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almaty   19

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what's so funny? aren't u guys love to be loved and taken care of?? im just asking an honest opinion here not to be laughed at!

brother, these type of threads ..bring out the comedians in some folks (me, included at times)..but in your case i will offer a suggestion...

you need to be very nuturing and talk in a patient and rational manner to your wife...in this area..

explain what you feel would enchance your relationship and make certain to validate, that you respect and love and care for her..and this is something you see as benefical for both and improve this part of your marriage...

.if she becomes defenseive..don;t argue..back-off dor now and revist the topic at a later date.....

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what's so funny? aren't u guys love to be loved and taken care of?? im just asking an honest opinion here not to be laughed at!

brother, these type of threads ..bring out the comedians in some folks (me, included at times)..but in your case i will offer a suggestion...

you need to be very nuturing and talk in a patient and rational manner to your wife...in this area..

explain what you feel would enchance your relationship and make certain to validate, that you respect and love and care for her..and this is something you see as benefical for both and improve this part of your marriage...

.if she becomes defenseive..don;t argue..back-off dor now and revist the topic at a later date.....

ic! thank u so much! at least there is someone from here who is honest enough...do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

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Savanphil   3

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thanks for answering the questions....

i say, you need to have a frank and honest discussion..maybe, she is conservative and the information you seek in embarrassing and not natural to her...

not all women or men, are comfortable in discussing this area...

any tips on how i could do it without offending her???

Communicate to her that you don't want to offend her.

Tell her you want to talk about it, and promise to stop if it makes her uncomfortable.

Also seize opportunities to bring topics up, maybe during a scene in a movie...if you seee something that interests you, ask her about it.

Just pick her brain, would you? could you? have you? If I asked you to? :secret:

Keep it ligh hearted, and friendly...if you make her feel pressured she may shut down.

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what's so funny? aren't u guys love to be loved and taken care of?? im just asking an honest opinion here not to be laughed at!

Answer: what's funny is venting your sex life on a public internet forum. Oh, and don't confuse love with sex. It is not the same thing my friend.

Like Dean said, some women -and men- are not comfortable discussing these issues. Best of luck to you.

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Savanphil   3

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do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

I can't believe my eyes :blink:

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Savanphil   3

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do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

With such a suave, silver-tongued manner, how could she refuse?

Coke out nose, I have :lol:

Ohh wrong thread. :P

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do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

With such a suave, silver-tongued manner, how could she refuse?

yea man, I think you need a little more subtlety to ask for such a favor like that

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do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

... :blink:

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papichulo   0

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do think it would be too much if i ask her for a blow??

With such a suave, silver-tongued manner, how could she refuse?

yea man, I think you need a little more subtlety to ask for such a favor like that

ic! thanks man! ur all so lucky ur wives are not as conservative as mine.....im getting jealous!

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Savanphil   3

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This is just a little TMI for me :help:

12/03/2005: Married

10/13/2006: Interview Approved

10/26/2006: POE: EWR (ARRIVED) [/size]

182 days from filing to Visa in Hand!!![/color]

AOS/EAD

01/22/2007: Sent to The Lockbox.....let the games begin.....again

02/02/2007: NOA1's for both....the waiting game officially begins

02/15/2007: Biometrics appt.

04/11/2007: EAD APPROVED!! YI-HAW

04/21/2007: Received SSN#

05/23/2007: AOS Interview -------> APPROOOOOOVED!!!!!!

05/29/2007: Received Welcome letter

06/04/2007: Green Card in Hand!!!

122 Days from filing AOS to Green Card in Hand!!!

REMOVING CONDITIONS

05/21/2009: Filed to Remove Conditions

6/18/2009: Biometrics Done

09/14/2009: Approved!!!

Citizenship

2/15/2011: Filed N-400

3/28/2011: Biometrics <-- Done

5/09/2011: Naturalization Interview <--- APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/09/2011: Swearing in Ceremony (We're Done)

MY HUSBAND IS NOW A US CITIZEN

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Laura+Tom   2

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wow! hopefully she would do it! thank u! i know i sound dumb! but that's every man's fantasy wouldn't u think so???

It's not everyone's. Anyway if my OH asked me to 'give him a blow' I'd tell him where to stick it. And it's not where you think.

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