i was rape

[ruby_jade 0]

GIrl as a PINAY ipaglaban mo ang DANGAL mo na niyurakan ng wlang hiyang lalaki na yon!

bear in mind that if he did that to u, chances are he will do it again if YOU WONT report him...

and who knows he has been doing this for a long time and his other victims got scared just like you ..

he needs to be in jail..

Please please have the courage to tell your fiancee what happen... dont feel guilty this is not your fault!!!

your in my thoughts and prayers!

[pepper 34]

"we live in colorado i hitted him with the glass and it broke on his stomach made deep wound on him before he could put his handkerchief to my face that made me dizzy fell in the floor the next thing i wake up im naked............... "

Don't know about this. Sounds a bit fishy! Actually I hope it is!!!

I have the same feeling. I hope this is a hoax. The site administrator can tell the IP address of the OP to see if it is indeed in Colorado. Im gonna send him an email now. This is a serious matter.

Noel, I hope admin will reply and pls do share what reply they'll give you. I'm with you in hoping that this is just a prank

but in case it is legit and if telling your fiance is very hard pls do try to follow Thai mom's advice:

If you haven't been able to talk to your fiance or report this to the police, please call the rape crisis line 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or 970-472-4200 and talk to a counselor. They are located in Fort Collins in northern Colorado, but can refer you to help in Colorado wherever you are. Do not go through this alone. My prayers are with you. My daughter was raped and I understand how devastating this can be, how easy it is to blame oneself and how scared you must be to report it or talk about it. If you are in the western part of the state pm me if you would like and I can help you with local resources. You can get past this, but not without support.

Thai Mom

Prayers are with you.

i agree with noel and dbears..ive been wanting to reply to this thread hours ago..im sorry of i sound like a doubting thomas but i had this queasy feeling that this is a hoax like what noel implied..if it really happened then accept my apologies but if its just a FIB im hoping that this should be stopped..

[jom 4]

My prayers are with you.

All the replies here are commendable ( tell your fiance, or call 911, or tell your immediate family, or talk to a fellow Filipina etc) however it is all up to you. If you don't speak up nothing will happen and no matter how many times you post here, we can't help you unless you tell someone back where you are. Tell your fiance, I believe he is the first person to know about your tragedy.

If you keep quiet about this, most likely this rapist will do it again on your person knowing you didn't do anything about it. Be brave and be strong. .SPEAK UP and tell someone nearest you so they can help.

I am hoping this is just a hoax because I don't want something like this to happen to any woman.

[I luv my chappara 0]

im sorry to hear this.

that kind of guy, his "thing" should be cut...

be strong... don't be afraid to tell your fiance and police.

My prayers for you..

Edited August 14, 2008 by I luv my chappara

[o0pink0o 3]

if this is just a hoax then,.,.,.,. karma is just around the corner .i really hope that this isn't a hoax although i am not saying that i hope the OP was really raped. what am i just trying to point out is that this post made alot of members worried so i hope that this post is not made to fool people.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

If you don't want to agree with what everyone is advising you to do...just do one thing

Call 911

Take it from an ex crisis counselor...if he did this once and you did nothing to report him, he'll do it again. It's brave of you to come on here and report what happen, but you need to take it a step further. You did good, you talked about it and put it out there...NOW, report HIM to the POLICE. Don't worry about what you're fiance may think right now, just do what you need to do to make sure that this guy does not HURT you again. One more thing, it's NOT your fault.

[mRx 16]

OP, I honestly hope you can find the courage to report this to police. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

if this is just a hoax then,.,.,.,. karma is just around the corner

That's a pretty harsh thing to say.

[Ban Hammer 13,098]

OP, I honestly hope you can find the courage to report this to police. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

if this is just a hoax then,.,.,.,. karma is just around the corner

That's a pretty harsh thing to say.

agreed. i think the speculation should cease and admin/mods left to handle the validity of the thread. in the meantime, we should get back to providing support to the op.

[o0pink0o 3]

OP, I honestly hope you can find the courage to report this to police. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

if this is just a hoax then,.,.,.,. karma is just around the corner

That's a pretty harsh thing to say.

i know, but isn't it is also not good to post something here which isn't true specially if it is serious matter and makes alot of people worried? i never said that i don't believe with the OP becaz i posted an advise and u'll read it if u will just look back with the previous page.

[Jenn! 918]

Does it really matter whether this is true or not? The advice given might be useful for anyone who finds herself in this situation and does not know how to proceed. Let's try to continue while keeping that in mind.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I am sorry for your pain. What a terrible way to be introduced to our culture!! Please tell your fiance' - and don't worry one second about his relationship with the rapist. I think I speak for most of us when I say that those brotherly feelings for his friend will vanish immediately - replaced by feelings of a more hostile sort. Your safety is the important thing, and you must let your man and the police help you.

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

Does it really matter whether this is true or not? The advice given might be useful for anyone who finds herself in this situation and does not know how to proceed. Let's try to continue while keeping that in mind.

Totally agree with you...real or not real, it does not matter.

It could happen to anyone...especially to someone who is new in the country.

There are bastards out there that should not belong to this world, plain and simple, there are sick, sick animals...

We pray that you find courage and strength to make thru this ordeal...

I am afraid if you do not tell your fiancee and the police, this ####### is going to do it again and again....he is a sick animal that does not deserve to live among humans.

Please for your own safety ...do something

[*JG* 2]

i made a new vj account to post what happened to me 3 days ago.Please help me what to think and what to do.Right now im very, very confused.I was raped 3 days ago.I dont know if posting here will do any good to me but im very desperate.Im so scared.Our neighibor whom very close friend to my fiance raped me while my fiance at work.My fiance and him treats themselves as brother.I dont know what to do now.My fiance dont know his friend raped me.

im very depsrerate to have someone to talk to here about my situation im shy to call the police or anypne as of now.i dont know what to do.i dont want to tell my family yet but god help me please im so desperate of what is should im going to do.

2 things to do... you have to tell your fiance and you have to tell the police!

I agree. #3, I would say, get some counseling or talk to some crisis center immediately.

[mnieto 2]

No matter if this particular story is true or not, there are many women out there who have experienced exactly this kind of horror that the OP has described.

To the OP: do not let this animal get away with his crime and godless actions. You can prevent him from going after other innocent women ( or maybe even children) only by reporting him to the police, nothing else will ever stop these kind of monsters.

Not only should you seek justice for yourself, but please , also think about the safety of all these other women or children he might attack in the future, if he's out there and free to do whatever he pleases.

My thoughts are with you, I hope you'll find the strength to find your peace of mind after what has happened to you.

And please fight for yourself and your rights as a human being.....you are not a piece of trash that one can use and throw away.

God, I hope that he'll get what he deserves....please, go to the police immediately!

[ED*Riza 0]

This is really scary. I am so sorry of what had happen to you . I pray that God will give you strength and courage to tell the Police and your fiance.