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[Completely 3]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

Edited July 28, 2008 by Completely

[flavaofsummer 0]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

what a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!! if his momZZZ was pregnant would he ask her to carry bags? or his sisters? i think not..its good u got mad u should!!!!!! its ur 6th week,,miscarriages can happen from 1st week to ur 4th month u need to becareful till that time and untill those weeks r over girl! next time he tells u this curse him out tell him u'll call the INS and ur gona get him deported LOL. but seriously what he did isnt good just dont lift stuff up tell him no.. u dont need any problems.

Edited July 28, 2008 by flavaofsummer

[Completely 3]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

what a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!! if his momZZZ was pregnant would he ask her to carry bags? or his sisters? i think not..its good u got mad u should!!!!!! its ur 6th week,,miscarriages can happen from 1st week to ur 4th month u need to becareful till that time and untill those weeks r over girl! next time he tells u this curse him out tell him u'll call the INS and ur gona get him deported LOL. but seriously what he did isnt good just dont lift stuff up tell him no.. u dont need any problems.

Thank you Flavor ! That is heartwarming.

[NickD 203]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

Shouldn't this be posted in the "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" section of this board? But I don't care, you are upset.

Thought it was a man's job to carry in the groceries, sometimes gets difficult when holding 8 or 9 bags to open the car door for my wife, pregnant or not, that is the gentlemanly thing to do, was and still is. A man takes care of his woman or he isn't a man.

Getting angry and yelling is the worse thing one can do, if he doesn't care about or his child that your are carrying, just tell him in a very clam voice, maybe it's time for you to look around for a guy that will. Give him something to think about. My two cents worth.

[Staashi 371]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

Shouldn't this be posted in the "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" section of this board? But I don't care, you are upset.

Thought it was a man's job to carry in the groceries, sometimes gets difficult when holding 8 or 9 bags to open the car door for my wife, pregnant or not, that is the gentlemanly thing to do, was and still is. A man takes care of his woman or he isn't a man.

Getting angry and yelling is the worse thing one can do, if he doesn't care about or his child that your are carrying, just tell him in a very clam voice, maybe it's time for you to look around for a guy that will. Give him something to think about. My two cents worth.

Actually, it should be posted in off topic.

[Completely 3]

When your wife is pregnant in first semester, do you allow her to carry of lift up heavy things?

I just got upset with my husband last night because he wanted me to carry the 4 bags of groceries and I was carrying my 2 years old son.. But instead of me speaking up, I just ended up upset and carried the bags and my son. We ended up in an argument as he was insisting that the baggies was not heavy.. I told I will not complain if those plastic wasnt heavy.. We ended up in argument and i found myself really mad at him.. We did get in peace before we go to bed and I just realized why did I get mad? I think because I felt that he does not care for me and the baby.. I felt bad too when we argues sometime..but he pushes my button all the time.. I preferred to be quiet and not to say anything but him, he wants to talk,talk,talk.. I said thing that was not right. But I never give him a name. I just told him I will blame him if there something happen with the baby, and I regret about it.

I am just not feeling today.. so I am whining... I am in my 6 weeks of pregnancy.. and I excited for the 2nd baby.

Shouldn't this be posted in the "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" section of this board? But I don't care, you are upset.

Thought it was a man's job to carry in the groceries, sometimes gets difficult when holding 8 or 9 bags to open the car door for my wife, pregnant or not, that is the gentlemanly thing to do, was and still is. A man takes care of his woman or he isn't a man.

Getting angry and yelling is the worse thing one can do, if he doesn't care about or his child that your are carrying, just tell him in a very clam voice, maybe it's time for you to look around for a guy that will. Give him something to think about. My two cents worth.

Actually, it should be posted in off topic.

Folks,

I guess no matter where I posted this post, its up to the people to answer this.. And if you dont have nothing to say just ignore it..

Unfortunately I was reading a topic on this section and just hit post new topic.. I guess there is nothing wrong if you mis post the topic.. unless the moderator move this topic..

[alienlovechild 75]

If he has time enough to talk so much, he has time enough to carry some bags. Why not just make more than one trip to carry the bags? Trying to carrying too much (pregnant or not) can lead to spilling and breakage.

Why not have him juggle the kid and bags around?

[Completely 3]

If he has time enough to talk so much, he has time enough to carry some bags. Why not just make more than one trip to carry the bags? Trying to carrying too much (pregnant or not) can lead to spilling and breakage.

Why not have him juggle the kid and bags around?

he had 2 box of water with him.. but my nanny pick up the other box.. I thought I would just watch the car while I am holding my son, till they come back and make 2 trips since the parking lot of our apartment is not that far.. But i should have speak up and said no, instead of getting mad.. He is still a good man.. I am just having a mood swing lately probably because of my pregnancy.

Edited July 28, 2008 by Completely

[Nessa 23]

it would've been nicer of you to speak up and say you're pregnant and carrying your son, that it wouldn't be advisable to carry more weight, instead of keeping to yourself and getting in a fight later.

You must understand that men are kind of dumb when it comes to things like that. Maybe he didn't do it on purpose, he just didn't think straight, you know men..

[almaty 19]

You must understand that men are kind of dumb when it comes to things like that. Maybe he didn't do it on purpose, he just didn't think straight, you know men..

lol....over generalization is always good

[Nessa 23]

You must understand that men are kind of dumb when it comes to things like that. Maybe he didn't do it on purpose, he just didn't think straight, you know men..

lol....over generalization is always good

shut up u persian shoe!

[Sinergy 3]

My husband is tard blind, however, if i was carrying our 3 yr old son and pregnant, i wouldnt have been carrying groceries too

Edited July 28, 2008 by Sinergy

[almaty 19]

sister nessa>>>>that was good....

Edited July 28, 2008 by almaty

[Savanphil 3]

You have every right to be cautious, and you should speak up next time- you are not only protecting yourself, but your unborn child. Only you can judge how much you can take and how much you can do.

Take care of yourself and your belly.

[wowswift 3]

my husband wouldn't let me carry it (im not prego now and he wants to carry everything) but im stubborn and would probably just do it. i don't think id go around trying to pick up 50lb bags of stuff and straining myslef but i don't think carrying a few bags is a big deal.