the loneliest ive ever been

[shes 0]

The validity of approved I-129F petition is 4months from NOA2 but I believe it can be extended. As for the "last date of cancellation" on the email from call center, it pertains to your interview schedule only. It signifies the last day that you can make amendments to your interview sched. I know you can reschedule your interview... and i think there was somebody who had to cancel her interview for a while and reschedule it after she gave birth, but to be sure, try calling USEM directly and inquire from Lorraine or Grace wag don sa mga call center agents

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (New International Version)

But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

Continue to trust in Him and He will surely sustain you. God be your constant refuge and strength.

thank you so much. this means so much to me. il call the USEM (not the call center) maybe after i get the result from my ocologist on thursday..i think i can only think of what to do next after i have the result.

i messaged JOnah (lostgurl) and asked for her advice as well..

[shes 0]

I've been there and I promise it will be all right. Don't lose hope. God is good and there's no relationship that never had any trials. Any relationship have trials, leads to stronger love as ever.

My prayers for you and your fiance, cheer up, this is something that you should remember because in the future, this will be just one of those memory that you'll recall 'coz it made you stronger, made you a better person.

Hang in there, find your strength from each other and above all from God.

Isay

thanks so much my friend. i know its a choice between holding on to God's faithfulness to me and being deceive to what the devil is tryin to do to me. no matter how painful, il always choose God's way

[RyaNRiza 1]

Great shes! Do everything one step at a time. One day you will surely find yourself at the end of this journey victorious

God be with you. A lot of people is praying for you

[shes 0]

Hi shes, my heart goes out to you. But don't let this hindrance drag you to the pit. It's really ok to feel down. That is normal knowing how much you and your fiance want to be together the soonest possible time. However, don't focus too much on the dark side. Everything will be alright. True love always wins and what you've got is genuine.

I don't know about the interview process with medical obstacles such as yours. I thought it will be SLEC who will re-sched your interview. Not too sure. You don't have any other choice but reschedule your interview.

Look at the bright side after the agony you are feeling right now. Just that, don't linger there too long ok? Cheer up! God is great and He is always faithful to His promises. Make Jonah as the freshest example of God's goodness.

I'll be praying for you. God bless your heart.

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thank you riza. all of u are so helpful. i believe God wont leave me and has a plan. with the rescheduling..the thing is i dont know yet when can i have the interview if i reschedule it.

[dbears 1]

thank you so much. this means so much to me. il call the USEM (not the call center) maybe after i get the result from my ocologist on thursday..i think i can only think of what to do next after i have the result.

i messaged JOnah (lostgurl) and asked for her advice as well..

It was wacky (http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showuser=38972) who had to temporarily cancel her interview that was originally set for May 20 because she gave birth around first week of May ata... they set the interview again July 1 and I think there was no problem. try sending her pm also.

Good luck again.. i hope everything will be ok soon. My prayers are with you.

[chris-lei 1]

hello guys..id like to thank you all for ur support. let me tell you in detail what had happened cus i think im misleading the others weather SLEC advice me to have the lump removed or its just me who decided that..

i felt the lump in my neck during the month of MAY. i went to my oncologist in chinese gen on JUNE and had a NEEDLE BIOPSY. the result came after a few days and the diagnosis was "SUGGEST RE-BIOPSY" when i talked to my doctor about the diagnosis, he said its negative and i just need to observe for the lump..if its changing, growing etc..and so i stop worrying from there and JULY 17 came when i went to SLEC for the 1st day of the medical exam.

i did all the exam for the 1st day including the PHYSICAL EXAM. this was the circumstance when the physical exam doc palpated the lump. she asked me.."ano to?".. and i said "na pabiopsy ko yan last June wala naman daw problema, negative." then the doctor asked if i have with me the result and ofcourse i wanst able to bring it with me that time. she then finished the the whole pyhsical exam routine on me and by the end of the session she wrote down a request for medical certificate with histopath and handed it to me. i saw on her medical chart (the one the doctor checks during the question and answer) that she wrote her findings..i read it and it reads.." palpable mass on the left side of the neck, had biopsy last June - request for histopath"

the next day FRIDAY. instead of going back to SLEC i went back to my onco and showed him the request letter from SLEC. i then explained to him that i underwent a medical exam for my u.s. visa application and needed to present a clear medical certificate and histopath so they can approved my medical exam. my doctor who is also a doctor in st. lukes medical center (the main hospital) told me, if only he knew that il leave for the states he should have had it excised. he suggested that for my own sake, its better for me to have it removed while im still here. he made me a medical certificate but the problem was the obviously, i cant show the histopath that says "SUGGEST RE-BIOPSY" to SLEC. cus they will surely ask me to repeat it again. so i agreed to my onco doctor to have it excised.

yesterday i had the excision biopsy and just like what iv said on my 1st post here. they took 2 samples. for benign and malignancy that's being brought to the laboratory of chinese gen and the TB culture that we brought to ST LUKES MEDICAL CENTER.

on thursday,il go back to chinese gen to have my follow check up. i will ask my doctor for a medical certificate about the operation i had and ofcourse the histopath.. my question is... since the doctor who did physical exam on me asked for the histopath, can i go back to SLEC, let say on friday and hand the medical certificate and histopath that il get from my onco on thursday? and in Jesus name, the result of it will be negative for cancer.

I hope and pray (I did include you in my prayers) that the result of the biopsy is benign (meaning no malignant cells). I think you can go to SLEC with the histopath result, since the examiner was asking of the histopath result only. And then we'll see what to do next.

can it be possible for me to still attend my Aug 28 interview? Yes, if the examiner will give you a clearance from SLEC.

then wait for weeks til i get the TB culture result in st. lukes MAIN, and again In Jesus name that would be negative. I hope and pray (I already did) that it's negative for Tb.

one more question...after our application has been forwarded to the USEM by NVC, how many months is it valid for interview? i mean do they have a certain span of time of when an applicant can go for an interview? does it have an expiration? You may call USEM 02-3012000 loc 5184 or 5185 to be sure.

also, let say im not sure if il be able to attend my Aug 28 interview and instead of re-scheduling, can i cancel it for a while and just call again if i already have a sure interview schedule i can attend to? cus i saw a "last date for cancellation" on the appointment confirmation email that was sent to me.. (is this cancellation date speaks ONLY for the interview or the whole K1 application?) When you call USEM, ask them this question also, I don't know for how long you can take the interview on hold.

thns again guys..without you all, i dont know wat il do..i felt that God made the situation unclear for me to just fully surrender everything up to him..which what is happening ryt now.. i fell like i cant do anything but to just trust him and let him do what he wants to do to me.

Take it easy shes, one day at a time. When God put this thing on your path, He knows you can get over it and He doesn't want you to stop. Go on, and with each step you take, call on Him. He will not leave you. Surrender everything to Him, He will give you peace. We're with you shes..

Edited July 25, 2008 by chris-lei

[chris-lei 1]

[shes 0]

salamat sanyong lahat ha.. chris-lei thank you ha..im humbling myself before God, he's bringing me down on my knees and cry. only him can make things clearer for me and through all of you here, i can really sense his power working in me and my fiance's journey.

thanks with all of my heart.. il kip u updated for what will happen to our case..

[Brad and Vika 129]

Stay strong and hang in there. God will never give you a heavier burden than you can carry. He knows your strength even when you don't. Take care.

[shes 0]

Stay strong and hang in there. God will never give you a heavier burden than you can carry. He knows your strength even when you don't. Take care.

i agree...thanks brad and vika for ur encouragements..

[phil and nanz 0]

hi shes god will make a way for you, don't lose hope keep on praying and soon you'll be together again!

i feel for you, god bless you.

nanz

[shes 0]

hi shes god will make a way for you, don't lose hope keep on praying and soon you'll be together again!

i feel for you, god bless you.

nanz

thanks nanz.. im so blessed to ave all of you guys. thanks you..

[shes 0]

thank you everyone im done with my medical exam i can go to my original interview schedule which is on Aug 28!!!! Thank God!!!