HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

[De & Al 0]

TO ALL THE MOTHER'S, HAVE A VERY SPECIAL DAY

[MichelleandCraig 1]

awwww yes...Happy Mother's Day to ALL the moms, mums,mommys,etc..out there!! :) M.

[Fandango 1,439]

*bites tongue and faints*

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY LADIES!!!!!

[Leafgal 3]

*fans LisaD* are you ok.....

[iceyspots 0]

I'm not a mum... yet But mom is getting pampering today hehe

[Mirorgate 0]

Yes, best wishes to all the proud (and sometimes not proud*) mothers out there!

*As attested from my mom before

[iceyspots 0]

Go moms!

[I'm Gone 60]

Told wife after she made my morning cup of coffee to punch out and take the rest of the day off, because I care. LOL Happy Mother's Day.

[dalegg 143]

I'm getting a lot of heat from my wife about this today.

My mother and I have extremely strained relations. In fact we didn't see eachother for the 8 years before my wife got here, until last Mother's day. In the past year we've had another falling out and I'm very hesitant to meet with her again, but my wife is disturbed by me leaving my mother and grandmother in an old folks home without visiting them on mother's day and she keeps handing me the telephone. What am going to do..?

[Fandango 1,439]

I'm getting a lot of heat from my wife about this today.

My mother and I have extremely strained relations. In fact we didn't see eachother for the 8 years before my wife got here, until last Mother's day. In the past year we've had another falling out and I'm very hesitant to meet with her again, but my wife is disturbed by me leaving my mother and grandmother in an old folks home without visiting them on mother's day and she keeps handing me the telephone. What am going to do..?

Only you know what you're comfortable with & the extent of how bad things are.

I think there are certain instances where no contact ever again is warranted...but how would you feel if God forbid this was their last Mother's Day? If you can say 'I wouldnt' second guess my choice' then do what you are comfortable with. If you can even think that there might be the slightest hint of you saying 'i should have done....' then that's the time for some soul searching on your part.

Good luck, whatever you choose

[Welshcookie 17]

I'm getting a lot of heat from my wife about this today.

My mother and I have extremely strained relations. In fact we didn't see eachother for the 8 years before my wife got here, until last Mother's day. In the past year we've had another falling out and I'm very hesitant to meet with her again, but my wife is disturbed by me leaving my mother and grandmother in an old folks home without visiting them on mother's day and she keeps handing me the telephone. What am going to do..?

Only you know what you're comfortable with & the extent of how bad things are.

I think there are certain instances where no contact ever again is warranted...but how would you feel if God forbid this was their last Mother's Day? If you can say 'I wouldnt' second guess my choice' then do what you are comfortable with. If you can even think that there might be the slightest hint of you saying 'i should have done....' then that's the time for some soul searching on your part.

Good luck, whatever you choose

I think you should let it go today....If all you are doing is paying lip service cos it 's Mother's Day and it 'seems' the thing to do. If you really want to make things up with your mother do it because it is what you think is right and not because of emotional pressure of one day of the year. But that is just my thoughts. Good luck with what you decide to do

Happy Moms Day to all of you mums here...

Edited May 14, 2006 by welshcookie

[terri o'neale 0]

I'm getting a lot of heat from my wife about this today.

My mother and I have extremely strained relations. In fact we didn't see eachother for the 8 years before my wife got here, until last Mother's day. In the past year we've had another falling out and I'm very hesitant to meet with her again, but my wife is disturbed by me leaving my mother and grandmother in an old folks home without visiting them on mother's day and she keeps handing me the telephone. What am going to do..?

Only you know what you're comfortable with & the extent of how bad things are.

I think there are certain instances where no contact ever again is warranted...but how would you feel if God forbid this was their last Mother's Day? If you can say 'I wouldnt' second guess my choice' then do what you are comfortable with. If you can even think that there might be the slightest hint of you saying 'i should have done....' then that's the time for some soul searching on your part.

Good luck, whatever you choose

I think you should let it go today....If all you are doing is paying lip service cos it 's Mother's Day and it 'seems' the thing to do. If you really want to make things up with your mother do it because it is what you think is right and not because of emotional pressure of one day of the year. But that is just my thoughts. Good luck with what you decide to do

Happy Moms Day to all of you mums here...

I have discovered that one of the biggest tasks of being an adult is learning to love & accept our parents for their faults. For me, I was raised in a very racist home. My relaionship with my mom has been strained since I became an adult. When I started to see Paul, I knew that would be the end. My mother when i told her said some very hurtful things. But I decided to just keep talking to her. Funny thing is that things got better and better. Then one day I told her how much what she said had hurt me. She actually apologized...and said that the color of his skin didn't matter. Things were and are good. But that doesn't change their faults...or yours for that matter. Talking to my mom today to wish her a happy mothers day...she used the N word. I almost cried. She didn't even realize what she did. She doesn't see my husband or our child like that. But rather than saying anything, I just kept talking. She's my Mom...I won't have her forever. My black child that loves to hear her grandma's voice will probably not even remember her. I can't let the past control our future. Or that's what I've come to realize. Besides as a Mom I've made mistakes and probably will make more...I hope by forgiving my mom...I'm building good Karma for them to forgive me too.

[Indo_mommy 0]

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all the mothers and mothers to be.

[dalegg 143]

Okay, so ultimately I called my grandmother, then my mother and after they go out for brunch, my mother will be doing something she's never done before-come to my house. This should be interesting....

[Leafgal 3]

Okay, so ultimately I called my grandmother, then my mother and after they go out for brunch, my mother will be doing something she's never done before-come to my house. This should be interesting....

Well Dale I hope it goes ok for you all.