And so it ends...

[Wei&Shu(Joe) 2]

Wow this is a tough one!

You have decided to cancel the petition witch is your full right but dont you think you should talk to her first? You said that she is doing it for money so why do you think that she is chaeting on you? I am not taking her side but i will surely not judge anybody for trying to make a living as long as that person is not harming anyone. What i am trying to say is that i dont believe that anybody will do such things just for fun. I dont know where she comes from and i dont know her financial situation but maybe to her thats the only way to support herself and her family. I can understand that you are disappointed because you found out by mistake and not from her but still there must be a reason why she is doing it. You will surely feel better about your decision when you know WHY she has been doing that typ of WORK, yes i call it WORK because once again, i can't imagine such thing to be fun. You also said that you had never been happier befor so i guess she felt the same way about you or she is a good actor but only you can tell. After all you decided to file the petition because you thought she loves you the way you love her so why don't you take your time and think back befor taking any action?

I wish you good luck and may God help you to make the right decision!

She has put the O/P's life in danger (AIDS).

You're doing the right thing, as long as you are sure it is her. IMHO

Come on now, how many people put their partner's life in danger (AIDS) everyday without doing what she is doing?

I like this logic. Putting your SO's life in danger is OK as long as some other person is doing it too. If he was the only person in the world whose life was put in danger by an SO then it would be wrong. Correct?

Is your SO aware of your philosophy? Well honey, as long as someone else is abusing someone somewhere, I don't see why I should have to stop!

[Wei&Shu(Joe) 2]

Wow this is a tough one!

You have decided to cancel the petition witch is your full right but dont you think you should talk to her first? You said that she is doing it for money so why do you think that she is chaeting on you? I am not taking her side but i will surely not judge anybody for trying to make a living as long as that person is not harming anyone. What i am trying to say is that i dont believe that anybody will do such things just for fun. I dont know where she comes from and i dont know her financial situation but maybe to her thats the only way to support herself and her family. I can understand that you are disappointed because you found out by mistake and not from her but still there must be a reason why she is doing it. You will surely feel better about your decision when you know WHY she has been doing that typ of WORK, yes i call it WORK because once again, i can't imagine such thing to be fun. You also said that you had never been happier befor so i guess she felt the same way about you or she is a good actor but only you can tell. After all you decided to file the petition because you thought she loves you the way you love her so why don't you take your time and think back befor taking any action?

I wish you good luck and may God help you to make the right decision!

She has put the O/P's life in danger (AIDS).

You're doing the right thing, as long as you are sure it is her. IMHO

Come on now, how many people put their partner's life in danger (AIDS) everyday without doing what she is doing?

I like this logic. Putting your SO's life in danger is OK as long as some other person is doing it too. If he was the only person in the world whose life was put in danger by an SO then it would be wrong. Correct?

Is your SO aware of your philosophy? Well honey, as long as someone else is abusing someone somewhere, I don't see why I should have to stop!

To the OP: Glad you found out sooner rather than later. Hope the lessons learned will allow you to find a really great woman really soon! Good luck!