When I met my love, I was...

[SunShineFL 0]

Single and not looking. Was too busy with my career but after 2 years and 9 months I surrendered the Philippine flag lol..

[alex and astrid 38]

I was in a relationship with someone that I wasn't really into when I met my husband. Broke up with the crappy boyfriend and started dating Alex a month later that was nearly five years ago

[thongd4me 69]

We were both married, but the question of which one (both?) was looking is kind of a grey area.

The compatible element was that both our marriages were effectively dead

for 10 years or longer, so neither one was really stealing the other from a spouse.

It was a very long time before either discussed intimacy; that was a rule of mine

because you have to get to know the person first and the sexual play or attraction

can have an effect of clouding any attempt to know the other person because

you're thinking of something else and if things are not right you tend to make

excuses because you want the fun to go on.

We had plenty to talk about regarding family, kids & work. You learn another

person's values that way and if you are just flirting, those things get brushed aside.

With my first marriage we got physical way before we really knew each other.

When we finally knew each other, I think neither of us was happy.

[NatPatBen 3]

Was in a relationship & not looking. However, months later I met my now-husband again & was no longer in relationship. His pursuit was successful (unlike my first visit).

[Caitlin2009 1]

if you wanna call it a relationship, i was in a relationship for 7 and half years but not looking. He was very emotionally abusive towards me and cheated on me but at the time i had the thought that nobody wanted me so i stayed in it for a long time, it was over between me and him long ago before i met her.but a mutual friend of ours told me to add her on Twitter, we talked on Twitter, to twitter to facebook, to facebook to MSN messenger, But after awhile i started developing feelings for her and with her help that gave me the courage to take steps and get him out of my life forever

Edited April 8, 2010 by Caitlin2009

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[YouAndMeForever 1,022]

Single and not looking.