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  1. 1. Have you spent more time living with your SO or apart since you met him/her?

    • More time together
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    • About 50-50
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Since we met in Aug 2005 I have spent only one day away from him (out of town for a work conference) - I'm surprised we're not sick of each other yet :P

Next month he will fly back to the States 2 weeks before I do ... not sure how I'm going to handle it :unsure:

Edited by kaffy

DCF Timeline here

POE Timeline

08/24/2008 POE Seattle

08/29/2008 SSN assigned

09/08/2008 SSN (Card) received

09/29/2008 Green Card received

I-90 Timeline (USCIS error)

11/10/2008 Send I-90 to Texas service center

12/xx/2008 NOA1

01/07/2009 Card production ordered

01/14/2009 Card mailed

01/xx/2009 Card received

I-751 Timeline

06/02/2010 Send I-751 to California service center

06/04/2010 Received at CSC

06/07/2010 NOA1

06/09/2010 Check cashed

07/27/2010 Biometrics

07/28/2010 Touch

09/02/2010 Approved

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Filed: Other Country: India
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We also have made it to more years together than apart, yay!

About 3 years apart (2001-2004 with a visit in 2003), and now almost 4 years together(he moved here Sept 2nd of 04).

Edited by Parivar CSK

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Jamaica
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We spend 98% of our free time together, lots of people say its unhealthy-- but it works for us!

We spend 98% of our free time together, lots of people say its unhealthy-- but it works for us!

We had two years apart, and almost 2 years together.

12/03/2005: Married

10/13/2006: Interview Approved

10/26/2006: POE: EWR (ARRIVED) [/size]

182 days from filing to Visa in Hand!!![/color]

AOS/EAD

01/22/2007: Sent to The Lockbox.....let the games begin.....again

02/02/2007: NOA1's for both....the waiting game officially begins

02/15/2007: Biometrics appt.

04/11/2007: EAD APPROVED!! YI-HAW

04/21/2007: Received SSN#

05/23/2007: AOS Interview -------> APPROOOOOOVED!!!!!!

05/29/2007: Received Welcome letter

06/04/2007: Green Card in Hand!!!

122 Days from filing AOS to Green Card in Hand!!!

REMOVING CONDITIONS

05/21/2009: Filed to Remove Conditions

6/18/2009: Biometrics Done

09/14/2009: Approved!!!

Citizenship

2/15/2011: Filed N-400

3/28/2011: Biometrics <-- Done

5/09/2011: Naturalization Interview <--- APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/09/2011: Swearing in Ceremony (We're Done)

MY HUSBAND IS NOW A US CITIZEN

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Thailand
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Been together 49 months total. Actual time spent together: 20 months. Ugh. :(

AOS, EAD and AP Journey

* Married on March 18, 2009.

* Papers mailed on May 8, 2009, arrived at Chicago lockbox on May 10, 2009

* Check cashed on May 14, 2009.

* NOAs for AOS, EAD, and AP issued on May 14, 2009 and received on May 18, 2009.

* Biometrics letter received on May 20, 2009.

* Biometrics appointment on June 4, 2009 at 8 am.

* EAD and AOS touched on June 5, 2009.

* EAD card production ordered and AP approved on June 17, 2009.

* EAD card received on June 25, 2009.

* AP received on June 26, 2009.

* Celebrating five years as a couple with much-delayed reception on June 27, 2009. What a journey it has been.

* Case transferred to CSC on July 14, 2009.

* Received noticed that case is pending at CSC on July 21, 2009.

* AOS touched on July 31, 2009.

* Card production orderd on August 12, 2009.

* Green Card received on August 21, 2009.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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We spend 98% of our free time together, lots of people say its unhealthy-- but it works for us!

i don't get that. do you go to the bathroom to watch each other pee and take a dump? shower? cook together, watch tv together, sit at the computer together even thou only one is actually writting here. then you drive places together. when you go buy clothes he goes in the dressing room with you? because i can't see how it would ever be possible to spend 98% of your free time together.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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And even if you do, what kind of crazy level of data gathering and statistical analysis had to go into figuring out that you spend 98% of the time together?

Maybe that's why you spend 98% of your time together - because you spend all your time either sleeping or collecting data!

Man is made by his belief. As he believes, so he is.

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Filed: Country: United Kingdom
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We have been together longer than apart. However in a couple of months it will swap! We were together for nearly 8 months before he was posted to Bahrain in Feb. It's been six months and in that time I saw him for three weeks. Will see him next week for 2 weeks, then after that it will be another 6 months before I see him.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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And even if you do, what kind of crazy level of data gathering and statistical analysis had to go into figuring out that you spend 98% of the time together?

Maybe that's why you spend 98% of your time together - because you spend all your time either sleeping or collecting data!

lol exactly.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Filed: Country: Indonesia
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Met in late 2001 - in LDR most of the time.

Married in 2004.

Together in US since mid 2006.

I guess we spent most of our time apart.

I-130

Jun 28 2004 : Received at NSC

Oct 25 2004 : Transferred to CSC

Oct 29 2004 : Received at CSC

Nov 8 2004 : Received response from CSC that my file is being requested & review will be done

Nov 10 2004 : Email & online status Approved

Nov 15 2004 : NOA 2 in mail

Dec 16 2004 : NVC assigns case number

Dec 20 2004 : NVC sent DS 3032 to beneficiary, copy of DS 3032 & I-864 fee bill to petitioner

Jan 3 2005 : Petitioner received copy of DS 3032 and I-864 fee bill. Post-marked Dec 23rd.

Jan 11 2005 : Beneficiary received DS 3032 in Indonesia

Jan 31 2005 : Sent DS 3032 to NVC

Feb 8, 2005 : NVC received DS 3032

Feb 21, 2005 : IV fee generated

Feb 25, 2005 : Sent I-864 fee bill

Feb 28, 2005 : I-864 fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 3, 2005 : IV fee bill received

Mar 7, 2005 : Sent IV fee bill

Mar 9, 2005 : IV fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 28, 2005 : I-864 fee credited against case.

April 6, 2005 : Received I-864 package

April 7, 2005 : Immigrant Visa fee credited against case.

April 11, 2005 : DS 230 is generated

Aug 12, 2005 : I-864 & DS 230 received by NVC

Sep 14, 2005 : RFE on I-864

Nov 3, 2005 : Checklist response received at NVC

Nov 25, 2005 : Case completion

Dec 9, 2005 : Police Cert requested from the Netherlands

Jan 12 2006 : Interview success - Approved !!

Jan 19 2006 : Visa & brown envelope picked up

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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: France
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One year apart and a year and half together. Yeah!!! :) Time goes really fast.

AOS Approved on 10-17-08 (details in profile)

Removal of Conditions on 07-19-10

In this tedious process, we tend to forget that this is all worth it.

I love my hubby beyond anything in this world.

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Filed: Country: Pitcairn Islands
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Looks something like:

Jan 2001 - July 18, 2003: Chat friends, apart.

July 19, 2003 - August 8, 2003 - Datingish, together.

August 9-17, 2003 - Apart.

August 18-24, 2003 - Together.

August 25, 2003 - December 18, 2003 - Apart.

December 19, 2003 - January 8, 2004 - Together.

January 9, 2004 - March 13, 2004 - Apart.

March 14, 2004 - March 21, 2004 - Together.

March 22, 2004 - May 8, 2004 - Apart.

May 9, 2004 - May 21, 2004 - Together.

May 22, 2004 - July 18, 2004 - Apart (but at least in the same country)

July 19, 2004 - March 22, 2007 - Together

March 23, 2007 - September 5, 2007 - Apart.

Sept 6, 2007 - Present - Together.

I am not too lazy to write all of that out, but too lazy for the math on that. :P

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Jamaica
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2 yrs apart 1 yr together

USCIS

06-28-2011-Mailed I-130

07-03-2011-NOA1

12-08-2011-NOA2

NVC

12-19-2012-NVC Received Case

01-06-2012-Case Number

01-25-2012-Case Completed

02-21-2012-Medical

03-06-2012-Interview--APPROVED

03-13-2012-VISA RECEIVED

03-16-2012-POE ATL

ROC

02/24/2014-Mailed I-751

02/26/2014-Package Received

02/28/2014-NOA1 Hard Copy

02/28/2014-Check Cashed

03/25/2014-Biometrics Appt

06/04/2014-RFE Sent more info back on 07/29/2014

09/04/2014 ROC Approved

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Lived in a same city for 10 months, long distance in the US for 8 months, lived together for 11 months, long distance b/w the US and Japan for 5 months, long distance in Japan for 2 years, then now married and living together for 13 months.

Oops, I voted for More Time Together, but it's actually less...

Can I vote again???

Immigration Process (DCF Japan)

08/06/2008 I-130 petition at Tokyo, Japan

08/13/2008 I-130 approved

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| Waited until we were ready to move back

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07/13/2009 IV interview at Tokyo, Japan

07/15/2009 IV(IR-1) in hand

Post-DCF

07/29/2009 POE at Las Vegas

08/17/2009 GC(10yrs) received

Click here for the detailed timeline.

Done with USCIS until

- naturalization in May 2012 or

- GC replacement in February 2019

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