Frustrated

[lostinlove228 0]

Just remember that all the hell we are going through is for our happiness in the future. It is Ok to Sacrifice your Short term Wants for your long term Goals. Hang in there. It will all work out in the end.

[Together4ever 1]

Just remember that all the hell we are going through is for our happiness in the future. It is Ok to Sacrifice your Short term Wants for your long term Goals. Hang in there. It will all work out in the end.

Beautiful point. Mohammed defines love as sacrifice... sometimes with a smile, sometimes with a tear, but alhamdulellah for that love. Hang in there Amy. Still thinking about you...

[MaryandMian 1]

Hope your having a better day today. Sometimes a little melt down is what we need to rejuvenate and move forward again.

Hugs,

Mary

[iceyspots 0]

yesss new day...

[UmmSqueakster 54]

soon you guys will have years and years and years to spend together inshaAllah

[amal 4]

Don't worry about griping too much..that's what we're here for girl... I always try to remember that God will not give us any more than we can handle.....although sometimes it feels like we're going to break....somehow we get thru it.....i'm prayin for ya.

amal

[Jenn! 918]

Perhaps printing out the emails and putting them on a dartboard will help. It always helps me to feel better to physically (but harmlessly) get out my anger.

Hang in there....

[babybunny 2]

I'm not here to complain....OK yes I am , but I just want you gals to see this emotional torture I have been going though with the embassy in Cairo. We had our interview on February 14th. They told us "6 weeks you will have your visa" March 26th, I get a wild hair and email the embassy. There response is:

Dear Sir/Madam,

Thank you for sending your e-mail message, the case was pending administrative process and will be issued and send to applicant shortly.

Regards,

Consular Staff

HOLY #######! We are sooooo excited......BUT, the next morning I check my email and see this:

Dear Madam,

Thank you for your email. His case still under administrative check from Washington, once we receive his clearance, we will process the case to conclusion.

Regards,

Consular Staff

#######????? You told me yesterday it WAS PENDING

The middle of April, I decide to call the DOS and they tell me that his security checks were cleared on April 5th!! So....I email the embassy again and the response is:

Dear Madam,

Mr. XXXs case was pending a routine administrative check that was conducted at the Department of State in Washington. This check has been completed, and the consular officer will issue his visa shortly.

Regards,

Consular Staff

OMG!!!! We are excited again! My man gets a wild hair and calls TNT and the guy tells him "OH.....we will deliver to you on Saturday! We are freakin happy! BUT, Saturday comes and goes and NOTHING. Then he calls and they have no idea what he is talking about.

I email the embassy again over the weekend and now this is what they say.....

Dear Sir, (Hello....I am NOT a sir)

Thank you for your email.

Unfortunately additional administrative check is required for your case. Once we finish our procedures, we will notify you.

Regards,

Consular staff

What the he$$ is up with this? I am at work when I see this and I just fell apart. How can they play with our minds, hearts and lives like this? I did call the DOS again and the lady did verify this. When I asked why he was cleared a few weeks ago, and now the embassy sent it back to them, she had no answer for me. I really never knew I could possibly ever feel so low. I came home and cried all day today and I am sitting here at my computer crying. My head hurts and I swear I'm on the verge of a panic attack. (never had these boogers till I started this process)Before I knew he was back on checks I contacted my congressman who asked me for all his information, but I guess not that he is in checks again, nothing can be done.

I just feel lost. I have lost friends over this process (guess they were not my friends eh?) and I feel I don't have a lot of people I can talk to about this including my family. I know I relay on a lot of you gals here so I apoligize if I get on your nerves with my complaining. I just want my man with me.

the samething happend to me. hang in there and call the DOS again!!!

I have been calling them everyday - I know they tired of hearing from shonnie.

at this point I dont care...

I lost all my friends too. but, like you I have my family my sister and my parents are my biggest support.

you can complain - its ok!

Have you contacetd your congressmen or senator ? When I was going crazy they answered all of my questions that I couldnt get answerd through NVC or the embassy. Maybe they can tell you what's really going on. Good luck !

Yes, I did contact my congressman and he sent me a letter requesting all his info, case number, etc. which I did send to him. However.....this was before he case went back into checks again. I've been told that once in checks, there is nothing a congressman can do. I called his office today and told them there was a change in the case, gave them the details and they asked to see all the conflicting emails. Maybe one he is out of checks and they take their time, something can be done then.

our security check cleared Jan 13th.. then they said case compleate Jan 18th. I double checked like you did

jan 19th - case compleate. we wait...and wait...and wait.. and wait. low and be hold

they put us back on security checks Mar 6th. <<<<< again >>> and so we wait< I call DOS> ,

we wait < I call dos >, we wait I call dos>. thats the story of my life.

Edited May 21, 2006 by shonjaved

[Veiled Princess 1]

I'm sorry you're feeling so down Amy. I'm in the same boat with you lately. I hope you get your mans visa soon and me too inshallah.

[esperando 0]

Sorry,

I would just keep bugging them and maybe try and call and talk to someone and when u call everytime try and talk with and e-mail the same person, that may cut down the run around?????????

Thats all I can say!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stay persistant.

Allison

[Susan&Aziz 0]

Aymerlu,

Hang it there sweetie, you WILL see him again. We gotta live one day at a time with this, (easier said than done), keep hoping, till he has that visa in hand. We are in AP right now in Morocco. Everything is going to be okay. And man, when these men finally arrive.....I don't ever want to spend a night away from him again! Amen?