Arguements

[rosal548 0]

Lately my Fiancee and I have been arguing over the most stupidest things, we would even argue on Yahoo IM or even thru Text messaging, the weird thing is that she seems to be a totally different person on text messaging versus the person I know in person. Is this normal or what ? am I going thru a phase here ?

Do you guys have the same issues every now and then ?

[rosal548 0]

Lately my Fiancee and I have been arguing over the most stupidest things, we would even argue on Yahoo IM or even thru Text messaging, the weird thing is that she seems to be a totally different person on text messaging versus the person I know in person. Is this normal or what ? am I going thru a phase here ?

Do you guys have the same issues every now and then ?

Can this be due to the long distance between us ?

[mrsartis 10]

Hi there,

hihihi just relax.. its pretty much normal.. you see in text and emails, or YM.. the tone of your messages differs.. all you hav to do guys.. when these arguments happens.. call her or se should call you to clarify things.. its really difficult, but well what can i say.. lets just say we dont want someone who would say YES all the time right? arguments, are just pretty much an argument.. it shouldnt be personal.. she/ you shold make a stand on what you believe in.. you should admire her,,

Goodluck and well yes its normal..

[Ban Hammer 13,443]

possibly just a phase that she is going thru.

[Welshcookie 17]

The trouble with IM's and texting is that things can very easily be taken out of context, or it is very easy to type something in anger and switch off a machine/phone.

[DARUMA07 25]

It's all normal! The stress being away from each other is enough to cause disagreements. We all have been through that and believe me it will get better once you two are together. Hang in there!

[chadherm 0]

I agree!

[tallcoolone 102]

I don't think it is normal.

Nor a good sign of things to come.

I have never had an argument with my fiance.

Some people like to argue and bicker, as for me I have no time for it.

Hope you can work things out.

[baxxy 0]

I don't think it is normal.

Nor a good sign of things to come.

I have never had an argument with my fiance.

Some people like to argue and bicker, as for me I have no time for it.

Hope you can work things out.

This is abnormal, if you never argue, then one of you has no mind of their own, a little arguing is normal and healthy. To the OP yes arguing is normal, we're all human.

[rosal548 0]

I don't think it is normal.

Nor a good sign of things to come.

I have never had an argument with my fiance.

Some people like to argue and bicker, as for me I have no time for it.

Hope you can work things out.

This is abnormal, if you never argue, then one of you has no mind of their own, a little arguing is normal and healthy. To the OP yes arguing is normal, we're all human.

agreed, I think arguements make people closer.

but not arguing seems a bit strange.

then again I may be wrong............

[envy_me 18]

been there, done that?

[Ban Hammer 13,443]

maybe ya'll just need some

[maritoni 3]

Arguements is healthy..you will never get to know each other if you dont argue,it's a part of of a healthy relationship...Good luck...

[dbears 1]

Well, arguing itself is not the negative part. In fact, arguing can be a good sign in a relationship rather than those relationship in which a couple never disagrees, for when a couple argues, it reveals their confidence in revealing their differences to each other, which is a good sign because it means that neither of you is afraid to express your true selves in the relationship. When a person keeps quiet in a relationship and never really expresses what they are feeling or thinking about, is never a good sign and proves that there is lack of security in the relationship, which will continue to worsen over time until the relationship ends on bitter terms, due to the resentment one would build towards the other for feeling unable to open up to him or her. No couple is 100% alike, nor would anyone really want to have a partner who is exactly like them. It is the differences that keep a couple interested in each other, but there do come times when differences conflict and arguments arise."

source:http://www.love-sessions.com/arguing.htm

I agree with the article I quoted above, I am confident in my fiance's feelings for me so I am not really afraid to annoy him sometimes and vice versa.

A little arguement every now and then is healthy for me... we learn more about each other through those little arguements, like learning each other's little irritants... but most importantly we are both learning how to handle arguements better, like when to stop and how to call the time out to cool off the steam a little and when to just simply stop and agree to disagree... these, we will never learn if we are not presented a situation where we could learn them.

[Mina76 0]

Well, arguing itself is not the negative part. In fact, arguing can be a good sign in a relationship rather than those relationship in which a couple never disagrees, for when a couple argues, it reveals their confidence in revealing their differences to each other, which is a good sign because it means that neither of you is afraid to express your true selves in the relationship. When a person keeps quiet in a relationship and never really expresses what they are feeling or thinking about, is never a good sign and proves that there is lack of security in the relationship, which will continue to worsen over time until the relationship ends on bitter terms, due to the resentment one would build towards the other for feeling unable to open up to him or her. No couple is 100% alike, nor would anyone really want to have a partner who is exactly like them. It is the differences that keep a couple interested in each other, but there do come times when differences conflict and arguments arise."

source:http://www.love-sessions.com/arguing.htm

I agree with the article I quoted above, I am confident in my fiance's feelings for me so I am not really afraid to annoy him sometimes and vice versa.

A little arguement every now and then is healthy for me... we learn more about each other through those little arguements, like learning each other's little irritants... but most importantly we are both learning how to handle arguements better, like when to stop and how to call the time out to cool off the steam a little and when to just simply stop and agree to disagree... these, we will never learn if we are not presented a situation where we could learn them.

Exactly, it is all a normal part of a loving relationship!