I lost my husband today

[ready4ONE 5,400]

Very sorry for your loss Henna.

[Derek&Marina 0]

We are so sorry for your loss

[esmatsgirl 1]

Henna...

I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through..If you need to talk feel free to email me.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Deb

[maggieNomar 0]

I'm trying to get a few locals to go visit her with me tomorrow. She is hanging in there.

[desert_fox 32]

Please accept my condolences.

[kitty loves moudi 0]

my condolences to you. May God grant you strength you need.

[lion_lioness 0]

Henna,

I don't really know you - but I wanted to reach out and say you and your family will be in my prayers.

-prena

[Henna Rose 0]

I just got off yahoo with Brahim ~ He had to work and was unable to join some of the family in El Jadida where my husband was laid to rest this morning When I was in Morocco last year for Ramadan my husband was diagnosed with epilepsy. He had been having seizures for years, but never received proper medical attention or diagnosis. He was put on phenobarbital and that helped minimize and control the seizures which would only occur at night when he slept. I had witnessed a few really scarey attacks before we got him to the doctor and on the meds.

The family believes he had a gran mal and that is what killed him or he hit his head and was bleeding internally, or he ran out of his meds.Whatever the cause, I feel so helpless because I was not there to help him. Right now I am getting information in bits and pieces and still do not know all the details. The family says that God wanted him ~ I am really struggling with that because I thought God was giving me a husband

[hitchoo 0]

Inna lillah wa inna elaih raj'oun, we shall pray for him that may allahs merci be upon him , and wish allah bless his family and his wife , Amen

[lion_lioness 0]

Henna, my brother, who would have turned 27 this past April was also epileptic. He had a severe seizure 4 days before christmas last year and never came out of it. I can imagine how you feel. Never knowing 100% (meds, he hit something, anything).

I am so sorry for your loss.

Edited July 28, 2008 by lion_lioness

[Steph25 0]

[amal 4]

I know it must be hard for u to update us as you are going through such difficult times. Thank you Henna.

I was thinking that the comment "god wanted him" is probably right and god did want to give you a husband. He also wanted to give your husband the most wonderful wife/partner/love before his time was done here on earth. You are such a wonderful person and I see why God chose you to fill that spot.

I'm keeping you in my prayers every day. I'm free any time if u need to talk, yell, cry, scream, anything.

Amal

[maggieNomar 0]

I know it must be hard for u to update us as you are going through such difficult times. Thank you Henna.

I was thinking that the comment "god wanted him" is probably right and god did want to give you a husband. He also wanted to give your husband the most wonderful wife/partner/love before his time was done here on earth. You are such a wonderful person and I see why God chose you to fill that spot.

I'm keeping you in my prayers every day. I'm free any time if u need to talk, yell, cry, scream, anything.

Amal

Maybe those of you that are muslim can explain the thought process behind that comment (God wanted him) and help her understand from your perspective. I have some insight on it but not enough to explain it well. There are things we will never understand in our finite human minds and no one can understand the ways of God. But to a non-muslim, this comment can be hurtful so I'd like to help her understand.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

so sorry for your loss. What you said made me remember once, someone told me when i was in doubt that this journey/relationship was given to me for a reason, yours also, you made him very happy to know love and know he was loved so much by you.

[maggieNomar 0]

so sorry for your loss. What you said made me remember once, someone told me when i was in doubt that this journey/relationship was given to me for a reason, yours also, you made him very happy to know love and know he was loved so much by you.

That was very sweet brnid.