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Many of these men had chosen to stay at home despite having "marketable skills and academic credentials" enabling them to find work outside the home, but 45 percent of them evolved in Manila because there was no other choice, Magpantay said.

My wife would say the Filipino husbands have chosen to stay home because they are lazy.

That's an insult to us Filipino Husband. We are blue collar worker...we are not lazy. I don't think she will say that..... Filipino men are more hard worker than white people. Been here in the US for 20 years........I haven't seen a single Pinoy standing in the middle of the street ...holding a carboard boxes that say's "WILL WORK FOR FOOD". Giving them opportunity...like here in the US.......I bet they will work their heart out, Working 2 jobs during weekdays... plus picking alluminun cans in the garbage on the weekend for extra cash. Company in philippines tend to hire more gals than guys..cuz' they are more presentable. Most skilled husband are working abroad or seaman. I bet they don't survey that.....a wife is a teacher and a husband is a farmer....I bet they did take a look at that. That survey is bull.......You can't just say FILIPINO HUSBAND ARE LAZY Just because you are married to a crack*er.....hell nooooo.....you gonna hear from them.......eww........stink.....I'm burn out.....can't wait for the weekend......nastyyyyyyyy.

Geez you stop complaining and work............................

I totally agree with you!!! Gals are hired more cuz they are more presentable hehehe. The survey for husbands who doesn't have jobs and have the wifey working for the fam most likely covers the class C or D of the society. So I don't think it has something to do with the metrosexual count, as i know that survey result may yield not only in the Philippines. Totally different issue! And about that FILIPINO HUSBANDS ARE LAZY??? come on you should think WAAAAY better than that...how could you come up with a generalization like that?! My future husband is by the way, a first Lieutenant in the U.S. army, a FILIPINO, at age 35 :) worked his way so hard just to be who he is now (whom i'm sooo very proud of)....did i mention that he's a war vet too??? So watch it dude!

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Many of these men had chosen to stay at home despite having "marketable skills and academic credentials" enabling them to find work outside the home, but 45 percent of them evolved in Manila because there was no other choice, Magpantay said.

My wife would say the Filipino husbands have chosen to stay home because they are lazy.

That's an insult to us Filipino Husband. We are blue collar worker...we are not lazy. I don't think she will say that..... Filipino men are more hard worker than white people. Been here in the US for 20 years........I haven't seen a single Pinoy standing in the middle of the street ...holding a carboard boxes that say's "WILL WORK FOR FOOD". Giving them opportunity...like here in the US.......I bet they will work their heart out, Working 2 jobs during weekdays... plus picking alluminun cans in the garbage on the weekend for extra cash. Company in philippines tend to hire more gals than guys..cuz' they are more presentable. Most skilled husband are working abroad or seaman. I bet they don't survey that.....a wife is a teacher and a husband is a farmer....I bet they did take a look at that. That survey is bull.......You can't just say FILIPINO HUSBAND ARE LAZY Just because you are married to a crack*er.....hell nooooo.....you gonna hear from them.......eww........stink.....I'm burn out.....can't wait for the weekend......nastyyyyyyyy.

Geez you stop complaining and work............................

I totally agree with you!!! Gals are hired more cuz they are more presentable hehehe. The survey for husbands who doesn't have jobs and have the wifey working for the fam most likely covers the class C or D of the society. So I don't think it has something to do with the metrosexual count, as i know that survey result may yield not only in the Philippines. Totally different issue! And about that FILIPINO HUSBANDS ARE LAZY??? come on you should think WAAAAY better than that...how could you come up with a generalization like that?! My future husband is by the way, a first Lieutenant in the U.S. army, a FILIPINO, at age 35 :) worked his way so hard just to be who he is now (whom i'm sooo very proud of)....did i mention that he's a war vet too??? So watch it dude!

It's good to hear from Filipinos here in this forum as you are under-represented here! :thumbs::yes: Hopefully, enough people like you will speak up and help dispell the myth and stereotypes of Filipino men.

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Many of these men had chosen to stay at home despite having "marketable skills and academic credentials" enabling them to find work outside the home, but 45 percent of them evolved in Manila because there was no other choice, Magpantay said.

My wife would say the Filipino husbands have chosen to stay home because they are lazy.

That's an insult to us Filipino Husband. We are blue collar worker...we are not lazy. I don't think she will say that..... Filipino men are more hard worker than white people. Been here in the US for 20 years........I haven't seen a single Pinoy standing in the middle of the street ...holding a carboard boxes that say's "WILL WORK FOR FOOD". Giving them opportunity...like here in the US.......I bet they will work their heart out, Working 2 jobs during weekdays... plus picking alluminun cans in the garbage on the weekend for extra cash. Company in philippines tend to hire more gals than guys..cuz' they are more presentable. Most skilled husband are working abroad or seaman. I bet they don't survey that.....a wife is a teacher and a husband is a farmer....I bet they did take a look at that. That survey is bull.......You can't just say FILIPINO HUSBAND ARE LAZY Just because you are married to a crack*er.....hell nooooo.....you gonna hear from them.......eww........stink.....I'm burn out.....can't wait for the weekend......nastyyyyyyyy.

Geez you stop complaining and work............................

I totally agree with you!!! Gals are hired more cuz they are more presentable hehehe. The survey for husbands who doesn't have jobs and have the wifey working for the fam most likely covers the class C or D of the society. So I don't think it has something to do with the metrosexual count, as i know that survey result may yield not only in the Philippines. Totally different issue! And about that FILIPINO HUSBANDS ARE LAZY??? come on you should think WAAAAY better than that...how could you come up with a generalization like that?! My future husband is by the way, a first Lieutenant in the U.S. army, a FILIPINO, at age 35 :) worked his way so hard just to be who he is now (whom i'm sooo very proud of)....did i mention that he's a war vet too??? So watch it dude!

It's good to hear from Filipinos here in this forum as you are under-represented here! :thumbs::yes: Hopefully, enough people like you will speak up and help dispell the myth and stereotypes of Filipino men.

My father in Law, and brother in Laws are very kind and hard working men. they deserve, and do get all my respect. I'm very proud to be part of their family. Edited by ronjie

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as long as they are not wearing bras and panties, i guess it's ok. :unsure:

One time,my fiance pui my bra on his head,is he ok ? :unsure:

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Many of these men had chosen to stay at home despite having "marketable skills and academic credentials" enabling them to find work outside the home, but 45 percent of them evolved in Manila because there was no other choice, Magpantay said.

My wife would say the Filipino husbands have chosen to stay home because they are lazy.

My husband is Filipino and one of the hardest working people I have ever met. Posting negative stereotypes like that accomplishes nothing and should be kept to yourself. It would do you some good to remember this forum is not strictly made up of American males and their Filipina wives. If you want to say things like that to make yourself feel better post it at the website where there are more of your ilk, but not here please.

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And about that FILIPINO HUSBANDS ARE LAZY??? come on you should think WAAAAY better than that...how could you come up with a generalization like that?! My future husband is by the way, a first Lieutenant in the U.S. army, a FILIPINO, at age 35 :) worked his way so hard just to be who he is now (whom i'm sooo very proud of)....did i mention that he's a war vet too??? So watch it dude!

I've noticed this on a lot of Fil-am sites and forums. There seem to be quite a few pinays telling their american fiance's or americans in general that Filipinos are lazy, wife beater, etc. That this is why they are on a so and so site.

From my own observations, reading more into their posts, it seems most of these women feel they "have to" justify dating foreign men and feel the need to exaggerate a bit. Some of these women even feel the need to justify why their on dating site to begin with.

But its not true. Filipino men are not wife beaters, lazy, or whatever.

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My husband is Filipino and one of the hardest working people I have ever met. Posting negative stereotypes like that accomplishes nothing and should be kept to yourself. It would do you some good to remember this forum is not strictly made up of American males and their Filipina wives. If you want to say things like that to make yourself feel better post it at the website where there are more of your ilk, but not here please.

I think the stereotype were planted in his mind by the pinay wifey/fiance who seems to have forgotten her father is a pinoy.

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as long as they are not wearing bras and panties, i guess it's ok. :unsure:

One time,my fiance pui my bra on his head,is he ok ? :unsure:

not a big deal unless he filled out the bra better than you :P

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