Friend Gets Goodbye Email from Fiance

[slim 1,533]

I was amazed that a man who sees that they are being scammed still continues on the fantasy that this person actually exists or even cares about them.

We get married all the time; that's the biggest scam of all!

Slim, I always wonder how Jerry Springer became may or of your great city. After reading your entries, I know how.

It is funny when I was over foreign countries and having the advantage of speaking the language in the city that I was in, I hear men and women planning to screw over some American. Because you are my neighbour and always thought you were our friends, I always warned these guys what was going to happen. When I was in Nikolaev, I was in bar with American Soldier from Iraq, although he had fiancee that supposely loved, he was finding extra entertainment with another lady. I heard her say that she was interested in wallet and phone to another man in the disco. I warned him, but like Kirk, ignored it. When I was leaving, I told the bouncers that if he lost his documentation being being American military, there will be Sh*t to pay for and they are the ones who were going to pay. I saw him the next day and he had only his phone stolen. Next time, I will not interfere. When I am in the USA, if someone is robbing someone, I will do the thing you suggest and walk away, because it is none of my business.

Slim, again you are right who friggin cares. If fellow Americans are getting scammed or the green card scam, the screw them. Their problem. If a whole city with an unique culture in the world, become infiltrated with mafia to become the scam capital of the Eastern Block, not my problem. Let them eat carp.

If I decide to move to America, I will remember your advice. Do not help anyone but yourself. If someone is getting scammed, robbed, murdered, or raped, that is their problem. Again, now I understand how Jerry Springer was your mayor.

I'm glad you're such a good Samaritan and I'm not saying you shouldn't help those that need it. I'm just pointing out that after you've "helped" them, you're keen to rub mud in their faces wherever possible and sometimes doing so outweighs the "help" that you've done for them.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I was amazed that a man who sees that they are being scammed still continues on the fantasy that this person actually exists or even cares about them.

We get married all the time; that's the biggest scam of all!

Slim, I always wonder how Jerry Springer became may or of your great city. After reading your entries, I know how.

It is funny when I was over foreign countries and having the advantage of speaking the language in the city that I was in, I hear men and women planning to screw over some American. Because you are my neighbour and always thought you were our friends, I always warned these guys what was going to happen. When I was in Nikolaev, I was in bar with American Soldier from Iraq, although he had fiancee that supposely loved, he was finding extra entertainment with another lady. I heard her say that she was interested in wallet and phone to another man in the disco. I warned him, but like Kirk, ignored it. When I was leaving, I told the bouncers that if he lost his documentation being being American military, there will be Sh*t to pay for and they are the ones who were going to pay. I saw him the next day and he had only his phone stolen. Next time, I will not interfere. When I am in the USA, if someone is robbing someone, I will do the thing you suggest and walk away, because it is none of my business.

Slim, again you are right who friggin cares. If fellow Americans are getting scammed or the green card scam, the screw them. Their problem. If a whole city with an unique culture in the world, become infiltrated with mafia to become the scam capital of the Eastern Block, not my problem. Let them eat carp.

If I decide to move to America, I will remember your advice. Do not help anyone but yourself. If someone is getting scammed, robbed, murdered, or raped, that is their problem. Again, now I understand how Jerry Springer was your mayor.

I'm glad you're such a good Samaritan and I'm not saying you shouldn't help those that need it. I'm just pointing out that after you've "helped" them, you're keen to rub mud in their faces wherever possible and sometimes doing so outweighs the "help" that you've done for them.

Thanks for interpreting Slim. If Paul would just talk about scammers, etc. in the context of his own visa journey (or state that he is lurking and confine his comments to the general or off topic forums) I for one would be happy to converse with him. I just will not buy into what I perceive to be a vendetta - even though the target of the vendetta remains unclear to me.

[Ban Hammer 14,476]

We get married all the time; that's the biggest scam of all!

[slim 1,533]

Thanks for interpreting Slim. If Paul would just talk about scammers, etc. in the context of his own visa journey (or state that he is lurking and confine his comments to the general or off topic forums) I for one would be happy to converse with him. I just will not buy into what I perceive to be a vendetta - even though the target of the vendetta remains unclear to me.

There are two targets here on VJ.

One is M, the other, and root cause of the problem is N. M is merely a target becuase he was "chosen" over K, even if only for a little while, and even if only to be "targeted" for a scam by N. The mere fact that M was shown any attention from N necessitated K to "target" him.

N is the real cause of all the problems. K is still infatuated with N. He's probably past the point of actaully loving her anymore but what started out as a whimsical puppy-dog romance turned into a real betrayal. K despises N, although he's still obsesed with her because to right the betrayal and heartbreak she caused him, he must first "win her back" by ruining her life through cancelling the advances of all other "suitors" thus leaving himself as the last man standing, so to speak.

She'll have no choice but to come back to him, at which point, he'll be able to exact his revenge on her by building her trust and confidence, ensuring that she's extended feelings for him.... only to crush her and repay the heartbreak that she's caused him.

He believes he can see her suffer the pain and anguish that he's endured for all these years if he can only blacklist her to the point that no one else will talk to her and she'll come crawling back to him. Then he can exact his revenge. Then, even though she scammed him all those years ago, he has now turned the tides and brought her little game full circle back on herself. Then, and only then, is he "the winner."

But now, he's "happy" with another woman. He's beyond all that. He doesn't need to see the master plan followed through.

Yet he's still here. Still posting negative information about M and telling us how horrible N is. How he's just trying to "help" all of us.

I think it's painfully obvious who needs the "help" around here.

[Ban Hammer 14,476]

Thanks for interpreting Slim. If Paul would just talk about scammers, etc. in the context of his own visa journey (or state that he is lurking and confine his comments to the general or off topic forums) I for one would be happy to converse with him. I just will not buy into what I perceive to be a vendetta - even though the target of the vendetta remains unclear to me.

There are two targets here on VJ.

One is M, the other, and root cause of the problem is N. M is merely a target becuase he was "chosen" over K, even if only for a little while, and even if only to be "targeted" for a scam by N. The mere fact that M was shown any attention from N necessitated K to "target" him.

N is the real cause of all the problems. K is still infatuated with N. He's probably past the point of actaully loving her anymore but what started out as a whimsical puppy-dog romance turned into a real betrayal. K despises N, although he's still obsesed with her because to right the betrayal and heartbreak she caused him, he must first "win her back" by ruining her life through cancelling the advances of all other "suitors" thus leaving himself as the last man standing, so to speak.

She'll have no choice but to come back to him, at which point, he'll be able to exact his revenge on her by building her trust and confidence, ensuring that she's extended feelings for him.... only to crush her and repay the heartbreak that she's caused him.

He believes he can see her suffer the pain and anguish that he's endured for all these years if he can only blacklist her to the point that no one else will talk to her and she'll come crawling back to him. Then he can exact his revenge. Then, even though she scammed him all those years ago, he has now turned the tides and brought her little game full circle back on herself. Then, and only then, is he "the winner."

But now, he's "happy" with another woman. He's beyond all that. He doesn't need to see the master plan followed through.

Yet he's still here. Still posting negative information about M and telling us how horrible N is. How he's just trying to "help" all of us.

I think it's painfully obvious who needs the "help" around here.

me, because all of this M and N and K sounds like a dayum algebra problem!

[slim 1,533]

Well, that's what's nice about VJ, life, relationships, and trolling CBs like K. People are like algebraic puzzles. There are always variables, but when it comes down to it, you can use the laws to solve for X or any other "unknown" factors becuase even though there are differences in each situation, the constants stay the same and the laws never change.

[Brad and Vika 129]

Well, that's what's nice about VJ, life, relationships, and trolling CBs like K. People are like algebraic puzzles. There are always variables, but when it comes down to it, you can use the laws to solve for X or any other "unknown" factors becuase even though there are differences in each situation, the constants stay the same and the laws never change.

I have a headache now I wonder what kind of pie Paul thinks Mox believes Nadya must prefer on Tuesdays?

[Jeraly 4]

Name is mentioned above Irina

Met her Nikolaev.

I am not from Russia, but Canada

Her family so far likes me. Father is away often so never met him yet. It is different in Canada, I have to invite via tourist visa, there is no Fiance Visa. So I have to build her passport so she can visit or else marriage in Ukraine then bring her over. I knew one man who did this and his marriage last only 2 weeks in Canada. Once they land in Canada, they can apply landed immigrant status which is equivalent almost to citizenship. Like I said, the American system is superior, so I need to find the rules about myself being in the USA and bring someone over.

No, not really, just more dyslexia

As a teacher I think you spell remarkably well for a dyslexic...

I don't know who to pity any more or who to feel sad for; Korat for following Mox onto VJ or Mox for hanging around VJ despite not having a "visajourney" anymore.

I don't know, I have had this commented on in other threads I frequent and the general consensus is that everyone has made friends here and remain to keep in touch with them and find out how they are getting on

[Satellite 1]

I don't know, I have had this commented on in other threads I frequent and the general consensus is that everyone has made friends here and remain to keep in touch with them and find out how they are getting on

I have always tried to be strictly business on here. Joined to find out how to get my fiancée here after her tourist visa was denied. Did that, long before there were many members. Very happy for it. Kept learning and then began preaching advice on how to get it done. Never cared as to anything else and my time on here is coming to an end too. Oath Ceremony scheduled for next Monday. The DS-11 remains the last form to fill out - application for passport Overall I don't see much use for VJ, once the journey is over; in my case it will still be a useful resource for my immigration cases. Why re-invent the wheel?! Edited July 29, 2008 by Satellite

[LvivLovers 39]

[Overall I don't see much use for VJ, once the journey is over; in my case it will still be a useful resource for my immigration cases. Why re-invent the wheel?!

A likely excuse to keep coming back here. Why can't you just admit that deep down you really love us?!?!

[slim 1,533]

Yeah! You've gotta admit, there's something really intriguing about the VJ Russia Forum. So many crazy people in one place! As Korat says, it's like the Jerry Springer show around here. Everyone loves the Jerry Springer show! (Even if they hate it!)

[Bobalouie 0]

Yeah! You've gotta admit, there's something really intriguing about the VJ Russia Forum. So many crazy people in one place! As Korat says, it's like the Jerry Springer show around here. Everyone loves the Jerry Springer show! (Even if they hate it!)

Hmmm..."intriguing" is an interesting albeit accurate choice of words. Quite frankly I'll take the normal variety of snark and heated discussions on the merits of fruit-filled vs cream-filled over demented stalker "wahhhh feel my paaaain" meltdowns any day. But that's just me.

Sniff...Sniff, sniff...I smell cake!

[Bobalouie 0]

Sniff...Sniff, sniff...I smell cake!

Leave now...and never return.

(Someday when I rule the world, all other pies except banana cream will be rounded up and summarily executed. As for cake...I have a special place in mind for cake and cake eaters. Muahahahaha!)

[Brad and Vika 129]

What pray tell, is wrong with cake?

[slim 1,533]

Yeah! You've gotta admit, there's something really intriguing about the VJ Russia Forum. So many crazy people in one place! As Korat says, it's like the Jerry Springer show around here. Everyone loves the Jerry Springer show! (Even if they hate it!)

Hmmm..."intriguing" is an interesting albeit accurate choice of words. Quite frankly I'll take the normal variety of snark and heated discussions on the merits of fruit-filled vs cream-filled over demented stalker "wahhhh feel my paaaain" meltdowns any day. But that's just me.

It's like seeing an accident on the highway. You have no need to look.... but you can't help it. Same with a morbidly obese person or the mildly retarded kid down the street. You know how they are and what they are and probably have even seen someone like them before..... but you still have to look anyway.

...I have a special place in mind for cake and cake eaters.

Whenever I see "cake eaters" I can't help but remember the movie Mighty Ducks (Disney hockey movie with Emilio Estevez) and how the big insult they threw around was "watch out, cake eater." It was like calling someone a cake eater was the worst thing in the world. My brothers and I still throw the occasional "cake eater" around when we're trying to keep it PG.

Emilio Estevez always reminds me of Night at the Roxbury....... "so I turned around and guess who it was..... Emilio Estevez! Whooooo! The Mighty Duck man himself. I was like, 'Emilioooooooo. Emiliooooo.' Whoooo" "He was. I was there." "Whooo." "Whooo." "So do you wanna make out, or what?"