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Hey all, there is a person on this site that communicates with my wife and has asked several times is your husband rich, how rich is your husband, I think your husband is rich, etc...well I am here to say. I am sure we married for love and not for money, to me it sounds like a fishing contest and who got the biggest fish !! now to be realistic I do know that Romance without Finance, makes No Sense. But if things were reversed. and it were the men who kept the subject of our wives money always in the conversation. what would that make us look like? our marriage is about Love, and I would like to keep it that way. your opinions welcome...

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2008-04-24 : Touched

2008-10-03 : Touched

2008-10-05 : Touched

2008-10-06 : Touched

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2008-10-22 : NVC Receive

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2008-10-30 : USEM Receive

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I'd never marry someone because of their money. But that's me. All we need is love, love is all we need.



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Hey all, there is a person on this site that communicates with my wife and has asked several times is your husband rich, how rich is your husband, I think your husband is rich, etc...well I am here to say. I am sure we married for love and not for money, to me it sounds like a fishing contest and who got the biggest fish !! now to be realistic I do know that Romance without Finance, makes No Sense. But if things were reversed. and it were the men who kept the subject of our wives money always in the conversation. what would that make us look like? our marriage is about Love, and I would like to keep it that way. your opinions welcome...

did you try PM-ing the person?

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Oct 25 2004 : Transferred to CSC

Oct 29 2004 : Received at CSC

Nov 8 2004 : Received response from CSC that my file is being requested & review will be done

Nov 10 2004 : Email & online status Approved

Nov 15 2004 : NOA 2 in mail

Dec 16 2004 : NVC assigns case number

Dec 20 2004 : NVC sent DS 3032 to beneficiary, copy of DS 3032 & I-864 fee bill to petitioner

Jan 3 2005 : Petitioner received copy of DS 3032 and I-864 fee bill. Post-marked Dec 23rd.

Jan 11 2005 : Beneficiary received DS 3032 in Indonesia

Jan 31 2005 : Sent DS 3032 to NVC

Feb 8, 2005 : NVC received DS 3032

Feb 21, 2005 : IV fee generated

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Feb 28, 2005 : I-864 fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 3, 2005 : IV fee bill received

Mar 7, 2005 : Sent IV fee bill

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Mar 28, 2005 : I-864 fee credited against case.

April 6, 2005 : Received I-864 package

April 7, 2005 : Immigrant Visa fee credited against case.

April 11, 2005 : DS 230 is generated

Aug 12, 2005 : I-864 & DS 230 received by NVC

Sep 14, 2005 : RFE on I-864

Nov 3, 2005 : Checklist response received at NVC

Nov 25, 2005 : Case completion

Dec 9, 2005 : Police Cert requested from the Netherlands

Jan 12 2006 : Interview success - Approved !!

Jan 19 2006 : Visa & brown envelope picked up

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hahahahah.. that is actually one of the prejudice that other people is having once a Filipina is marrying other nationals.. i agree that your relationship is based on love not money, which is for mike and i as well.. He is not rich, if i will have the same position here my office if i will get to LA, then i will be the one putting money in our purse.. (not bragging, but i am willing to resign to be with him and rent an apartment, who cares... i love the guy) im used to working hard for a living and im sure it will be easier once the two of you work together right?

Mabuhay ang PInay... :D

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Hey all, there is a person on this site that communicates with my wife and has asked several times is your husband rich, how rich is your husband, I think your husband is rich, etc...well I am here to say. I am sure we married for love and not for money, to me it sounds like a fishing contest and who got the biggest fish !! now to be realistic I do know that Romance without Finance, makes No Sense. But if things were reversed. and it were the men who kept the subject of our wives money always in the conversation. what would that make us look like? our marriage is about Love, and I would like to keep it that way. your opinions welcome...

did you try PM-ing the person?

no, I thought about it, but to avoid conflict I did it this way, besides I was curious of OP thoughts

2008-03-03 : I-130 Sent

2008-03-03 : I-130 NOA1

2008-05-08 : Touched

2008-10-16 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-03-27 : I-129F Sent

2008-03-31 : I-129F NOA1

2008-04-24 : Touched

2008-10-03 : Touched

2008-10-05 : Touched

2008-10-06 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-10-22 : NVC Receive

2008-10-24 : NVC Left

2008-10-30 : USEM Receive

2008-11-10 : Wife's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-01 : Son's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-19 : USEM Interview - PASSED

2009-01-14 : VISA RECEIVED

2009-01-25 : US Entry (JFK)

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:jest:

I'm marrying Lara for all the money she hasn't got.

:star::lol:

2008-03-03 : I-130 Sent

2008-03-03 : I-130 NOA1

2008-05-08 : Touched

2008-10-16 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-03-27 : I-129F Sent

2008-03-31 : I-129F NOA1

2008-04-24 : Touched

2008-10-03 : Touched

2008-10-05 : Touched

2008-10-06 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-10-22 : NVC Receive

2008-10-24 : NVC Left

2008-10-30 : USEM Receive

2008-11-10 : Wife's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-01 : Son's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-19 : USEM Interview - PASSED

2009-01-14 : VISA RECEIVED

2009-01-25 : US Entry (JFK)

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It would have been nice if he had money :innocent: but I love him anyway :lol:

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Hey all, there is a person on this site that communicates with my wife and has asked several times is your husband rich, how rich is your husband, I think your husband is rich, etc...well I am here to say. I am sure we married for love and not for money, to me it sounds like a fishing contest and who got the biggest fish !! now to be realistic I do know that Romance without Finance, makes No Sense. But if things were reversed. and it were the men who kept the subject of our wives money always in the conversation. what would that make us look like? our marriage is about Love, and I would like to keep it that way. your opinions welcome...

did you try PM-ing the person?

no, I thought about it, but to avoid conflict I did it this way, besides I was curious of OP thoughts

Because posting a conflict you have with one member posted on a public forum, in Off-Topic no less, will 'avoid' conflict, how? :blink:

This person is only asking your wife if you are rich? Or has this person said outright that because they suspect you have good financial standing then your marriage must be based on money? If your wife is only being peppered by "Is your husband rich?" type questions, and you do not want to engage in this type of discourse...you could ask your wife to stop answering said questions. If the person doesn't desist in asking them, she(your) wife could stop comunicating with the person.

It is, as you say a conflict between you and one person. My thought is you should handle it as such. :thumbs:

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sanita had more $$ than me....and in fact, paid cash for our first house....

so, she did not marry me for $$ and the same with me.....i am in the human services field..and accusotmed to being poor...

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Hey all, there is a person on this site that communicates with my wife and has asked several times is your husband rich, how rich is your husband, I think your husband is rich, etc...well I am here to say. I am sure we married for love and not for money, to me it sounds like a fishing contest and who got the biggest fish !! now to be realistic I do know that Romance without Finance, makes No Sense. But if things were reversed. and it were the men who kept the subject of our wives money always in the conversation. what would that make us look like? our marriage is about Love, and I would like to keep it that way. your opinions welcome...

did you try PM-ing the person?

no, I thought about it, but to avoid conflict I did it this way, besides I was curious of OP thoughts

Because posting a conflict you have with one member posted on a public forum, in Off-Topic no less, will 'avoid' conflict, how? :blink:

This person is only asking your wife if you are rich? Or has this person said outright that because they suspect you have good financial standing then your marriage must be based on money? If your wife is only being peppered by "Is your husband rich?" type questions, and you do not want to engage in this type of discourse...you could ask your wife to stop answering said questions. If the person doesn't desist in asking them, she(your) wife could stop comunicating with the person.

It is, as you say a conflict between you and one person. My thought is you should handle it as such. :thumbs:

-Pthanks for your opinion :huh:

:rofl:

I vehemently disagree!

All personal conflicts should be discussed and resolved (when possible) out in the open forum.

I, and the rest of the peanut gallery, demand no less.

:rofl:

2008-03-03 : I-130 Sent

2008-03-03 : I-130 NOA1

2008-05-08 : Touched

2008-10-16 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-03-27 : I-129F Sent

2008-03-31 : I-129F NOA1

2008-04-24 : Touched

2008-10-03 : Touched

2008-10-05 : Touched

2008-10-06 : Touched

2008-10-20 : Touched and Approved (NOA2)

2008-10-22 : NVC Receive

2008-10-24 : NVC Left

2008-10-30 : USEM Receive

2008-11-10 : Wife's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-01 : Son's Medical - PASSED

2008-12-19 : USEM Interview - PASSED

2009-01-14 : VISA RECEIVED

2009-01-25 : US Entry (JFK)

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