call to find out if they have scheduled the interview in isb?

NO NEWS BRO.....I write e.mail to ISB/EMB or DOS. I have no clue how long they take to schedule an interview

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Desi = anyone from sub continent (Pakistani, Indian, Bangali, Nepali, Afghan)

Hey don't leave out the Bhutanese and Sri Lankans!

[babybunny 2]

I wanna know where hell you get this information from?

you basicly saying because, I am not paki. we have to sit and wait in the back of the bull shi t line.

where you get this stuff from? where is your source? I wanna talk to my congressman about this ..

where the regulation saying.. because, I am not paki we have to mother trucken wait..

Did you read correctly what I wrote here? I just made few categories for fun? You can ask anyone in this thread what does ‘DESI or NON Desi’ mean. I think I wrote something for myself I do not need any source. WHY YOU ALWAYS THINk IN OPPOSITE DIRECTION. I am trying here to make this room charming so everyone have fun and relax a bit. Everyone here got pissed off due to this heavy BS Immigration process.

I dont see how you are calling this "FUN" its making those of us that are married to PK men or wifes

at the bottom of the RAT pile. just because, of USC< being paki decent >. you are basicly saying that because you all are paki and those of us that are not are forced to the bottom of the rat pile that is supposed to be fun? and make this room charming. I dont see any fun in it. when we are all given Priority dates.

My husband reads this thread. I know if he saw this he would be even more depressed. right now my husband is convinced we made the biggest mistake abandoning the k-3 visa. He has been feeling sore over this decison we made. every day I have to convince him we did the right thing. he is feeling like this is never gonna be finished. when you say things like this, it kicks the chair out from under him.

we all are here to offer support and have fun this is true. its not fair to have fun at the expense of others.

the best advise anyone can give. is basicly be the shoulder to cry on. right now my husband is hurting and very upset. I dont know how to ease the pain. advise in that reguard is what I seek.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Shon,

I don't think he meant anything by the order.

[Lahoreee 0]

shon, i think you probably misunderstood him, things will get better dont worry, its just a phase we all have to go through...

you or your hubby did not make a mistake by abandoning the k3 as it would also have waiting period

[PSoft 0]

I dont see how you are calling this "FUN" its making those of us that are married to PK men or wifes

at the bottom of the RAT pile. just because, of USC< being paki decent >. you are basicly saying that because you all are paki and those of us that are not are forced to the bottom of the rat pile that is supposed to be fun? and make this room charming. I dont see any fun in it. when we are all given Priority dates.

My husband reads this thread. I know if he saw this he would be even more depressed. right now my husband is convinced we made the biggest mistake abandoning the k-3 visa. He has been feeling sore over this decison we made. every day I have to convince him we did the right thing. he is feeling like this is never gonna be finished. when you say things like this, it kicks the chair out from under him.

we all are here to offer support and have fun this is true. its not fair to have fun at the expense of others.

the best advise anyone can give. is basicly be the shoulder to cry on. right now my husband is hurting and very upset. I dont know how to ease the pain. advise in that reguard is what I seek.

I think everyone here get depressed not only your husband. Who wants to live alone after marriage? The answer is simple, none. Everyone here misses his/her spouse.

[babybunny 2]

I dont know what that list is about .. ok its a joke. so I will go a head and laugh ha

I know everyone on this board. misses their SO. I compleately understand that. this being apart is pure hell no one should have this fate! I never ever said or implied we are the only couple that is going through this.

Right now i have a husband that just today a few hours ago was upset and very hurt. I know each one of you understand how it feels when your spouse is very upset and you cant do ####### about it. it cuts like a knife - through your soul. you cant hold them, touch. all you have is words. because my hands are tied in this process. as they say the best defense is an offense. my husband can certainly speak his mind when he is disgrutled. My husband is feeling like we should stop this mess and I move to PK. At the same time he is blaming me for the scraping of the K-3. so I spend alot of time telling him I am sorry- this will work out. I take the brunt of his disgruntledment - thats what a good wife does. certainly when i am pizzed I will certainly give him an ear full. that also what a good husband does.

I pray tomorrow will be a better day for my Bingo. The best time in this whole process honestly when we were waiting for our interview. we had 3 months of NO STRESS no WORRIES.

I have just shared with you what happens in our back yard.

[Omid 0]

shon - you're stressed, frustrated and upset right now... we can all appreciate that... don't let comments on this board get to you like that - you have enough other stress to deal with right? I think we all do... I'm willing to bet Psoft had no bad intentions... i'm sure none of us have any intention of upsetting anyone else here... we try to support as best as we are able... so just hang in there - we feel your pain... tomorrow is a new day insha'Allah

[babybunny 2]

shon - you're stressed, frustrated and upset right now... we can all appreciate that... don't let comments on this board get to you like that - you have enough other stress to deal with right? I think we all do... I'm willing to bet Psoft had no bad intentions... i'm sure none of us have any intention of upsetting anyone else here... we try to support as best as we are able... so just hang in there - we feel your pain... tomorrow is a new day insha'Allah

actully I am not frustrated or stressed. my day is actully going smooth. however, I get offended by generalizations. his " fun list " was not fun! I certainly get pizzed off when i see stuff like this. my injustice meter is going off kilter! if he wanna create fun list he can certainly take over the cheer leading list and make it his new baby. Try supporting all not - dividing people. there is already enough of that mess in the world!

[bhajishah 4]

Sista Shon, I think what p soft is trying to impress is that you are not at the bottom of the non desi heap, instead the point is that Desi guys are a bunch of spoiled, foot stomping mommas boys (edit to add love you honey eheheheh)

signed the american wife

[hafiz 1]

wow, it got hot in here. TIME FOR SOME showers. Where is the rain. Where is my pakola. I swear when i read shon's comment to psoft, i thought she was just kidding around or just making a comment. But in my opinion the thing that sparked this riot was Psofts comment after shon's comment and not Psofts original comment

1. Original comment: definition of various groups applying

2. Shons comment:

3. PSoft telling shon why she is getting pissed it was just for fun

4. NOW SHON IS PISSED, in my opinion.

[bhajishah 4]

baba up form his nap

time to make the ROti (thank you GOd for soft shell tortillas)

miss you all

hang tough SHon, i know you can.. you will win this visa fight

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

hafiz, never try to analyze or understand shon. When she's pissed, just get outta the way

[hafiz 1]

lol, OKe dokey

but i think you made another wild comment that will be responded to,

this is what i am talking about

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

What?