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I lost my husband today

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fgh Rookie

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thats wat allah wanted,losing the one u love is really the most hurtfull thing,im sure ur strong enaf,im really so sorry ofr the bad news :crying:

i wish u the best

أعود بالله من الشياطان الرجيم

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

{وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ أُولَئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ وَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ}

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brnidokiegurl   0

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TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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Thanks everyone for sharing this day with me ! Kat ~ I like your idea of retrieving some dirt from Lahcen's grave. I remembered also that you experienced your loss shortly after mine as well as the other loved ones lost in MENA this year (F) I have been seeing a grief counselor regularly which has helped tremendously to process the loss. Also, creating the online memorial was healing and allowed me to honor my husband's memory. I don't know if I will ever receive closure the way I want it. For now it's still day by day, but I have learned that we do not have to make excuses or apologies for our grief. If others can't handle it or want to pretend our loved one never existed, that's their problem, and not a healthy response IMO !

I think if you could visit his grave and take a little dirt home with you and then buy a little plot somewhere and put a little stone somewhere, you could visit it. I drive to see my son all the time. I know hes with me and I know how much we loved each other and no matter what else I have faced, I know true love exists, even when the season is a hard one. Please know Henna that your grief is not your identity. Its simply a place inside of you, a facet of you and one day maybe one day, things will turn into something a different season or color. Know that my heart is with you, my darling and I am so so so sorry for you and I care... Know that I grieve with you, maybe for someone else but I am walking along side of you. Its not easy and its scary but you can and will endure

Love Kat

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It's me   1

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We were married just over a month and I lost my best friend today. I do not even have the words right now. Please do not listen to any inaccurate reports coming from other sources ~ I am getting the information as it comes directly from his family. I will share more details as I see fit, but please allow me to speak for my husband. I do not want him disrespected any further :( I am in shock right now and I can't accept or believe the news that I received today !! He was 26 years old. God be with us and my husband (F)

(F) I'm sorry for your loss my dear..

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shefellfromheaven   18

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(F)(F)(F)

In your Strength, I can crush an army; with my God , I can scale any wall .....2nd Samuel 22:30

For God did not give us a spirit of fear and timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self discipline}... 2 Timothy 1 :7[/i]

Set me as seal over your heart. Solomon 8:6

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AOS

08/03/2009 - AOS Approval

08/13/ 2009- GC in mail

ROC

09/01/2011 - Roc Approval

N - 400

06/15/2012 - Mailed N - 400 package to Phoenix

06/19/2012 - Notice of Action

07/20/2012 - Biometrics

08/20/2012 - Interview: PASSED

09/21/2012 - Oath Ceremony :)

09/21/2012 - US Citizen

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Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows James 1 : 17[/center]

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We were married just over a month and I lost my best friend today. I do not even have the words right now. Please do not listen to any inaccurate reports coming from other sources ~ I am getting the information as it comes directly from his family. I will share more details as I see fit, but please allow me to speak for my husband. I do not want him disrespected any further :( I am in shock right now and I can't accept or believe the news that I received today !! He was 26 years old. God be with us and my husband (F)

:crying: I AM SORRY MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY ... PLEASEEEEEEEEEE, IF THERE IS ANYYYTHING I CAN DO FOR YOU IN ANYWAY, LET ME KNOW ... I AM HERE IF YOU NEED ME ... carolekhan44@yahoo.com

Carole (Puffy) Khan Sabi - " Don't let what people say bother you because the people that matter don't mind and the people that mind don't matter ." :)

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(F)(F)(F)

My NEW UK Website!!!

[/b]K1 Visa Timeline. USA - England. Through VSC[/b][/b][/u]

30th Dec - Sent I-129F to Vermont

31th Dec - Vermont Received Package

8th Jan - NOA1

16th Jan - NOA2 (8 days)

23rd Jan - NVC receives file

28th Jan - NVC sends petition on to London

02 Feb - London received petition

09 Feb - Packet 3 received from Embassy in London

11 Feb - Package 3 returned to London Embassy (Holds breath now)

4th Mar - INTERVIEW DATE!! - VISA APPROVED!!!!!!

8th Mar - Flight booked to Newark NJ

8th Mar - ARRIVED IN MY BABES ARMS!!!!

10th Apr - MARRIED at Niagra Falls (USA Side)

26 Apri - Received Social Security Number

23rd Apr - Posted AOS and EAD

14 May - NOA for AOS (online 11 May) (and rejection for EAD (forgot to tick a box))!

17th May - sent EAD back

7th Jun - NOA1 for EAD

25 Jun - (AOS & EAD) Fingerprints and bio's at Philly

8th Jul - E-Filed for AP - NOA1 given 3 hours later

4th Aug - RFE for AP (via e-mail) documents lost!

6th Aug - RFE for AP via e-mail

9th Aug - Resent AP with new documents

16th Aug - NOA1 for AP received by post

24th Aug - AP APPROVED (via e-mail)

2nd Sep - AP arrives in mail!

10th Sep - EAD transferred to Vermont

16th Sep - Received NOA1 transfer to Vermont

20th Oct - DENIED EAD! :( entered wrong code -20th May - AOS Interview Date - NOT going. 28th June - GOING HOME TO UK

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~ameriptian~   54

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OMG..... I am so sorry for your loss (F)(F)(F) :'( :crying: *HUGS*.... Please be strong.....

ROC Timeline

8/1/12: ROC window opens
9/4/12: ROC packet sent
9/8/12: ROC packet delivered to VSC
9/12/12: Check cashed
9/14/12: NOA letter received (NOA dated 9/10/12)
9/20/12: Biometrics letter received (Bio appointment 10/15/12)
10/12/12: Early biometrics walk-in

4/27/13: RFE received

6/17/13: RFE response sent

7/1/13: ROC petition approved

7/5/13: GC received in the mail.

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im so sorry for ur loss..God be w/ u.. (F)

----------- after 9 long years of our relationship, now the time has come for us to be one -----------

AOS/EAD

07-10-2009-- mailed AOS/EAD package to Chicago Lockbox

07-12-2009-- AOS/EAD package arrived at Chicago Lockbox

07-15-2009-- NOAs for AOS/EAD- DATED

07-18-2009-- NOAs hardcopy RECEIVED

08-14-2009-- Called USCIS (regarding bio apt)35 days

08-25-2009-- Biometric Notice- DATED

08-28-2009-- Biometric Notice hard copy RECEIVED---FINALLY..thank GOD..(7 weeks)

08-31-2009-- I-765 (EAD)- TOUCHED

09-15-2009-- Biometric Appointment--DONE

09-15-2009-- I-485 (AOS)- TOUCHED

09-16-2009-- I-485 (AOS)- TOUCHED

09-23-2009-- EAD CARD PRODUCTION ORDERED

09-28-2009-- another email EAD CARD PRODUCTION ORDERED

09-28-2009-- Interview Letter- RECEIVED

09-30-2009-- Approval Notice Sent for EAD

10-01-2009-- EAD card- RECEIVED__yipee..thank GOD..

10-27-2009-- INTERVIEW DATE- 10:30 AM

10-27-2009-- interview--PASSED..THANK GOD

10-27-2009-- GC--CARD PRODUCTION ORDERED

11-04-2009-- Welcome Notice Received

11-06-2009-- GREEN CARD IN HAND..THANK YOU LORD..

ROC

08-03-11-- mailed ROC package to California Service Center

08-05-11-- NOA receipt date

08-11-11-- NOA received

09-12-11-- Biometrics Appointment- DONE

02-10-12-- RFE received

03-19-12-- mailed RFE response

04-02-12-- text & email GREEN CARD PRODUCTION ORDERED

04-08-12-- 10YRS GREEN CARD ON HAND!!!

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We were married just over a month and I lost my best friend today. I do not even have the words right now. Please do not listen to any inaccurate reports coming from other sources ~ I am getting the information as it comes directly from his family. I will share more details as I see fit, but please allow me to speak for my husband. I do not want him disrespected any further :( I am in shock right now and I can't accept or believe the news that I received today !! He was 26 years old. God be with us and my husband (F)

I am so sorry for your loss!! May Allah be with you and give you comfort! (F)(F)(F)

Andrea

"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. " – Herm Albright

POE: JFK New York: 04/18/2010
Receive Green Card in mail: 06/03/2010
Received SSN: 06/17/2010
Received NEW SS CARD: 07/20/2010 (to match GC!)
Got JOB!!: 09/27/2010
Got a better JOB!!: 11/20/2010
ROC Mailed: 02/16/2012
Check cashed: 02/24/2012
NOA received dated for: 02/22/2012
Biometrics dated: 04/18/2012
RFE: 10/23/2012
RFE Response Confirmed: 11/16/2012
Interview at Orlando office: 02/13/2013

2nd RFE!!: 10/03/13

2nd RFE Response: 10/09/2013

Update Biometrics: 10/13/2013 NEVER GOT 10 yr card!

N-400 mailed: 01/21/2014

Biometrics (N-400): 02/21/2014

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Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,

may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow

May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

May the blessings of love be upon you,

May its peace abide with you,

May its essence illuminate your heart,

Now and forever more

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