Is it just the distance, or is it something more...

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

[~Jackie~ 30]

Dm I am not thinking for a minute this is funny. He not only threatned her, he turned his tirade on me and others here in pm.

No one is laughing.

Jackie

[Uncle O 2]

Dm I am not thinking for a minute this is funny. He not only threatned her, he turned his tirade on me and others here in pm.

No one is laughing.

Jackie

This is not True sister Jackie ! i explained what happened ! You the one who freaked at me , because i asked you about her on msn .. you was like oh man i have buissniss to do , i have hubby , and my own life ! i said sorry if i am annoying you then i deleted you from my list coz i felt that i am annoying you . thats all what happened right ??

[diadromous mermaid 36]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

It would be against the TOS to post another person's contribution in a private conversation without their express consent. In this case, it appears to be only Odai's IMs.

[Uncle O 2]

I am ok , but if i am there right now i am sure that i can work it out easily ! and without asking anyone to help me out with ideas or anything ! but the far distance between me and her make me can do nothing ! You guys know the feel right ???? If i am there right now i can carry a flowers and knock on her door and work things out ! and if i am there with her right now i bet all this and all what happened is not excist in our life !

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

[UmmSqueakster 54]

Just an observation, this board has traditionally been pretty hard on the male half of MENA couples. It can be overwhelming enough to discuss something in your second language, but to have half a dozen posters ganging up on you is really tough. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. What one wants to say may come across and harsh or garbled when you're trying to put your feelings out there in a language that you're not 100% comfortable in.

[Uncle O 2]

I am showing my e mails only ! and just 1 mail from her that showing that she want to end up the relationship ! which is that Okay i think ! no privacy things at all !

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

It would be against the TOS to post another person's contribution in a private conversation without their express consent. In this case, it appears to be only Odai's IMs.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

perhaps, but sometimes people know more than they let on. it's over, time to move on, and being on vj won't help with that process.

[~Jackie~ 30]

This is what I said to you then and it holds true today........

Stop messaging me. I did what I could. I got Kristen to talk to you. I tried. It is over.

You continued to message me on MSN and then I told you ...stop or I will have my husband ask you to stop. He literally is down the road from you.

Jackie

"i wanna kick your fu&/3kin ###" translates into any language

Edited September 2, 2008 by just_Jackie

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

It would be against the TOS to post another person's contribution in a private conversation without their express consent. In this case, it appears to be only Odai's IMs.

it's a moot point at this time as lal made them all disappear with her magic wand.

[Uncle O 2]

Actually yes all of you speaking english 100 % but i am trying to bring up the words together and make it one phrase !! Geez !! and sometimes i pick the wrong word !

Just an observation, this board has traditionally been pretty hard on the male half of MENA couples. It can be overwhelming enough to discuss something in your second language, but to have half a dozen posters ganging up on you is really tough. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. What one wants to say may come across and harsh or garbled when you're trying to put your feelings out there in a language that you're not 100% comfortable in.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Just an observation, this board has traditionally been pretty hard on the male half of MENA couples. It can be overwhelming enough to discuss something in your second language, but to have half a dozen posters ganging up on you is really tough. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. What one wants to say may come across and harsh or garbled when you're trying to put your feelings out there in a language that you're not 100% comfortable in.

I concur with this. Emotional turmoil, and a second language to boot. This matter should be resolved by the parties involved. We can only offer support and encouragement.

[Uncle O 2]

Jackie i think you`re Muslim Girl ! but i dont think so ! No comments at all ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is what I said to you then and it holds true today........

Stop messaging me. I did what I could. I got Kristen to talk to you. I tried. It is over.

You continued to message me on MSN and then I told you ...stop or I will have my husband ask you to stop. He literally is down the road from you.

Jackie

"i wanna kick your fu&/3kin ###" translates into any language