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1.Pay attention to her. Every time she

is speaking to you, make an effort to

look her in the eyes and understand

what she is saying. If you do not

understand, tell her. This will show

her that you are listening and would

like to hear what she has to say.

2.Be trustworthy. Prove yourself to

her daily. If you give her your word

that you will be there for her, follow

through. How can anyone care for

someone they lie to?

3.Respect her mind, body, and soul.

She is a different individual. There

are many paths of life and hers may be

differing from yours. Accept her and

cherish her for who she is.

4.Perform random acts of kindness. Be

creative. Call her at work and tell

her that you are thinking about her.

Paste a note on her mirror telling her

that you love her. A picture is worth

a thousand words, paint her a

watercolor. Leave her a flower and a

sincere note.

5.Spend quality time with her. Turning

off the T.V., grabbing a blanket, and

lying with her beneath the stars can

mean more than expensive jewelry.

Diamonds may last forever, but all you

have is a lifetime.

6.Let her know exactly how you feel.

Look within. Exactly what does this

woman mean to you? Write it down. Give

it to her.

7.When you are away, whether it be a

business trip, or a vacation with the

guys, check in with her. It's just

polite! Let her know that although

you're having fun, she has crossed

your mind.

8.Be compassionate and understanding.

Women like men who are compassionate

and understanding and someone who

always cares. A woman wants to be able

to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice

guy." A woman wants a man to tell her

often how important she is to him and

to show her that in his actions and

thoughtfulness. Flowers, a gift, a

card, or even just a phone call are an

extra touch that tell her she matters.

9. Buy her thoughtful gifts but don't

buy her cheap gifts. It just shows you

don't care. Spending that little extra

will make her think you really do care

and would give her the earth if you

could.

Send flowers for no particular reason

without waiting for a birthday or

holiday. Remember to send them to her

office on occasion. It isn't enough to

make her feel important it's also

important for others around her to see

she's treated well and spoiled.

10. Be polite and complimentary. Women

like to hear "please" and "thank you".

Also, ask her how her day is going.

Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful,

pretty and that she has lovely eyes.

Just telling her she is wonderful

often helps and thanking her for

everything she does for you. In

addition, recognize that there is more

to her than the physical aspect.

11. Respect for her thoughts and

opinions and recognition of her

intelligence and strong points is

paramount to her knowing she is seen

as a total person. Find something

unique about her that no one has ever

told her about.

12. Be a good communicator. Listen to

her, hear her out, give eye contact to

let her know you are giving full

attention. However, you also need to

open up and tell her your thoughts,

opinions and problems. The

communication must be mutual not one-

sided. Help give ideas about possible

solutions to problems, but praise her

if she finds something other than what

you suggest.

13.Brag about her to your friends and

to hers. This is especially important

as relationships grow. She'll like

knowing she is appreciated.

14.Remember special events like

birthdays, anniversary, etc.

15.Tell her she is beautiful, not hot.

Pretty and hot have their place, but

beautiful goes right to the heart.

Sometimes she'll need to be "hot"

or "sexy". Pay attention and know what

part of her ego needs reinforcing.

16.Surprise her with romantic dinners

out, couples massages at a great spa

or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the

planning and give her the feeling

she's being whisked away.

17.dont break promises with excuses

18.BE SUPPORTIVE of her at all times

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Naturalization

01-04-2012 --- N400 sent

01-11-2012 --- Check Cashed

01-10-2012 --- NOA1

02-07-2012 --- Biometrics

02-14-2012 --- Yellow Letter (it says "bring any state issued ID" for interview)

02-24-2012 --- Placed in line for Interview Scheduling

02-27-2012 --- Interview Letter sent out

03-02-2012 --- Interview Letter received

04-02-2012 --- INTERVIEW- passed!

05-01-2012 --- Oath scheduled/ Oath Letter Sent

05-16-2012 --- Oath Taking! I am now a USC!!!

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IR-5

05-17-2012 --- I-130 Sent

05-29-2012 --- NOA1

09-24-2012 --- NOA2

10-11-2012 --- Received Case Number via email

10-12-2012 --- Mailed AOS

10-24-2012 --- Mailed DS-230

11-16-2012 --- Case Complete

11-27-2012 --- Received interview schedule via email

11-05-2012 --- Early Medical day 1

11-06-2012 --- Medical Day 2 -PASSED!

01-03-2013 --- Interview- APRROVED!

01-10-2013 --- VISA Received

01-14-2013 --- POE LAX

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After marriage... ALL BETS ARE OFF!!! It's a whole new game Baby. Believe that! :diablo:

That is such a long list to remember though. I got confused after number 2. I hope we are given time to study this and that the quiz will be multiple choice. :innocent:

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19. Never make a list like this and give it to your wife!! :jest:

Naturalization

3/23/14 - N400 package sent to Phoenix

3/27/14 - N400 package delivered

4/3/14 - NOA1 receipt date

4/4/14 - check cashed

04/29/14 - biometrics date

07/01/14 - interview date

xx/xx/xx - Oath Ceremony

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i think a mean husband should spend time reading this and needs deep understanding about the thoughts of this you enlisted here.

1.Pay attention to her. Every time she

is speaking to you, make an effort to

look her in the eyes and understand

what she is saying. If you do not

understand, tell her. This will show

her that you are listening and would

like to hear what she has to say.

2.Be trustworthy. Prove yourself to

her daily. If you give her your word

that you will be there for her, follow

through. How can anyone care for

someone they lie to?

3.Respect her mind, body, and soul.

She is a different individual. There

are many paths of life and hers may be

differing from yours. Accept her and

cherish her for who she is.

4.Perform random acts of kindness. Be

creative. Call her at work and tell

her that you are thinking about her.

Paste a note on her mirror telling her

that you love her. A picture is worth

a thousand words, paint her a

watercolor. Leave her a flower and a

sincere note.

5.Spend quality time with her. Turning

off the T.V., grabbing a blanket, and

lying with her beneath the stars can

mean more than expensive jewelry.

Diamonds may last forever, but all you

have is a lifetime.

6.Let her know exactly how you feel.

Look within. Exactly what does this

woman mean to you? Write it down. Give

it to her.

7.When you are away, whether it be a

business trip, or a vacation with the

guys, check in with her. It's just

polite! Let her know that although

you're having fun, she has crossed

your mind.

8.Be compassionate and understanding.

Women like men who are compassionate

and understanding and someone who

always cares. A woman wants to be able

to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice

guy." A woman wants a man to tell her

often how important she is to him and

to show her that in his actions and

thoughtfulness. Flowers, a gift, a

card, or even just a phone call are an

extra touch that tell her she matters.

9. Buy her thoughtful gifts but don't

buy her cheap gifts. It just shows you

don't care. Spending that little extra

will make her think you really do care

and would give her the earth if you

could.

Send flowers for no particular reason

without waiting for a birthday or

holiday. Remember to send them to her

office on occasion. It isn't enough to

make her feel important it's also

important for others around her to see

she's treated well and spoiled.

10. Be polite and complimentary. Women

like to hear "please" and "thank you".

Also, ask her how her day is going.

Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful,

pretty and that she has lovely eyes.

Just telling her she is wonderful

often helps and thanking her for

everything she does for you. In

addition, recognize that there is more

to her than the physical aspect.

11. Respect for her thoughts and

opinions and recognition of her

intelligence and strong points is

paramount to her knowing she is seen

as a total person. Find something

unique about her that no one has ever

told her about.

12. Be a good communicator. Listen to

her, hear her out, give eye contact to

let her know you are giving full

attention. However, you also need to

open up and tell her your thoughts,

opinions and problems. The

communication must be mutual not one-

sided. Help give ideas about possible

solutions to problems, but praise her

if she finds something other than what

you suggest.

13.Brag about her to your friends and

to hers. This is especially important

as relationships grow. She'll like

knowing she is appreciated.

14.Remember special events like

birthdays, anniversary, etc.

15.Tell her she is beautiful, not hot.

Pretty and hot have their place, but

beautiful goes right to the heart.

Sometimes she'll need to be "hot"

or "sexy". Pay attention and know what

part of her ego needs reinforcing.

16.Surprise her with romantic dinners

out, couples massages at a great spa

or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the

planning and give her the feeling

she's being whisked away.

17.dont break promises with excuses

18.BE SUPPORTIVE of her at all times

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1.Pay attention to her. Every time she

is speaking to you, make an effort to

look her in the eyes and understand

what she is saying. If you do not

understand, tell her. This will show

her that you are listening and would

like to hear what she has to say.

2.Be trustworthy. Prove yourself to

her daily. If you give her your word

that you will be there for her, follow

through. How can anyone care for

someone they lie to?

3.Respect her mind, body, and soul.

She is a different individual. There

are many paths of life and hers may be

differing from yours. Accept her and

cherish her for who she is.

4.Perform random acts of kindness. Be

creative. Call her at work and tell

her that you are thinking about her.

Paste a note on her mirror telling her

that you love her. A picture is worth

a thousand words, paint her a

watercolor. Leave her a flower and a

sincere note.

5.Spend quality time with her. Turning

off the T.V., grabbing a blanket, and

lying with her beneath the stars can

mean more than expensive jewelry.

Diamonds may last forever, but all you

have is a lifetime.

6.Let her know exactly how you feel.

Look within. Exactly what does this

woman mean to you? Write it down. Give

it to her.

7.When you are away, whether it be a

business trip, or a vacation with the

guys, check in with her. It's just

polite! Let her know that although

you're having fun, she has crossed

your mind.

8.Be compassionate and understanding.

Women like men who are compassionate

and understanding and someone who

always cares. A woman wants to be able

to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice

guy." A woman wants a man to tell her

often how important she is to him and

to show her that in his actions and

thoughtfulness. Flowers, a gift, a

card, or even just a phone call are an

extra touch that tell her she matters.

9. Buy her thoughtful gifts but don't

buy her cheap gifts. It just shows you

don't care. Spending that little extra

will make her think you really do care

and would give her the earth if you

could.

Send flowers for no particular reason

without waiting for a birthday or

holiday. Remember to send them to her

office on occasion. It isn't enough to

make her feel important it's also

important for others around her to see

she's treated well and spoiled.

10. Be polite and complimentary. Women

like to hear "please" and "thank you".

Also, ask her how her day is going.

Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful,

pretty and that she has lovely eyes.

Just telling her she is wonderful

often helps and thanking her for

everything she does for you. In

addition, recognize that there is more

to her than the physical aspect.

11. Respect for her thoughts and

opinions and recognition of her

intelligence and strong points is

paramount to her knowing she is seen

as a total person. Find something

unique about her that no one has ever

told her about.

12. Be a good communicator. Listen to

her, hear her out, give eye contact to

let her know you are giving full

attention. However, you also need to

open up and tell her your thoughts,

opinions and problems. The

communication must be mutual not one-

sided. Help give ideas about possible

solutions to problems, but praise her

if she finds something other than what

you suggest.

13.Brag about her to your friends and

to hers. This is especially important

as relationships grow. She'll like

knowing she is appreciated.

14.Remember special events like

birthdays, anniversary, etc.

15.Tell her she is beautiful, not hot.

Pretty and hot have their place, but

beautiful goes right to the heart.

Sometimes she'll need to be "hot"

or "sexy". Pay attention and know what

part of her ego needs reinforcing.

16.Surprise her with romantic dinners

out, couples massages at a great spa

or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the

planning and give her the feeling

she's being whisked away.

17.dont break promises with excuses

18.BE SUPPORTIVE of her at all times

Now that we are together, he's doing everything except #7 since wherever he goes, I go. :thumbs:

After marriage... ALL BETS ARE OFF!!! It's a whole new game Baby. Believe that! :diablo:

:bonk::bonk::bonk:

19. Never make a list like this and give it to your wife!! :jest:

And another :bonk::bonk::bonk:

N-400 NATURALIZATION

04/04/2011 - Mailed N-400 to AZ Lockbox

04/06/2011 - Received

04/07/2011 - NOA

04/07/2011 - Check cashed

04/14/2011 - Biometrics appointment in the mail

04/21/2011 - Early Biometrics (was scheduled on May 4, 2011)

05/09/2011 - Case Status Notification - In line for interview and testing

05/10/2011 - Case Status Notification - Interview scheduled

05/14/2011 - Interview Appointment Letter in the mail

06/21/2011 - Interview Appointment Date

06/29/2011 - Case Status Notification - Placed in the oath scheduling que

08/16/2011 - Case Status Notification - Oath ceremony scheduled

09/15/2011 - Oath Taking - good riddance!

09/23/2011 - Applied for Passport

10/08/2011 - Passport in the mail

10/17/2011 - Certificate of Naturalization in the mail -- OFFICIALLY DONE!

"Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty.

The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are;

you end up being complete with your loved ones."

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My husband once asked me what he should do so as not to lose me, I said JUST BE YOURSELF :)

Removal of Conditions :

August 16, 2010 - Petition received by USCIS Vermont Center

August 20, 2010 - NOA1 received

October 4, 2010 - Biometrics

January 3, 2011 - Permanent 10 yr. Green Card Received.

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My husband once asked me what he should do so as not to lose me, I said JUST BE YOURSELF :)

I think I might be able to manage that one all the time :yes:

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