Where did she go?

[Brad and Vika 129]

**Cues Willie Nelson's On the Road Again**

[Ban Hammer 13,252]

**Cues Willie Nelson's On the Road Again**

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Monica was still out of the restauraunt salon as he reiterated how Monica runs through her money as if it was water. "I can't afford to send anything. She loves me regardless..." I told Benoit. "We talk every night on the phone, and thats about all I can afford."

Benoit looked a little upset, but confident, as if trying to overcome odds that are stacked against their long-distance. Trying this hard in a situation complicated by distance and their ages seemed like a marathon task. It did not seem natural nor easy, but he was after a young Colombian beauty, and nobody said high-maintenance is ever easy. All I can do is wish Benito some luck. Suerte, amigo.

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Another selection from our soundtrack from Barranquilla...

I'm talking in my sleep

And every full moon light

I fight against my sin

And I just don't know why

I wonder, what it is

That makes me feel alright

Waiting for the one

Is going make my life

I try to stand back

'Cause in my dreams at night

I meet a pretty girl

is going make my life

I'm trying to forget

The fact that its a dream

Saying to myself

That even dreams are real

That even dreams are real (x2)

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all I need, and all I see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i ever dream about is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i need & all i see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all I need, and all I see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i ever dream about is you

All I need, and all I see is you (x2)

And all I ever dream about is you

[almaty 19]

brother ken, keep it coming...

[Ken y Leidys 20]

[Ken] "Leidys -- Voy a llamarle en la noche como las 10:30. Estoy en mi hogar, cansado

pero feliz en nuestro relaccion. Te amo demasiado. Este video es un cancion de

nuestro fin de semana cuando nos acostemos en Domingo. Lo Recuerdes???"

[Leidys] "GRACIAS POR EL VIDEO ME ENCANTO MUCHO, CUANDO VENGAS NUEVAMENTE A COLOMBIA ME GUSTARIA ESCUCHARLO DE NUEVO CONTIGO A TU LADO, ABRAZADOS, BESANDONOS QUE RICO."

Another selection from our soundtrack from Barranquilla...

I'm talking in my sleep

And every full moon light

I fight against my sin

And I just don't know why

I wonder, what it is

That makes me feel alright

Waiting for the one

Is going make my life

I try to stand back

'Cause in my dreams at night

I meet a pretty girl

is going make my life

I'm trying to forget

The fact that its a dream

Saying to myself

That even dreams are real

That even dreams are real (x2)

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all I need, and all I see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i ever dream about is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i need & all i see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all I need, and all I see is you

Don't wake me up, don't let me go

'Cause all i ever dream about is you

All I need, and all I see is you (x2)

And all I ever dream about is you

[Brad and Vika 129]

Please dude - my Spanish stinks! Help a brother out

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Okay, tonight I had time to think about concluding this thread. I can't continue at this time for fear of Leidys' safety. When Onelis explained that she wanted to know Leidys' whereabouts, her name, the barrio where she lived, what schools she attended, I realized how common Onelis really was. Some of the people she has befriended are both opportunistic as well as dangerous. When I think about the great times that Leidys and I spent together last week and early this week, I can't help but think she is the one perfect companion I could have met during my lifetime. To think of her life being in danger because of a thread I started from the safety of my home in Southern California would be the most cowardly act I could commit in my life.

Tonight, Leidys and I talked about our future that we so badly want to share; the children we plan on having, our life we want to spend with each other. I cannot continue without mentioning one last detail regarding Onelis back in March '08. When I discussed this unmentionable with friends, they told me, "Onelis never loved you."

When someone goes on-line with a dating agency, they don't know how desperate the party is on the other end of those emails. To what depths they would go to earn a living, or to provide for their family. This is where International on-line dating can go from being mysterious to insane. At the time that I met Onelis, I had just suffered the loss of a 2nd friend - a Best Friend in the timeframe of 13 months. My ex-wife had survived Cancer treatment, and Systemic Lupus, but at age 33, it was not certain how long she would live.

Traveling to visit Onelis' friend in March - just to say, "Hello." I did not take to too seriously that I was walking into one of Barranquilla's most dangerous and impoverished barrios. For the past 3 years (at that point), death had surrounded me so entirely, that danger did not register on my radar. Now, with the love that I feel for Leidys, to have anything bad happen to her, I would feel such a loss that I would carry this to my own grave. So, the motivation for Onelis leaving me cannot be stated here.

In 4 or 5 years time, who knows... Onelis may have moved to another Colombian provence. But, I cannot take the chance of endangering anyone by naming names and showing pictures on this thread. So, the "Good Stuff" cannot be mentioned.

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Leidys on my first night in Barranquilla - Hotel Majestic

The Portal Del Prado foodcourt - and Farah's Arabic Restaurant. This was our favorite spot at the mall.

Edited February 20, 2009 by Ken y Onelis

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Guacherna Parade Route at dusk

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Leidys on the night of Guacherna

Cumbia musicans at Guacherna

Transgendered Guacherna Parade Dancers

Guacherna at 10 p.m.

[Ken y Leidys 20]

4 Star Luxury for ~$70/night (but, carry your own bedsheets, or the furry bugs might bite you!)

[Ken y Leidys 20]

Restaurante Don Pepe del Prado

The waiter remembered me from the numerous visits I made with Onelis previously. He kept a good sense of humor about the whole thing, and I hope he will be serving food and drinks the next time I return to Barranquilla.

[cdneh 3,112]

So. You can't afford to risk her saftey by posting pictures and names. And then you go right ahead and do that little thing.

[Corey3368 3]

Ken,

In my opinion you have nothing to worry about from Onelis. Ken if you haven't realized by now Onelis was playing you strictly for money. When the visa paperwork was coming to an end and she couldn't run the game any longer she dropped out of sight and you didn't hear from her again until you flew to Colombia and tracked her down. I don't say this to be hurtful but wake up already. She might of been stringing along a few our guys at the same time as you. The reason she wouldn't take down her profile from the dating site. She had to keep the bait in the water in case another fish came biting! On the other hand because of Onelis deceitful tactics with you a blessing was bestowed upon you by meeting Leidys. So in the end it sounds like you might of met the love of your life....Who doesn't like a ....Happy Ending!!!

Wishing you all the best!