Is it just the distance, or is it something more...

[~Jackie~ 30]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

[Uncle O 2]

This is Pointless . anyway i do remember the post # 80 from Jackies . she said this : We get it ...it's private. You probably think we have NO business to know about you. But if you are going to live in America, you better get used to this open communication. This is not Jordan.

Jackie

Insomniac Club President (self appointed)

Jackie you said that right ? and i want the pplz know about what happened ! because some peoples here thinks that i did kicked her or somthing really bad . so lets see what the peoples think please .

thank you sister Jackie

Is posting private conversations a violation of TOS?

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

ditto

[diadromous mermaid 36]

To be honest with you all these are the things that lead up to what happened. I will also add the emails I sent her but I need you all to understand the stress I was in and I was worried about her.I missed her like crazy, I had a fight with my family, I had been majorly stressed out, I was attacked and kicked in my head, bleeding and I told her all these reasons and said I was sorry about a million times. Which I swear to god I am. I sent her an email telling her I was online and she couldn't come online for just 5 minutes to talk to me about my day.I even didnt tell her my situation in the mail i sent , because i know she will be Driving the car , so wont her get confused and worry then she cant focus on driving ! I was upset and said some things I did not mean. Which I am sure everyone here has done more than once, but because of these things I said she has decided to end a 14 month relationship When we were so close to being together forever and becoming married. Here are the emails I sent.

***** I am saying Details now and privacy stuff . Because peoples here dont understand how i was that night and how was my situation ! Yes I already know I was mean and said some not nice things. What I want from all of you is to tell me if you all think that this is worth losing my one true love over? thanks

It's sad to see someone distraught over a relationship, and still confused as to what exactly went wrong. Frankly, it is usually a serious of issues that mounts up over time and culminates in one party deciding that these are inidicia of problems that might be too large to overcome. It is normally not just one isolated incident, but a series of little ones that start to place cracks in the glue that keeps two people together. It's normal to want closure after being close to another person for a long time; to want to know what, specifically, caused a relationship to fail. But you can't compel another to provide it. Hopefully, if the relationship was strong at one time, and there was legitimate love shared with you from another, the answers to your questions will be offered once the emotional upheaval has subsided. Be strong.

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Edited September 2, 2008 by charles!

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Is posting private conversations a violation of TOS?

Looks like it was a one-sided conversation, though.

[~Jackie~ 30]

5....4...3...2....

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

i see lal did selective cutting on this thread.

[Uncle O 2]

CHARLES BRO . PLZ CAN YOU SHOW SOME RESPECT ? I CANT HANDLE HOW YOU ACT REALLY.

SO PLZ THANKS , AND GOD BLESS YOU .

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CHARLES BRO . PLZ CAN YOU SHOW SOME RESPECT ? I CANT HANDLE HOW YOU ACT REALLY.

SO PLZ THANKS , AND GOD BLESS YOU .

i thought you were leaving?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=147780

really, what do you think you're going to accomplish with what you're doing? it's over, done. got it?

Edited September 2, 2008 by charles!

[~Jackie~ 30]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Come on guys. It's not funny. This is sad. While I think that this issue could be best handled through private conversation with his SO, perhaps his SO is not offering that opportunity. I feel for the guy, no matter what happened.

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

[Uncle O 2]

bro charles can u plz put ur self insted me for 5 mins only ? iw as suffering siense 3 weeks ago ! siense thsi happened ! man !!! u have heart and feelings we are human ! put ur self insted me 5 mins plz ! thanks

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.