SAD SAD :(

[sarko 0]

FOr real ! hahahhaha yall need to get a life !!!! LMAO , cuz you don't understand at all ! Yes I chose to come here...... but that's not the problem ! the problem comes from being stuck in the US and not being able to go back home or travel internationally with my family like we used to. hahhaha I don't have time reading self centered people anymore cuz yall make me gag.

Again if you have a solution or suggestion or something to say DO NOT JUDGE OR TRY TO BE A SMART A$$.

Thanks again ! Gros Bisous a vous tous !! Mwaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

Again, I do not need you lecture ! mind your own business if you just want to lecture me and judge me. I do not need your advice at all cuz you don't know where what im saying. so chill out. Yes I wanna be free, and you do not know what Free means ! cuz let's say you go to Iraq, and not having any of your family around you, no friend... and that they say that you are stuck in there that you will not be able to comeback in the USA, what would you feel??? do you wanna be in a prison??

With all due respect.... chill, man.

People here are trying to give you advice that will help you. Even if someone's words are a bit more harsh than they could be, they still have good intentions and want to show you your ideas are wrong.

You live in a country you compared to a prison, you chose to come here, you married a citizen of that country and your son will also be a citizen of that "prison". The way it seems now, you'll probably spend your life here, or one significant part of it anyway. You're saying American women "fool people", you're saying you want to divorce your wife and be free.. Yeah, you didn't explain how exactly you meant it, but if someone concludes what they did, can you really blame them? Don't be rude and say "you don't need advice at all" because that's simply a lie. You're here because you need advice. You have no idea what to do now and how complicated it is to marry a foreigner.. and you need all advice you can get.

Luckily, you came to the right place. This forum is full of people who have learned a lot about how USCIS works and listening to them and following the guides you can save a lot of time, money and effort.

The way I see it, you should be totally ok. You married a US citizen and you have the right to adjust your status from an alien into a legal resident. What you have to do is prove that the last time you entered USA on a non-immigrant visa (like your student visa) you didn't intend to become an immigrant. With your wifes pregnancy you can prove easily you were... well... caught by surprise with the pregnancy (my guess anyway) and you got married because of her pregnancy (pregnancy not being the only reason obviously but let's just say it sped up things).

The best to start is reading reading the FAQ's and Guides. You need to adjust your status and ask for a Green Card. Before you get a Green Card, you can't travel in and out of country freely unless you have AP (Advanced Parole).

Whatever you do, good luck to you. And congratulations on the wedding and the pregnancy.

Edited July 5, 2008 by babushka

[jundp 191]

Again, I do not need you lecture ! mind your own business if you just want to lecture me and judge me.

Who are you to tell me that I don't care about my wife and my future baby?? if I didn't mind I wouldn't try to find a solution. but again I love my wifey but I'm not ready to be locked in a country without any possibilities to visit my FAMILY whevever something happens or whenever I want! I' want

I don't think anyone is attacking or lecturing you, babushka. People are trying to give you information based on what you have said, and based on experience and age. You have stated that you and your wife aren't very "mature" and you are actually asking for advice. If you can't take the reality that is presented to you, then you should not ask for advice.

Also, you are now married with a child on the way. They are your FAMILY now. They should come first.

Like I said ! don't lecture me, and stop BS me !!! cuz I can't sit here and listen to people that do not have nothing to do except bashing people.

pushbrk Yes I'm man enough to not want to be lectured and judged, and if you don't like that close the window or do not click on my thread ! it's too simple !

No one is bashing you. People are asking you to look at the situation in the way you've presented it. Of course it's difficult to not see your family for long periods of time, but how on earth will divorcing your wife be a better situation?

[jundp 191]

FOr real ! hahahhaha yall need to get a life !!!! LMAO , cuz you don't understand at all ! Yes I chose to come here...... but that's not the problem ! the problem comes from being stuck in the US and not being able to go back home or travel internationally with my family like we used to. hahhaha I don't have time reading self centered people anymore cuz yall make me gag.

Again if you have a solution or suggestion or something to say DO NOT JUDGE OR TRY TO BE A SMART A$$.

Thanks again ! Gros Bisous a vous tous !! Mwaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

Really? I mean...really? Seriously? People are giving you advice and offering a point of view, but you don't want to hear it because it's not what you like? There are solutions, suggestions, and opinions in this thread. Unfortunately you don't like any of them.

You say people here are self centered? You've attacked a poster who is offering advice and suggestions, and made a ridiculous comment about "I speak more languages than you" and then you say you want to be "free" and "see your family" when your wife and unborn child are here. You call us selfish?

Wow.

Just. Wow.

[przy 0]

If his visa expires in 2011, that is 3 years. Many things can change in 3 years, the wife could have a job by then, and be able to do the affidavit herself. Can't they wait a few years until their economic situation is better and then adjust? they have until the expiration of his visa to do so, right?

(I'm thinking out loud, corrections/ additional advice appreciated)

I'm no expert (far from it) but from what I understand he could do that if he stays in the US. If he leaves and wants to come back on a student visa, he'll have problems.

That is correct because unless any future US entry will be with intent to immigrate. Your freedom to enter and re-enter goes away once you marry a US Citizen. You are then deemed to have immigrant intent (because you do) and that's not allowed when entering with a student visa.

The OP already understands that. It's why he started the thread and feels like he's being jailed inside the borders of the US until he completes AOS and has a green card.

Pushbrk, I think you hit the nail right on the head. Anyway though.....

I don't really have any input for you other than good luck with the child on the way and I do hope (for the sake of the kid) that everything works out okay in the end.

Edited July 5, 2008 by przy

[sarko 0]

hahaha, mais les gens n'ont rien a faire dans ce pays la ! pff anyways again, do not judge, but Thanks for the advice !!

Bisous

[Cassie 8]

I'm not going to even bother.

[sarko 0]

hahhaha, you just bothered yourself honey ! LMFAO

Cassie

[jundp 191]

hahhaha, you just bothered yourself honey ! LMFAO

Cassie

Honey?

Why did you want to come here to go to school if you have such disdain for this country? Wouldn't it be easier to return to your own country with your wife and child, finish school in freedom in your country, and thus have all that you want?

[Cassie 8]

hahhaha, you just bothered yourself honey ! LMFAO

Cassie

I ain't your "honey" -- only one person gets away with that.

And my sympathy for your situation is quickly waning.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

A wise man takes advantage of the resources at his disposal rather than denigrates and wastes them. Since you are obviously not interested in hearing any information that differs from what you want to hear as you consistently reject it (an observation, not a judgment) there really isn't anyone on this forum who is able to help you. You have already been given the answer to your question. I am sorry you didn't like it.

Good luck to you and your family. It looks like you are experiencing one of life's more useful lessons: that choices have consequences, and even though we don't like the consequences of our choices, eventually we have to deal with them.

[przy 0]

hahaha, mais les gens n'ont rien a faire dans ce pays la ! pff anyways again, do not judge, but Thanks for the advice !!

Bisous

tu etes comme un enfant...ne pas demander le conseil. personne ne peuvent tu aider parce que tu etes ignorant. tu ne lisez pas ce que tu voulez lire. peut etre tu devriez demander a tus amis qui parlent francais. tu le comprendrez mieux.

no one is judging, they are attempting to help you out... doofe kuh.

Edited July 5, 2008 by przy

[przy 0]

How 'bout them Dodgers?

[sarko 0]

hahah, parles bien Francais !! pfff if can't speak French, shush then ! hhahahaha yall make me gag ! j'ai pas le temps pour ecouter des conneries, hehe je vous emmerde !!

I will not say Honey anymore, now it's BooBoo Cassie

You right ! I will go back to France ASAP booboo !!! it's not I do not like the USA but I want my right !! hehe get a life and don't be hatin

mwahhhhh

[przy 0]

I have nothing against French people, mister. Be careful with your words. I said you would possibly understand what people are saying if you read it in French seeing as though you think people are attacking you and we [Americans] "have nothing better to do" After all, I could bash your English, but that wouldn't be nice considering as you are making an attempt to communicate with us. Anyway, if you don't like what you're reading, perhaps you should seek advice from somewhere else?

Arschloch.

Edited July 5, 2008 by przy

[sarko 0]

hahah, you see the red X in right top corner??? just click there, lol and leave me alone! get a life

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