When I met my love, I was...

[ktun 0]

I was definately Not Looking. I'd been single for a year after finishing a 4 year relationship, finished my degree and training to be a teacher. I was busy with work and night classes and certainly wasnt expecting or really wanting to be with someone right then. But, it happened and now the rest is history

[shannon65 2]

I was looking - I'm interested in Korea so I was on Korean dating website - looked around there for several years but never got beyond correspondence/phone calls with anyone.... he went on there at the suggestion of a friend .. I think he was not really expecting to meet anyone, and certainly not an American. Just happened that way.

[Nessa 23]

I wasn't looking. We met a year before we started ''online dating'', we were both out of a relationship when we started being together and we were friends and we were talking and then we found out we had a lot in common and here we are

[wherezdabearz 0]

I was totally looking! Previous relationship had ended four years earlier and it had taken three years to dust myself off and get on my dating feet again. I had decided that 2004 was going to be the year I met someone and ... lo and behold, I met my soulmate. He on the other hand wanted a relationship and was on match.com but had decided to let the right person come to him. He wasn't really expecting to be contacted by someone in the UK...

[samir_shannon 0]

hurt and not looking

[samir_shannon 0]

post boosting

[RosaMystica7 0]

He was a friar and I was a volunteer waiting to become a sister - can't get much more "single and not looking" than that!

[djcess 0]

Freshly out of the relationship and not looking. We met just an hour after i broke up with my ex!

[Karen_L 1]

When I met my love, I was.... totally not 'into' going out that night and meeting some stranger

Edited August 6, 2006 by Karen_L

[Mrs. Forgetful 2]

Just out of a relationship with my high school sweetheart and wasn't looking and wasn't even interested in my husband when we first talked. It took two months (when we met in person) for me to even give him a chance.

[Visa4habibi! 0]

... was about to give up internet dating. Went on the site to get my profile removed. Then I met a guy who kept me at my computer for 8 hours straight. We didn't even agree on meeting next time and there he was again at the same time next night. I was supposed to 'let him go' as I did to others who were younger then me after 20 minutes of chatting. But he was something else.... He still is!

[jezebelseven 0]

Just out of a relationship with my high school sweetheart and wasn't looking and wasn't even interested in my husband when we first talked. It took two months (when we met in person) for me to even give him a chance.

Pretty much identical story here. Was in the ending stages of a 2 year relationship with my high school sweetheart, met my now future husband and wasn't interested until we actually talked about him flying here for his summer vacation, even then I thought it was going to be a just-friends thing at that time. Things started to change and changed for the best when we actually met.

[Mew 0]

I had just broken up with my then boyfriend. I thought I'd contact people around the world just to keep my mind busy. After a few weeks, he was the only one who kept e-mailing. From there to daily chats, daily e-mails, and we finally realized there was something else to it than just friendship. And then he came visit me...

[cheeky^Wolf 0]

I was just out of a crappy relationship, he was single and we'd been online friends for 5 years. I said I needed a break, he said come here, I said OK and voila!

[Arazia 0]

I had actually been friends with Harry for a few years. During a down-time (ie. I was dumped) in my other relationship, I had considered saying something to him, but at the time he was 17 and thus not legal in this country for the naughty bits of relationships. Anyways... my ex was still living with me but we hadn't been together as a couple in over a year. I was just helpnig him get on his feet. I had no interest in relationships when Harry came back from being absent on the game we played for a long time. And... well we just sort of fell together all over again.