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I lost my husband today

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Adjustment of Status

18 July 2008 - AOS package sent to Chicago

21 July 2008 - Delivered at 8.38am, signed by R. Mercedo

24 July 2008 - Checks cashed, NOA sent for I-485, I-130, I-765 and I-131

28 July 2008 - NOA received in mail, applied for State ID

29 July 2008 - Case viewable online

04 Aug 2008 - NOA for Biometrics (sent July 30)

20 Aug 2008 - Biometrics done

23 Aug 2008 - Received State ID card, valid for 4 years

05 Sep 2008 - Received new corrected State ID

24 Sep 2008 - AP and EAD approved

04 Oct 2008 - EAD in the mail

05 Oct 2008 - AP in the mail, applied for SSN

07 Oct 2008 - Job interview

10 Oct 2008 - First day at work

20 Oct 2008 - Social Security card in the mail, got my first paycheck

11 Dec 2008 - Passed driver's knowledge test

24 Dec 2008 - Notice for interview

19 Feb 2009 - Interview

27 Feb 2009 - Welcome letter - APPROVED

06 Mar 2009 - GREEN CARD ARRIVED

Removing of Conditions

03 Dec 2010 - I-751 sent to California

06 Dec 2010 - Package received

08 Dec 2010 - Check cashed

16 Dec 2010 - NOA in the mail, dated 12/06/2010

24 Dec 2010 - Biometrics notice received, dated 12/17/2010

14 Jan 2011 - Biometrics

01 Mar 2011 - APPROVED

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You will be in my prayers tonight and for many nights to come.

((((hugs))))

Lisa

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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So sorry to heard about your loss. :(

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

-- Gandhi

IR-1 / CR-1 Visa

Married the love of my life: 2006-10-18

I-130 Sent : 2008-05-13

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-05-16

I-130 Approved : 2008-07-22

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Amal,

You are the last person in the world I would think would do something mean. You just happened to post right after I had talked to her, which is why I quoted you. You are the person who keeps us all connected (you seem to have the 411 on everyone :lol: ). No harm done sister. :luv:

thx for clarifying. I was really concerned I said something wrong. (i need to be part of the guilty conscience annonymous club)

This truely is a special group of girls here in MENA. (L)

Amal, I haven't known you or anyone here for very long, but from what I've seen, if you could jump through the 'puter to give squirrel massage to make someone feel better you would. :innocent: And that goes for most of you ladies...I myself, too, would do what I could for anybody here. :luv:

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When love beckons to you, follow him,

Though his ways are hard and steep.

And when his wings enfold you yield to him,

Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.

-- Kahlil Gibran

Henna Rose, none of this is as you expected, or as you would choose, but, your sweet husband died knowing that he was loved and that the woman he loved had made a sacred commitment to him and to him alone. This is a gift of great value, one that means that he did not die without you in his life and his heart. God put you in his path so that you would each know true acceptance, love and mercy. You were his angel on earth, and now he is yours in spirit. The two of you are together in the Heart of God.

There is no love without pain, but no love at all is even more painful. May you find solance in remembering how your time together was about joy and giving. You will see him again.

I agree that was beautiful :cry:

Hena Rose, I don't know you very well but I am here for you as is every wonderful person on this board. You have been in my prayers and will continue to be (L)

يَايُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءامَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَوةِ اِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّبِرِينَ

“O you who believe! seek assistance through patience and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient. (Al-Baqarah 2:153 )”

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I am shocked and so very sad to read your heart-breaking news -- I can only imagine the depth of your grief and pain. Please accept my condolences on your tragic loss, and may God comfort you in this hard time. Thoughts and prayers with you and your husband's family.

(F)

-MK

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I am very sorry for your loss! (F)(F)

Angela

MET ONLINE- JUNE 21, 2005

WENT TO VISIT YASSINE IN MOROCCO- APRIL 15, 2006

SENT IN I129F TO CSC- NOVEMBER 2, 2006

RECIEVED NOA1- NOVEMBER 15, 2006

CHECK CLEARED- NOVEMBER 20, 2006

NOA2!!-FEBRUARY 6, 2007

NVC RECIEVED CASE-FEBRAURY 16, 2007

NVC SENT CASE TO CASA-FEBRAURAY 21, 2007

CASA RECEIVED-FEBRAURAY 26, 2007

PACKET 3 RECEIVED-MARCH 5, 2007

INTERVIEW DATE-APRIL 4, 2007

VISA RECEIVED- APRIL 12, 2007 WOO HOO!!!!

US ENTRY- APRIL 26, 2007

WEDDING- MAY 4, 2007

FILED AOS & EAD- JULY 24, 2007

EAD CARD RECEIVED-OCTOBER 3, 2007

GREENCARD INTERVIEW-DECEMBER 13, 2007

GREENCARD RECEIVED AFTER BEING LOST IN THE MAIL SENT BACK TO SERVICE CENTER AND REMAILED OUT AFTER SEVERAL PHONECALLS-JANUARY 25, 2008

FILING TO REMOVE CONDITIONS-SEPTEMBER 2009!

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i am very sorry for your loss.

June 11 05-Married George, civil ceremony in New York

May 30 08-Baby Joshua was born

Jan 15-Back to NY we go...

May 10-made decision not to go back overseas.

July 10-filed for divorce

Jan 11-Divorce final

July 11-1st trip to take Josh to see George

Mar 12-2nd trip to take Josh to see George

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Ganja Girl~ that describes totally what I am feeling! You all have been so supportive (F) Amal ~ your post was beautiful, if God chose me for my husband's last days on earth, I am honored ! that doesn't make it any easier to bear. My husband was kind, loving, humble and I know he loved me based on his actions. I keep expecting him to pop on yahoo or call me and he is not there :cry: I think today is harder as everything is sinking in and yesterday I kept expecting to wake up !

I know he loved you very very much. You were a very special couple and I know you made his life complete and good . This was an amazing journey for you , going to morocco, cooking with his family, all the wonderful things.. your grasp of darja. You have handled so many things this year.. and I am so sorry this happened. My heart is with you and I want you to continue to visit Morocco....and write your story.. I think thats what you should do because your story is a love story and an inspiration and tells of love and devotion... You mattered to each other..

I am so so so sorry

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i am so sorry...stay strong, sweetie, for his sake....

(F)

::There’s a laugh in my eyes::

There’s a waltz in my walk

And it’s been such a long time

Since there was hope in my talk

If you never knew

What it is that’s new.. it’s you

‘Cause when your hands are in mine

You set a fire that everyone can see

And it’s burning away

Every bad memory

To tell you the truth

If it’s something new.. baby it’s you

It’s you in the morning

It’s you in the night

A beautiful angel came down

To light up my life

The world’s a different place

Where nothing’s too hard to say

And nothing’s too hard to do

Never too much to go through

To tell you the truth

Everything that’s new.. baby it’s you

It’s you in the morning

It’s you in the night

A beautiful angel came down

To light up my life

My life, my life

Ohh

So if I get to grow old (oh if I get to grow old)

With many years behind me (many years behind me)

There’s only one thing I want (aahh)

One thing I need beside me

For all that you are

For everything you do

For all that you’ve done

Just for showing me the truth

::It’s you...It’s you...Baby it’s you::

--Westlife

...alhamdullah...rabbina ya khallena le ba3d fil donya wa fil akhra...ameen...

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